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2 Secrets To Prime Her For An Incredible Orgasm

When a man gives his girl sex, he is aware of one fact that most guys don’t know: awesome sex does not always begin in the bedroom! You should have a plan for a steamier sexual experience with your partner. You should do something beforehand to give your girlfriend great sex – and orgasms!

One great way to put your partner in a sexual mood is by giving your partner some kind of an intermission before the actual intimate act. Women cannot be turned on just with physical intimacy. Their minds need to be conditioned prior to the sexual intercourse. This can be done by spicing things up with a twist of romance.

There are two settings that you can use to have great sex with your partner and give a mind blowing orgasm!

Sex Tip #1

You may begin by cooking a special meal while she is not yet home. Cook whatever recipe you know because even if it is not the best food that she will eat, your effort in preparing this will surely be appreciated. And, while she’s stuck in the traffic, make a path of candles and turn off all the lights in your house. Make it a candlelight dinner to add more romance. Put white wine or champagne on your list of what to serve.

Just before the dessert, prepare a nice, warm bubble bath for your partner. Dim the lights and have candles lit around the tub. After dinner, go to the bathroom and undress her. While you give your lover a bath, touch every sensitive part of her body, but do not begin your exploration with breasts. Once she becomes in the mood for sex, you may start caressing the inner thighs.

Right after the bath, dry her up and begin with the most awaited foreplay. Not only will you prepare her physically, you will also put your partner into the feel of having an exhilarating moment with you – guaranteed to prime her for an amazing orgasm later.

Sex Tip #2

If you and your partner have creativity in mind, you may take this passionate plan away from the privacy of your home. You can take your partner to a restaurant for dinner. Once in the restaurant, excuse yourself for some private time in the bathroom. Then call using your cell phone, as she waits for you at the table. Talk about your deepest and most intimate desires while on the line. This will surely please your lover because women are very imaginative about great sex fantasies especially with the person they go to bed with!

You may continue this sexual innuendo after dinner as you ride in the car to a secluded place. Play a sensual music in the background, something that will set the atmosphere for the two of you. Then whisper gently everything that you have planned to do.

Once you hear your partner ask for more, take it! If the car seems uncomfortable for the two of you, you may want to head to the nearest motel in town. And with the intense sexual anticipation already building up, you will certainly give her passionate sex (and the best orgasms) ever!

How To Have A Hot Sex Marathon

By loveandsex

Having a hot sex marathon with your partner is a great way to figure out what you both like, as well as seeing just how long you can really last or how many orgasms you can have! There are a few things to keep in mind when you’re having a lot of really, really hot sex – like eating foods that will give you energy and keeping enough lube on hand so things don’t get dried out. Follow these suggestions for a super fun, hot sex marathon that will last for hours – or more!

Eat Healthy, Vitamin Packed Foods

Having a lot of hot sex means you have to have enough energy to keep it going – something that doesn’t always happen on its own. Prepare yourself beforehand by eating healthy, vitamin packed foods that are designed to give your body the energy and nutrients it needs for physical activity such as trying different, physically demanding sex positions. Don’t overeat, but try a spinach salad for lunch and lean protein such as chicken or fish for dinner if you’re going to be having sex all night. You can also grab a low fat energy bar for a quick burst of fuel before you get started. Make sure to drink lots of water, because it’s bound to get sweaty and it’s easy to get dehydrated. Definitely keep a cold bottle of fresh water by the bedside!

Men Only: Don’t Get Too Close To Orgasm

Ladies, of course, can have multiple orgasms during a hot sex marathon, but many men aren’t capable of the same. While it is possible to orgasm, rest and go again, it’s more taxing and physically tiring than if you had just held out on having an orgasm in the first place. Try using different sex positions if you’re getting to close to orgasm in the position that you’re in, or try giving your partner oral sex and letting yourself rest for a little while. To avoid having an orgasm too soon during super hot sex, don’t allow yourself to get too close to the brink before stopping. If you do, you may end up climaxing anyways and it probably won’t be as good.

Use Lots And Lots Of Lube

It’s unlikely your partner is going to be able to manufacture enough natural body fluids to keep things going smoothly during the entire hot sex marathon. To keep her from getting dried out after hours of intercourse, make sure you have a good, water based lube on hand. Don’t be afraid to be generous when applying lube to yourself or your partner – you can always get more and nothing feels worse than dry sex (for a woman at least!) Using lube doesn’t have to be a mood killer either. Many lubes come with a handy pump handle for easier use. If you’re having a lot of anal sex, try using a thicker, silicone based lube that lasts longer. Also, flavored lubes taste and smell better than regular lubes and might be a good choice for you if you plan to go back and forth between oral sex and intercourse.

Experiment A Little

Having a hot sex marathon doesn’t mean that you have to have intercourse the entire time. Try experimenting a little with a sex fetish or two, whether it be something as simple as fuzzy handcuffs and licking chocolate sauce off each other or something more hardcore, such as spanking or BDSM. Do something fun and different together while you’re taking a break from intercourse or oral sex – choose something that will keep the mood sexy and sensual but allow you and your partner some time to rest. This is a great time for a giving a sensual massage, watching a porn flick or playing dress up with some fun and sexy costumes. Just use your imagination!

Avoid Excessive Alcohol Consumption

Alcohol can be a great way to ease your hot sex jitters (it’s perfectly normal to feel a little nervous before you have marathon sex) but drinking too much can actually put a damper on your night. First of all, too much alcohol can turn your “eased tension” into sleepiness, and if you are really drinking, it can make you pass out. Excessive alcohol consumption can also cause short term erectile dysfunction, where the alcohol has affected the body so much that a man cannot get or maintain an erection very well. If you plan on drinking before having wild, hot sex, keep it to a glass or two of wine or beer and skip the hard liquor.

G-Spot Orgasms – Tantalizing Tips To Give Her Sensational Sex

By lloydlester

The G-Spot is present in every woman and what a man should do is to take extra measures in stimulating it and give their partners a steamier sexual experience. Even if you know where your woman’s G-Spot is, you must also know what to do once you are in contact with it in order to give your partner a series of explosive multiple orgasms.

How To Stimulate The G-Spot

Let your fingers perform circular movements after you insert them into your lover’s vagina. In order to pleasure your partner even more, make sure the touch of your fingertips against this soft gland is constant. Stop moving your fingers inside it and start an inward and outward motion and then occasionally swivel your fingers while they are inside the vaginal canal, applying an even tempo at the same time.

G-Spot stimulation can be even more exciting for the woman if you let yourself perform oral sex using gentle tongue movements on the clitoris. An eventful release will surely come its way to your lady!

When stimulating the G-spot, always bear in mind these 3 things that will put your partner on the path towards orgasmic ecstasy:

Take your time in hitting the G-Spot so as to put your lover into a sexual mood.
Always be aware of your partner’s preferences especially with regards to what satisfies your girl the most.
Do not forget to stroke the G-Spot whenever your fingers penetrate the vaginal canal.

Penile Stimulation Of The G-Spot

It is not only your fingers that can work wonders. The penis may do a better job in stimulating the G-Spot! This works exceptionally well if your penis is slightly bent when erect, as this enables it to reach this sensitive mound of flesh.

But don’t lose hope, just because your penis is not capable of making a bow shape – there are other ways to stimulate the G-Spot.

What you can do about this curving problem is to try out different sex positions. Move your body so that your penis is directed towards the north since it is most likely that you will reach the G-Spot in this way.

If your penis arches towards the left or right, lie down on the bed, let your woman sit on top of you and allow her to control the penetration movements. If your penis draws downwards, try letting your woman lay on top of you with buttocks facing you.

Aside from using your fingers and your penis, sex toys such as vibrators are also very useful in making the G-spot more responsive and giving your partner intense orgasms.

Communication Is Key Too!

Communication has always been an integral part of an intimate relationship. Although there are many obscurities with regards to the G-spot, it is still important that both parties relate to each other whatever gives them sexual gratification. Let your partner guide you through what is most pleasurable for your significant other, and all you have to do is accomplish what she tells you to do!

Put these tips to good use and a hotter and spicier sex life will await the both of you! You will also feel appreciation for all the wonderful things you have done!

Dirty Talk: The 5 Hottest Words To Say During Sex (For Him)

By leejenkins

Dirty talk is a big part of sex. There’s no describing the level of arousal that a kinky phrase or two can put you in. Some of us do it consciously to goad a girl deeper into ecstasy, while some do it unconsciously. If you’re engaged in hot sex with a girl, here are some of the hottest phrases to tell her.

“My Bitch”

There’s a certain finesse that should accompany this phrase. Say it like you would ‘my darling’ or ‘princess.’ There are many girls out there who get excited just hearing this phrase during sex.

Women who are usually stubborn and with a lot of ‘girl power’ outside the bedroom like this dirty talk phrase in the sexual context, most likely because the term ‘bitch’ indicates surrendering (or losing) control because of extreme pleasure. These girls are also the ones who won’t take offense at the term, especially when said in the most adoring tone.

“Mistress”

What excites women is the notion that they’re doing something extremely evil during sex, not unlike the quintessential dominatrix characters who like BDSM in popular movies. Use this dirty talk when you’re encouraging your girl to do what she wants with your body, take the lead and stay on top during intercourse.

“So Good”

Not many guys understand that girls need more than just the occasional grunts of pleasure from their partners. This phrase sounds sexy coming from a guy who’s tensed up and about to have an orgasm. This phrase affirms that she’s giving you pleasure, which is gratifying especially when she’s going down on you.

“You’re Beautiful”

Believe it or not, this phrase can actually be considered dirty talk. Inside the bedroom, this phrase is like napalm. Use it while you’re on top of her or when she’s facing you; and before she enters her orgasmic phase. A girl becomes conscious of how she looks while having sex, and telling her she’s pretty even if her face is scrounged up in pleasure can boost her arousal.

If you’re torn between ‘you’re beautiful’ and ‘you’re sexy,” choose the former. Sexy is something that a woman is insecure about. What she knows as ‘sexy’ may have something to do with the type of woman that would fit inside a size 2 dress. The word ‘beautiful,’ on the other hand, has a certain ring to it that makes a woman feel all giddy and aroused.

“Want More? I’ll Give You More”

This isn’t just a passé line from a Britney Spears song, it’s something that tells a girl you’re not going to cut her pleasure short anytime soon. Remember, women can have multiple orgasms, which means they’re ready to go again as soon as they finish their first orgasm. Telling her this means she can expect you to last all night, or at least longer than you usually do.

When you decide to try dirty talk, mind your tone. Don’t try talking dirty when you’re pissed off, as it will come out differently. Your objective is to make her hot, not to embarrass or humiliate her during sex.

Sex Toys And Travel – What You Need To Know

By loveandsex

Traveling with sex toys can be tough – do you really want to get caught by airport security with a buzzing vibrator in your luggage? If you want to avoid getting embarassed when vacationing by having your sex toys discovered, but still want to bring your favorite vibrators, dildos or masturbation sleeves with you to your destination, here’s what you need to know. Just follow these tips to keep your intimate goodies safe and away from curious eyes.

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Travel Size Sex Toys

Before going on your trip – whether you plan to travel by air, sea or by car – consider purchasing a smaller size sex toy instead of bringing your usual items with you. Smaller size objects are usually much more discreet and can be packed away nicely in a side pocket, makeup bag or even your purse. They’re much easier to handle than larger dildos and vibrators and the risk of getting caught with one is much lower than if you bring your Rabbit or a giant, penis-shaped dildo.

Small, bullet shaped vibrators are easy to carry (some can even be put on your keyring) and aren’t going to cause any suspicion if they get found, because they can pass for just about anything – even lipstick. If you’re worried that a small vibrator isn’t going to give you what your dildo at home does, don’t be too concerned about it. The smaller vibes will get the job done and a bigger, better orgasm isn’t worth having your favorite sex toy found – or worse, confiscated!

Discreet Sex Toys

While it is harder for someone else to tell that tiny bullet vibes are actually sex toys at first glance, there are other vibrators that are ultra discreet and designed specifically for stealth. Take the rubber duckie vibrator for example. Designed to look just like a simple rubber duckie for the bathub, it has a secret vibrating beak and tail that will turn a boring bubble bath into something much more! Small, handheld clitoris vibrators can be held in the palm of your hand and could easily pass for a laptop computer mouse, while other discreet sex toys look like pens with a secret vibrating end!

Tips For Traveling With Sex Toys

One you’ve picked your favorite out of the many sex toys that are great for vacationing, there are also some other guidelines you’ll want to follow just to make sure everything goes as smoothly as possible.

Bring lube with you, but remember that lube is a liquid and needs to comply with the same airport guidelines for other liquids such as shampoo, lotion, sunscreen, etc.
Keep the other items in your bag clean and dry by making sure you place your lube bottle in a plastic zipper bag in case there is leakage.
Take the batteries out of any vibrator that you bring and pack them separately. Nothing draws attention at the airport than a vibrating suitcase!

If You Get Busted

Even if you’ve taken every precaution that you can to make sure your sex toys don’t get discovered while you’re traveling, you still might get busted. Remember though, even if you do get caught with a sex toy or vibrator in your luggage, it’s not illegal. Even the largest, most offensive “mega g-spot dildos” aren’t illegal to have with you while in a car, on a plane, or going on a cruise. You’ve done nothing wrong by bringing something of a sexual nature in your bag so you’re not going to get in trouble – it’s just going to be a pretty embarassing situation.

You can, however, lessen the embarassment by having a sense of humor about the situation! Laugh it off and say, “That’s my vibrator, sorry!” The security guards have pretty much seen it all before and don’t have the time to stand around and show everyone your sex toys. If you do get caught, your vibrator will most likely be shoved back into your bag and the line will move on. However, if you act suspiciously when your sex toys get pulled out of your bag for examination, they may think that there’s something more to it than just batteries, lube and fuzzy handcuffs. That’s something you don’t want to have to deal with! If you get busted, brush it off and move forward with having fun while traveling because that’s what it’s all about!