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7 Places To Have Sex In The Office

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Sex in the office can be incredibly hot – whether your partner is a co-worker or your current flame just stopping by. There’s something super sexy about having sex at work – even if it’s just a little foreplay before you head home for the real deal. Here’s how to get it on in the workplace.

On A Desk

Of course, having sex on a desk at the office is cliche – but it’s really fun! If you’re having sex with the boss, doing it on the boss’s desk is even naughtier. If not, any desk will suffice. Find a desk hidden away in a conference room or in a cubicle in the corner of the room to avoid getting caught. Bonus points if you actually throw all of the stuff off the desk first in one sweep of your arm!

Best Sex Position: Missionary or woman on top if you both are lying on the desk. You can also have the woman sit on the desk and the man enter her standing.

Against The Filing Cabinet

This can actually be a great way to hide from your co-workers if you can find a little nook created by a few filing cabinets. Doing it up against a filing cabinet is super sexy because it’s impromptu – and has an air of naughtiness to it. Just make sure you’re not having sex up against the side of the filing cabinet that has the handles. Ouch!

Best Sex Position: Standing, of course. Depending on how tall the cabinet is, the girl could sit on the top of the cabinet while her man lifts her skirt up and per forms oral sex on her.

In The Elevator

Most of the time, you only have enough time for passionate kissing in an elevator until the doors open. However, you can extend the time you have if you’re alone by pushing the emergency stop button. This may or may not set off an alarm, so you may want to find out beforehand from the building maintenance staff if you’re going to need to make a run for it afterwards.

Best Sex Position: Standing, without removing your clothes. This is so you can high tail it out of there if you have to!

On The Stairwell

A stairwell in an office is a pretty decent place to get it on if you’re not into getting caught, because few people actually travel the stairways, especially if it’s a large building. Most people take the elevator, so why not capitalize on the laziness of your co-workers by having a quickie on the stairwell?

Best Sex Position: Doggy style. You can vary the angle of penetration by having the girl facing up the stairs or down the stairs. Also, you can use the handrail for stability!

In The Supply Closet

Having sex in the supply closet is a great way to escape during the day without getting caught. Slip away on your lunch break when no one is paying attention to where you are and have a quickie in the closet. The other benefit of doing it on your lunch break? Most of your co-workers are probably at lunch too – and not looking for supplies in the closet.

Best Sex Position: Any position that you can manage. Depending on what supplies are in the closet, you may have a lot of sex position options, or you may have very few.

In An Office Chair

This is a good option if you want to try some sitting sex positions – and this is one you can do at home if you have a home office. Have the man sit in the chair and the woman straddle him. She can move up and down to bring her vagina closer to his face if she wants a little bit of oral, or lower it down onto his shaft for deep penetration. Women, wear a loose skirt on the day you plan on doing this – you’ll be grateful that you did!

Best Sex Position: Sitting, with the woman on top. You can also do another version of oral sex here – have the receiving partner sit in the chair and the giving partner kneel with their hands and knees on the floor.

In The Bathroom Stall

Use this one of you’re desperate or if you just don’t have anywhere else to go. It’s not so bad if the bathroom is pretty clean though. It can also be kind of fun if both of you are able to stand on the toilet and aren’t tall enough to tower over the top of the stall. If you can manage this, no one will know you’re in the stall (if you can stay quiet, that is) and you can get a little voyeuristic when people come in to use the restroom. Although, if you get stuck with someone who went to the Mexican restaurant for lunch, it’s going to be far, far from sexy.

Best Sex Position: Any position that doesn’t involve touching the toilet seat with any part of your body!

3 Sex Positions Guaranteed To Make A Woman Orgasm!

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Sex positions can help you improve your game and make your partner orgasm – if you choose the right ones. Here are three that will leave her gasping for breath!

These three positions that drive me and most women CRAZY. These positions are a sure fire way to bring your girl to some of the loudest, most intense orgasms of her life.

Most guys, in their struggle to please women never understand the SPOTS that actually trigger climaxes so they flail around uselessly trying weird sex positions that don’t work.

The Real “Orgasm Zone” Of A Woman – And Why Traditional Sex Positions NEVER Hit It!

Many guys know the feeling of having sex and wondering WHEN their girl is going to orgasm. In a futile attempt to get her to come you keep pounding away hoping it will happen. But it never does. The reason is because you are not hitting the “orgasm zone” that causes us to have an orgasm! Think about it like this:

Let’s say you burn your hand on the stove. You REALLY need to get some cold water. Your friend runs over with a bucket of cold water. But, instead of dumping the cold water all over your hand, they dump it all over your FOOT. You scream in agony that you needed cold water on YOUR HAND because that is what burned. Obviously the analogy is a bit dramatic and simple but it proves a certain point. Yes you need water, but you needed it IN A CERTAIN SPOT. Let me explain how this helps teach you about female orgasms. She NEEDS your penis to have a vaginal orgasm with you inside her. But if your penis isn’t hitting the CERTAIN RIGHT SPOT, its like dumping water on your foot when you burned your hand!

Now let’s talk about where the “orgasm zone” is inside of her. Guys don’t realize that the actual “orgasm zone” is the TOP INSIDE WALL of the vagina. This is where the g-spot, the deep spot, and all other sensitive orgasm zones are located!!! When you are having sex in most positions your penis is going IN to her not UP AND IN where it will give her an orgasm. Your not even giving yourself a chance at giving us an orgasm. However, there is hope! Once you learn how to ADAPT certain positions you will be going UP AND IN and nailing that “orgasm zone” EVERY TIME. You can expect your lover to start having g spot, deep spot, and maybe even a squirting orgasm when you start putting these powerful tricks into play!

The 3 Ideal Positions to Hit the Orgasm Zone and Drive Her Over the Edge

Position #1) A Very Advanced Version Of Doggy Style

What you want to do in this doggy style sex position is when you are entering her from behind on the bed you want to flatten her out. But, before you flatten her out you want to stick a pillow under the lower part of her stomach. Once you have pillow under her stomach (to raise her butt higher) you want to lie down fully flat on top of her. Often people refer to this position with out the pillow as “froggy style.” However instead of staying even with her body, move up as high as you can. The goal of this is so that as you thrust you are hitting the top inside wall of her vagina. The entire point of the pillow and moving up on her is so that you are thrusting down DIRECTLY into her “orgasm zone.” As long as you can last at least 5 minutes in this position you are sure to give her a climax.

Here’s how to take it to the NEXT LEVEL:

If you are doing it right your head should be right above hers putting you in a perfect position for some dirty talk. As long as you feel comfortable and she is comfortable you can throw in some dirty talk and really send her into spirals of orgasmic pleasure.

Here’s another secret:

You can use your arms to lightly pin down her arms to show male authority – by doing this you are going to increase the “animal primal instincts” that doggy style provides because it shows her that you are totally in control of whats going on.

And one more:

Once she has orgasm DON’T STOP – she will have an orgasm and think she needs a break. However, you can keep going lightly and she’ll recover – and be ready for an even more intense second orgasm. Slowly increase your speed and pressure and she’ll come again and again and again!

Position #2) The “2 Inches Bigger G-Spot Missionary”

The missionary sex position often gets a horrible name. Critics call it boring, plain, and vanilla. However, when used the RIGHT WAY missionary position can be one of the most intimate, climax giving positions there is. I personally LOVE missionary for the intimacy and most women do too!

Here is how to change missionary position to “2 Inches Bigger G-Spot Missionary:” (note: not only does it hit the spot, it also makes you feel 2 inches bigger inside of her due to the “angle of the dangle”)

What you want to do is take a normal missionary position and adapt it to hit the “orgasm zone.” Here is what to do:

  1. Use a pillow (or two depending on physical proportions) under her lower back but this time in missionary position.
  2. Start inside of her in missionary and scoop under her legs and put them on your shoulders.
  3. Now place your hands under her lower back between her and the pillow.
  4. Lift her up so that as you thrust in to her again you are thrusting UP AND IN and hitting the top of her vagina! (note: the entire reason you have the pillow is so that you don’t have to support her entire lower body weight with your hands)
  5. Thrust up and in and the position that you have her in is sure to trigger an amazing orgasm

Here’s how to take it to the NEXT LEVEL:

If you have the flexibility lean forward and kiss her while you are inside of her. Due to the close physical contact with her (legs on shoulders AND hands around her lower back/ass) it is a very intimate position and adding in kissing makes it highly emotional. If you are a guy that likes romance (like women do!) then you can also tell her how much you like (or love her) and that she is your girl. This position is often a girl’s favorite.

Position #3) This Position Is Seated “Girl On Top” With Her Leaning Back

Often your lover will climb on top and show that she wants to ride you for a bit. The reason she is trying to do this is because is instinctively trying to position herself so that you are thrusting UP AND in!!

With a few simple adaptions to “girl on top” you can let her take control while you lean back and watch her climax!!!

How to do it:

  1. Sit down in chair or sofa (not on bed) and have her get on top facing you.
  2. Have her put her feet forward on the outside of your body.
  3. Tell her it would be really sexy to see her lean back.
  4. As she leans back and start riding you thrust straight up, and due to the positioning you will actually be thrusting UP and IN.
  5. Lean back on the chair or sofa and watch her ride you to climax!!

Here’s how to take it to the NEXT LEVEL:

As she is riding you, reach forward and stroke her clitoris in a light circular motion. Now she is getting stimulation on the inside “orgasm zone” and the external  one.

Beware: She will climax quickly!

Now that you have learned WHY normal positions don’t give women orgasms and you have the knowledge as to what does give her a climax.

How To Give ANY Woman Multiple Orgasms And Have Her Sexually Addicted To You!

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This FREE VIDEO will show you how to give your girl the most incredible, heart-pounding sexual experiences of her entire life!

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When you watch this free video, you’ll learn secrets to get ANY woman off at ANY time, regardless of your penis size or sexual stamina, and even if you’ve been with your partner for YEARS and the “spark” seems gone.

The truth is, most men don’t have a clue how to touch a woman, make her feel good and get her off during sex – let alone give her incredible, body shaking orgasms. A lot of women cheat on their partners for one reason and one reason only:

Because she is bored with you in bed!

Women love and NEED sex just as much as a man, if not more! They crave orgasms given from their partner and not just any kind of orgasm – they want their lover to make them feel incredible! Girls want wet, wild, SQUIRTING orgasms just as much as YOU want to give them to her!

If you can give a woman INTENSE orgasms, she will do whatever you want, when ever you want! If you can please your girl, she’ll let out her inner freak and become totally, completely addicted to you! (Trust us when we say that her inner “bad girl” is way naughtier than you EVER thought possible)

You Probably Didn’t Know This But….

Girls HATE to tell you what to do in bed!

It’s completely embarrassing for a girl to have to show you what to do during sex – so much so that she’ll either go without and wait for you to get it over with, or find someone else who already knows how to please a woman. Even if she does show you what to do, she’ll be so turned off by the time you actually do it that she probably STILL won’t be able to get off.

You NEED to know what to do to get her off, WITHOUT her having to tell you!

This is the only way to have truly great sex and get her having multiple orgasms.

If you’re like most guys, you want to learn how to make your sex life SIZZLING HOT!

You might have struggled to give your female partner an orgasm, or you may never have been able to before. Rest assured, if you have problems getting your girl to reach climax, you’re not alone.

The Truth Is, MOST Guys Can’t Give Their Girl An Orgasm!

Most guys don’t know the first thing about how to put their hands on a woman, so forget trying to actually get her off. If you’ve been in that position before where you try and try and try to get your lover to reach climax only to fail miserably, then you KNOW how frustrating it is.

You KNOW how frustrating it is to go down on her for the better part of an hour, without her EVER having an orgasm!

You KNOW how it makes you feel like less of a man when you can’t give her the pleasure that other guys have before! 

There have been many nights where no matter how hard you try and no matter what you do, you just can’t get her OFF!

But does that mean you should assume that it’s impossible and stop trying?

NO!

You CAN have incredible sex with your lover – sex so good, she’s having 2, 3 or 4 orgasms and she’s so wild, she’s literally soaking the sheets as you thrust into her again and again! You CAN make your partner so satisfied in the bedroom that not only will she never even THINK of having sex with another guy, she’ll be begging and pleading for YOU to do her every single night!

Even if you have a small penis, average sexual skills or low stamina, you CAN become so good at giving your lover orgasms and pleasing her sexually, that she’ll think you’re a SEX GOD?

So, are you ready to say GOODBYE to a mediocre, boring sex life?

Do you finally want to be DONE with wondering if you pleased your lover in bed, or worrying whether she will find someone else that will give her the orgasms that you can’t?

Are you READY to make your sex life as hot as the porn stars?

She WANTS You!

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Who Wants To Learn About Sex From A Book?

shawna_4_resizeThere are tons of sex guides out there that claim to teach you how to give your lover an orgasm. While some of these sex tips may be useful, most guys can’t sit there and read a book for hours, trying to visualize different sex positions and techniques and how they would work. Guys need to SEE something to actually learn it!

This is why 2 Girls Teach Sex is DIFFERENT than any other sex instruction product out there!

And that’s why it will WORK for you!

2 Girls Teach Sex features gorgeous professionals acting out the fingering, oral sex techniques and sex positions that make their legs shake!

Wait, back up for a second.

You mean to say that this product has hot naked women that SHOW YOU exactly what to do on camera?

YES!

2 Girls Teach Sex is an instruction video, but you’re not going to have to sit there and watch someone sit in front of their webcam and read from a script about sex. How would you learn anything that way? With THIS product, you can get STEP-BY-STEP, visual instruction on how to make your lover orgasm over and over again!

What You’ll Learn In 2 Girls Teach Sex

  •  A simple twist on the missionary position that will make your penis feel 2 INCHES BIGGER to her! And she’ll feel even tighter to you!
  • 3 spots you only have to TOUCH before sex to get her squirming with anticipation and BEGGING you to be inside her!
  • How to tell if your girl is faking her orgasm (THIS is a dead giveaway! You’ll be able to tell every single time!)
  • What lesbians know about oral sex that YOU don’t
  • 6 easy tricks to give her a powerful clitoral orgasm
  • A technique that will give her an orgasm through penetration alone (she CANNOT do this by herself! She will be ADDICTED to you after this!)

When you discover the powerful sex secrets that thousands of men DON’T know, you will see five incredible changes in your sex life, LITERALLY OVERNIGHT!

Sex Will Never Be Boring Again!

2 Girls Teach Sex isn’t about sex tips that you use once or twice and get bored of them quickly, like so many other tips out there. These are techniques that produce an orgasm every single time, and no woman ever gets tired of climaxing!

Even if you end up sticking with your lover for months, years or for the rest of your lives, you will still be able to use the techniques you learned to keep your sex life stellar.

That’s right, it won’t matter how long you’ve been together! The sex will always be hot!

Don’t wait. Take control of your sex life now!

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How To Make Your Girl’s Sex Drive Stronger Than Yours!

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Sex tips are definitely something you want to have on hand to keep your sex life fresh. If you want MORE sex, here’s how to revv up your lady’s sex drive.

Do you ever feel as though you have a HIGHER sex drive than your girl? Maybe you’re always the one who has to initiate sex, or maybe she’s just not in the mood as often as you are.

If you’re finding these things happening with your woman, you’re not alone.

But, I’m going to venture that the REASON WHY she doesn’t seem to want to make love as often as you do is NOT because she has a lower sex drive!

Why She Doesn’t “Want” Sex

What is really happening is you’re just not satisfying her enough during sex to make her CRAVE it!

You see, in order for a woman to experience REAL sexual pleasure, she MUST be having orgasms. Her moaning, saying its good, or just letting you have sex with her IS NOT ENOUGH. Think about how sex would feel for YOU if you always got “close” but were never able to fully get off. That would pretty much suck, right? Well that’s exactly what your girl is going through if you’re not giving her the mind-blowing orgasms she craves!

If you’re not giving your girl orgasms when you make love, it may SEEM like she is having fun. But in reality, she’s probably just being nice, and sleeping with you because she feels she has to. And if this is the case, then she’s not going to want to have sex with you very often.

Worst case scenario, if she’s been with a guy in the past who was capable of giving her orgasms – and you are not – she’s probably not going to stick around very long unless you are married or financially supporting her.

It’s sad, but true.

But fortunately since most guys DON’T know how to give a woman orgasms, you probably don’t have anything to worry about. (But in a way, isn’t that even MORE sad?!?)

Getting Her Off

On the upside, giving a woman orgasms is not difficult, it’s just DIFFERENT! A woman’s body works very differently than a man’s, and once you know the subtle differences, it’s actually very EASY to give your woman not just one orgasm, but 2, 3, 4 or more – even different kinds like blended orgasms!

When you ARE able to give your woman orgasms, sex with you is not frustrating… it’s FUN! So of course, she’ll want to have sex with you all the time! Often times, she’ll even be the one asking you for sex!

How To TELL If You Are Getting Her Off

The lesson to take away here is that your girl’s “sex drive” and how often she wants to have sex with you have nothing to do with body chemistry and everything to do with whether or not you are sexually satisfying her.

With this in mind, here’s how to tell if you are:

  • If your girl wants sex at least 3-4 times a week, then you are satisfying her.
  • If she DOESN’T want sex at least 3-4 times a week, then I am sorry, but you are not.

It’s really that simple.

How To Make Absolutely SURE You Satisfy Your Woman Every Time

Start by giving her a foreplay orgasm each and every time. Giving a girl an orgasm through intercourse is a MUCH more intense experience for a girl, and giving her one of these body-shaking orgasms usually requires you know some techniques.

On the other hand, giving a woman a foreplay orgasm is easy.

So easy, that there is NO EXCUSE for not being able to give your girl a foreplay orgasm! But first, REMEMBER:

While you’re going to give her this orgasm during foreplay, it’s important that you continue to think of foreplay as PART of the sex, because to your girl, it is! Women love foreplay and you can keep it going until she is DESPERATE for you to be inside of her. Women LOVE this!

Here are a few ways to keep foreplay going:

  • Kiss her for 10-15 minutes before taking off clothes (hers or yours)
  • Rub her over her “area” for 5 FULL minutes and refuse to take her panties or clothes off no matter how much she or you wants it – tell her how much she wants you AND how much you want her
  • If you start the technique I’m about to share with you AFTER you do all this stuff then you are almost GUARANTEED to give her a foreplay orgasm!

Giving A Clitoral Orgasm

The easiest way to give her a foreplay orgasm is by stimulating her clitoris. Here’s one way to do it that I know your girl will like:

  1. When massaging it, use one finger in circular strokes directly on it, but to the upper right. Think of it like the 1:30 position on a clock. For reasons I can’t explain, this particular area of a woman’s clitoris is packed with even MORE nerve endings than the rest!
  2. Make sure she is wet, or add lube (you can also lick your finger).
  3. It’s important that you keep a steady pressure the whole time, but not too hard! We girls are much more sensitive than you are, so start off light, and don’t go harder until she starts pressing herself against you.
  4. Once she starts lifting her hips towards you, go just a little bit faster – and tell her softly and gently, “Come for me baby and totally relax.” This reassures her that it’s “okay” to let herself go, and often you reassuring her is exactly what she needs to go from feeling really good to going OVER THE TOP and having an incredible orgasm!

Discover How To Give Her More Advanced Orgasms

Giving a woman a foreplay orgasm is always a good time, but if you REALLY want to take her pleasure to a level that no man ever has before, you’re gonna have to give her the more ADVANCED types of orgasms that make her whole body pulsate with pleasure! The type of orgasms that leave her lying there wondering what just happened – and instantly have her calling you the BEST she’s ever had!

7 Ways To Be A Naughty, Dirty Girl – And Drive Him Wild!

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When it comes to sex, every guy wants a naughty girl in bed – even if he insists you act like a lady in public (and he probably does). You’ve probably heard of the phrase, “a lady in the living room and a freak in the bedroom.” Here are seven ways to let your inner dirty girl out and surprise him with these salacious moves that will have him all but tearing your clothes off.

Give Him Oral Sex – While He’s On The Phone

Next time he’s on the phone with his boss or a business partner, surprise him by unzipping his pants and giving him an impromptu blowjob. He’ll love the unexpectedness of it, and it will definitely be difficult for him to hide his pleasure on the phone. In fact, his inability to concentrate on what he’s saying to the person on the other end of the phone is part of what makes this daring move oh-so-sexy. Just keep your cool when he’s on the phone with his mother – that could be creepy.

Wear A Wig To Bed

Almost every guy dreams of getting the green light from his girl to get it on with another woman, even if he is committed to being completely monogamous. Indulge his fantasies by purchasing a wig (and a new outfit if you have the funds) and wearing it to bed. If he likes Asian girls, try slipping on a short, dark bob with bangs. If he likes redheads, grab the fieriest one you can find. He’ll love the idea of going to bed with “someone else.”

Bend Over And Let Him Take You – When He Least Expects It

When you’re feeling a little frisky and you and your man are alone, bend over and tell him to take you from behind. If you do this out of nowhere, when he least expects it, it will make him hotter than blacktop in August. Take his hand and lead him to the couch, the washer or the kitchen table (anywhere but the bedroom ups the naughty factor) and allow him to slip your panties off as you bend over for some doggy style lovin’.

Surprise Him With Naughty Pictures Of You

We know that guys are visual creatures – but even with all that porn he watches, what he really wants to see is you. Grab your digital camera and have a friend snap a few pics of your goods for your man to marvel when he’s alone. You can also do it yourself if you’re really shy – but honestly, having someone else take the photos will give you a much, much better end result.

If you have the money and are comfortable being nude in front of a professional, spring for some high end nude photos done by a professional photographer. A professional will make the lighting just right (which is super important for hiding flaws) and make sure the photos are taken at just the right angle. Any blemishes or imperfections can also be edited out. Professional is the way to go if you really want to give him a sultry, sexy keepsake gift. However, any nude photos of you will be enough to fuel his masturbatory fantasies for weeks.

Let Him Wrestle You Into Bed

Next time you and your love are getting ready to do it, give him a “hint” that you’re going to pretend that you actually don’t want to do it. Giving him a hint ahead of time is important, because he may get the wrong signal if you just pretend not to want it. Tell him that you want him to be a little forceful when wrestling you into bed as you squirm and try to get away. Then he can pin your hands or tie them up (if you like bondage) as he has his way with you.

This plays into the “rape” fantasy somewhat, but you and your partner definitely don’t have to take it so far as to make it feel like actual rape. A little bit of resistance from you and a little bit of force from him is all it takes to make you and your man feel like you’re doing something really taboo and naughty.

Let Him Catch You Masturbating – Then Ask Him To Join The Fun

Start masturbating just a few minutes before he gets home from work – just long enough to get yourself really aroused and ready for sex, but not long enough to actually give yourself an orgasm. Leave the bedroom door cracked open (or do it on the couch where he’ll see you full on as soon as he walks in – if you’re really brave) and make some noise so he doesn’t have to wonder what you’re doing in there for long.

When he “catches” you doing your thing, let him watch for a few minutes and then ask him to join in and finish you off. He’ll be more than happy to oblige!

Take Off Your Panties – In Public

When you and your love are out on a date, head to the bathroom to “freshen up.” In the bathroom, remove your panties and slip them into your purse. You will of course, want to make sure that you either bought or wore special panties for the occasion – “granny panties” just won’t do. When you head back to your table, make sure you make eye contact with your man and give him a big, naughty smile.

He’ll wonder what you were up to in there and when the waiter isn’t looking, slip him your panties under the table. Whisper in his ear that you’re not wearing anything now. Tell him that he turned you on so much that your panties were too wet to wear anymore. Bonus points if you can make it believable by rubbing your clitoris and actually getting yourself wet in the bathroom before you slip your panties off.