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How To Seduce Her With A Leg, Butt And Lower Back Massage

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Erotic massage will make your woman melt if you use touch the right way. Here’s where to focus when you do the butt, lower back and legs.

How To Get Started

When beginning foreplay, start with your lover still lying on her front side with her back exposed. The natural progression will be to continue massaging down to her buttocks, legs and feet. To do this, make a nice transitional move by starting at the top of her shoulders with the palms of both of your hands facing flat down, and in a long slow smooth stroke, work your way down to her lower back, buttocks, upper legs, calf muscles, and feet, and finally to her toes.

Important Note! Because you will be including her buttocks in this portion of the massage, you will want to remove the covering you placed over the area at the start of the massage.

Now, reverse this move by continuing up from her feet all the way up to her upper back again and then repeat these same moves up and down again a few times more. You don’t have to follow the same path strictly every time, so make sure to vary it using your own creativity. You can try running your hands all the way up and down the sides of her body from just below her armpits or breasts to her feet, or try a combination of both described methods on top of her body and the sides.

Switch around a few times and see what works well for you and her. The main point in this transition is to make long stroking movements all the way from one end of her body to the other, with your last transitional stroke leaving you at her legs and buttocks so that you can begin teasing new areas.

Beginning The Leg Massage

When you are ready to begin massage her legs, you will want to start at her ankles. Focusing on one leg at a time, lightly grasp her on the calf with both hands just above the ankles and begin moving it upwards towards her buttocks as shown in the photo below.

Continue moving up and down her leg a few times in this way. You can also add a kneading motion by grasping in and out with your hands as if squeezing a soft foam rubber ball. Your thumbs can come in handy too. As you are running your hands up towards the top of her leg, use your thumb on the inside of her thigh while adding a firm pressure. It’s very relaxing and also very sensual for her to have your thumb getting in the proximity of her vagina. So don’t be afraid to tease her a bit.

The next maneuver is something that will feel delightfully sensual to your partner while massaging her upper legs. Just as you wedged your hand underneath her upper torso (in between her body and the surface she is laying on), do the same with her legs. This time, however, wedge your upturned palm underneath her leg and in between the surface it is laying on. Start at the upper portion of her leg near her hip, and then glide your hand all the way down the front of her leg to just above her kneecap. Next, with your hand completely wedged between her leg and the surface, glide your hand back up until you reach close to where her legs meet her hip. This will get your hands very close to her vagina, but remember to not yet directly touch her vagina, as you want to create a bit of anticipation and playful sexual tension first.

The Calf Massage

Proceeding down to her calf muscle, you will now be moving your hands back to the top of her leg again. When massaging the calf muscle area, be very gentle as this muscle can be quite sensitive to pressure on some people. Light to medium pressure works best.

To start, take your hand and lightly grasp her calf just below the knee fold area. Now run your hand down her calf until you reach her ankle, and then slide back up again. You can add a “kneading” motion as well to this as you travel up and down for an extra soothing feel.

Important Note! When working solely on her legs, place the cover over your partner’s buttocks. Not only will ensure her comfort, it will help to increase her anticipation for more sensual pleasure. With her buttocks covered once again, she will wonder when she will get to experience the delight of being completely exposed and having more intimate areas included in the massage.

With one hand now supporting her raised foot, take your free hand and run it up and down her calf a few times while applying a firm pressure. You can also add a light kneading motion to this as well for and extra soothing experience.

How To Turn Even The Biggest Romantic Numbskull Into “Prince Charming” Just By Pushing A Few Buttons On Your Cell Phone!

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Is romance simply not a part of your life anymore?

Do you find yourself CRAVING more romance in your relationship?

Think your man is simply “not” romantic?

The free video presentation on this page will show you a simple but staggeringly effective method for using tiny little text messages to wake up the “secret romantic” in any man, even if you have kids, work too much, “don’t have time” or if he seems like a “romantic numbskull” now. The techniques in this video have been tested by tens of thousands of women around the world, were featured on Rachael Ray and are based on simple facts of masculine psychology that you’ve probably never heard before.

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Warning: Make sure to watch the entire presentation to find out why other attempts to “bring back the romance” in your relationship have failed, why your he secretly craves romance and closeness more than you think (or than he’ll admit) and how to have him craving you, thinking about you and counting down the moments until he gets to see you just by pushing a few buttons on his cell phone.

Is He A Lost Cause?

No Way! Lots of women out there are stuck with guys who have let every bit of romance seep out of them throughout the course of their relationship. Also, let’s not forget about the girls who are stuck with guys who never had an ounce of romance in them to begin with!

Even if your man is the most romantically challenged guy in the world and couldn’t compliment his way out of a paper bag, you can TEACH HIM HOW to say the sweetest things using 1 simple tool that you already have.

So what is this incredible secret to getting your guy to be more romantic than you’ve ever seen him?

Your phone!

Believe it or not, you can use something as easy and simple as your cellular phone to put the romance BACK into your relationship – even if your man never really was romantic at all to begin with!

Text The Romance Back is the ONLY resource out there that teaches women how to use their phones to turn their relationships into something from the movies – or a fairy tale!

What You’ll Learn:

  • The REAL secret reason he never takes you out or surprises you anymore (it’s NOT what you think – OR what he told you!)
  • How to use simple text messages to turn your guy into a secret Prince Charming!
  • How to get him thinking about you ALL day
  • How to make him CRAVE YOU – he won’t be able to help but sweep you off your feet!

The best part? There’s no “sexting” required! We’re not talking about texting your guy about how much you want to give him head in a last ditch effort to get him to pay attention to you. This is completely different!

After you watch this FREE VIDEO (from the Rachael Ray Show), you’ll know how to make your guy transform into the sweetest man you’ve ever met, almost overnight!

“It worked on me and he’s not even mine!” — Rachael Ray

Your girlfriends will BEG you to share your secret with them – they’ll wonder how you turned your guy from a dud to a complete Casanova!

By actually following the tips in Text The Romance Back, you’ll be able to:

  • Make him think about you NON-STOP!
  • Make him miss you and crave you when you’re not around
  • Make him count down the moments until he gets to hold you in his arms again

Your “new” man will:

  • Make sure you constantly feel loved and connected to him
  • Get addicted to romance in a way you never thought possible!
  • Seduce you every chance he gets

Once you watch this FREE VIDEO, you’ll learn the #1 BIGGEST reason you feel more like your boyfriend or husband is your roommate instead of your lover.

You’ll learn that the myths that you don’t have time for romance or that guys just don’t like romance are just that – BIG, FAT LIES!

The truth is, almost ALL men have a sweet side!

And any woman can wake up her guy’s passionate side with just a few clicks on her phone!

So are YOU ready for him to start treating you like the prize you are?

Do you want him to sweep you off your feet, romance you and cherish you in his actions every single day?

Are you ready for the relationship THAT YOU DESERVE?

Then CLICK HERE to learn how your cellular phone is the easiest and simplest way to make your man want to romance you day and night, without fail!

Can You Really Catch STD’s Through Oral Sex?

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Oral sex is not without risk. While it is “technically” safer than intercourse when it comes to STD’s, having oral sex doesn’t mean you’re totally in the clear.

Is The Risk Actually That High?

Okay, so here’s the naked truth. When parts of your body are coming into contact with parts of other people’s bodies, you run the risk of catching infections and diseases. Now while a handshake is almost perfectly safe, cunnilingus is not. You may have heard that it is more difficult for a woman to transmit a virus or infection to a man and to an extent, this is true. Both unprotected fellatio and unprotected vaginal sex carry more risks of sexually transmitted diseases than cunnilingus does.

How STD’s Are Spread During Oral Sex

Keep in mind, however, that your mouth will be coming into contact with bodily fluids that may potentially carry a virus and your partner’s vulva will be coming into contact with a mouth that may have a potential infection – therefore, it is better to be safe than sorry. Let’s first examine what types of sexually transmitted diseases you may be at risk for if you perform unprotected cunnilingus in an unsafe environment (i.e. with a promiscuous partner). Blood borne diseases are quite possibly the most serious of sexually transmitted diseases and include both HIV and Hepatitis C. These are diseases that are spread only if one partner or the other comes into direct contact with infected blood. This generally only happens if both partners have an open sore or cut on both the vulva and the mouth. You will want to be very careful or avoid cunnilingus entirely if you or your partner have an open sore or cut on the mouth or vulva.

These diseases can also be transmitted through hand to vulva contact if there is an open sore or cut on the hand as well. This is where communication is essential – if you are concerned about the risks of transmitting a blood borne STD, discuss the risks with your partner and whether you both would be more comfortable avoiding cunnilingus and hand foreplay at that time whether you would prefer to practice safer sex.

Types Of STD’s Transmitted Through Oral Sex

Bacterial infections and other infections such as Hepatitis A and B as well as Chlamydia, gonorrhea and syphilis can also be transmitted through unprotected cunnilingus. While there are Hepatitis B vaccinations and Hepatitis A as well as the other infections can usually be treated successfully with antibiotics, there is no reason that these sexually transmitted diseases should be considered any less serious than blood borne STD’s. The practice of safer sex during cunnilingus and any other foreplay involving the vulva can reduce the chances of transmitting these types of infections.

Perhaps the most commonly contracted sexually transmitted disease during cunnilingus is genital herpes, the reason for which is because genital herpes can be transmitted through simple skin-to-skin contact of the affected area. Although they are two different types of herpes viruses, it is possible to transmit the virus to the vulva through a cold sore on the mouth or to the mouth with a herpes sore on the vulva. Although the herpes virus is dormant underneath the skin when an outbreak is not present, it is still possible to spread the herpes virus even if there aren’t any open sores on the affected area. In the case of either a cold sore on the mouth or an outbreak of genital herpes on the vulva, it is probably best to avoid cunnilingus and other sexual contact during this time due to the fact that genital herpes is so easy to spread. Like other sexually transmitted diseases, however, genital herpes can also be practiced in a safer manner by taking proper precautions.

Want A Great Blowjob? Here’s How To Make Her CRAVE Giving You Head!

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A blowjob is something you likely get less often than you want. In fact, many guys only get a blowjob a few times per year, if ever!

The FREE video on this page shows you the real reason she almost never gives you a blowjob (and why she doesn’t enjoy it when she does), why many women secretly LOVE giving head and how to use simple tricks women LOVE to turn her into a “Blowjob Queen” who gets as much pleasure out of giving you head as you get out of getting it.

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The techniques in this video are so simple ANYBODY can use them to get astonishing results (watch the video to learn how one guy’s story of how his girlfriend gave him a hummer while driving on the highway after using just ONE technique, and one woman’s WEIRD — and very sexy — reaction when she discovered her husband had “tricked” her into giving him a blowjob). This video MUST come down soon (watch it to find out why).

Remember to watch the entire video. The end of it may shock you.

WHY does she hate giving you head? And HOW can you make her love it?

Is this even possible?

IT IS, but you can’t just expect her to suck you off and start loving it all of a sudden. You have to do and say the right things – and if you do, you can turn your girl into a cock sucking machine! She will want it, love it, crave it and BEG for it EVERY SINGLE time you have sex with her!

So, how do you do it?

Check out Oral Fixation: Why She Hates Giving You Head And How To Get Her To Love It. This is hands down, the ONLY great resource out there that teaches men how to turn their lovers into the kind of women that get off on giving sloppy wet, deep throat blowjobs!

What’s Inside:

  • The REAL reason she hates going down on you (it’s not what you think OR what she told you)
  • How to quickly and easily transform even the shyest girl into a nasty, naughty blowjob lover
  • How to make a girl LOVE giving you head MORE than you love getting it!
  • Why a woman seemingly loves giving head when you first get together, but as soon as the relationship gets serious, she “loses her taste” for it
  • Why some guys get sloppy wet, eager, HOT blowjobs while others are lucky to get it once or twice a YEAR

After you watch this short, FREE video, you’ll learn how to make a woman absolutely ADDICTED to giving head! And not just any guy will do – after you follow the video’s simple instructions, all she will crave is YOUR COCK!

Does Your Girl AVOID Going Down On You At All Costs?

Have you ever wondered why your girl would rather do almost anything than go down on you? Or changes the subject every time you try to talk about it?

Are you completely convinced that your girlfriend or wife HATES giving head and will never enjoy it?

Do you think that having an affair is the only way you can get a hot girl to suck you off?

THINK AGAIN!

With Oral Fixation, you can make your wife or girlfriend BEG to have your cock in her mouth almost OVERNIGHT!

The Death Of The Blowjob

Most guys in long-term relationships with women experience the death of the blowjob at some point or another. It happens when a guy starts getting comfortable. He starts making CRUCIAL mistakes – leaving the woman completely turned off by the idea of giving her guy head.

Fortunately, there’s a SIMPLE FIX!

In Oral Fixation: Why She Hates Giving You Head And How To Get Her To Love It, you’ll learn:

  • The #1, EASIEST trick to get her to LOVE sucking you off TONIGHT!
  • How to become a blowjob magnet, drawing her to your zipper like a moth to light!

This is so simple, you’re going to wonder why YOU didn’t think of it!

So, are you ready to get INCREDIBLE blowjobs starting tonight?

Do you want her to suck you for hours and hours on end, until you’re bone dry? Do you want her to lick up every drop of your semen like it’s the sweetest thing she’s ever tasted?

Do you want your girl to BEG for you to blow your load all over her face?

Are you ready for her to WORSHIP your cock and love sucking it, more than any other sex act she’s ever done?

Then CLICK HERE to get the guide that will open the oral sex floodgates in your bedroom. Like thousands of guys before you, you’ll finally be able to get the kind of blowjob YOU DESERVE!

Still not sure? Read Our Review of Oral Fixation.

Orgasmic Sex Positions Review

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Orgasmic Sex Positions can rev up your sex life dramatically! If you want ones you can actually DO, this guide is much more useful than the Kama Sutra!

Gabrielle Moore produces yet another highly informational ebook in her sleek, easy to digest format. As visually and mentally engaging as the others, this book is an easy read and an even easier resource to flip through and reference back to. Take your time when trying these out though – there are a lot, and they’ll lose their luster if you try to go through ten in one night. Pick one, work on mastering it and giving your girl an orgasm, and then move on to the next one. That’s the true key at becoming a master of different sex positions!

The Good

Orgasmic Sex Positions is an excellent resource on a variety of different sex positions that you can use to spice up your love life. The guide includes pictures and a description for each sex position, so it’s not at all difficult to figure out what you need to do, where your body parts need to be, where her body parts need to be, etc. and so on. Also, one of the most unique things about this guide is the “Climax Cue” excerpt at the bottom of each sex position. This explains how a woman reaches orgasm in that particular position and how you can tell. This is absolutely indispensable information that almost EVERY other sex positions guide has failed to achieve! Just this information alone is worth the price of the entire book, not to mention all the other cool tips inside.

The Bad

While Orgasmic Sex Positions is primarily about sex positions, it can be a little confusing at first when the book launches into several pages about female orgasms. Granted, most of the people who are looking at this guide are men who want to introduce their female partner to new sex positions and spice up their sex life, so most of the information is useful anyways. However, since this is a guide about sex positions for couples, it can leave the reader feeling a little lopsided as the information provided about a woman’s pleasure during sex heavily outweighs the information provided about a man’s.

The Bottom Line

Orgasmic Sex Positions is a really great guide on new and different sex positions you can try, and how they relate to the female orgasm. While men who can’t help their partners reach orgasm will benefit the most from this book, couples of all kinds will have tons of fun trying out these new positions – and the men will be incredibly thankful for the “Climax Cues” that let him know when his lady is loving it and about to reach peak and when she’s not. While the guide does at times beat you over the head with female pleasure instruction, there are plenty of people out there who could really use to read it! All in all, this is a great guide to get if you want to try some new positions out or find fun twists on your old favorites.

The Full Orgasmic Sex Positions Review

Sex positions can add a lot of variety to a boring sex life, or they can keep one fresh and exciting if you continually incorporate new sex positions into your routine. However, using your imagination can get you so far. Enter Orgasmic Sex Positions by popular sexpert Gabrielle Moore. Although many of her other sex improvement resources are far better than this one, you just don’t want to miss the laundry list of different ways to have sex – especially if you have trouble being sexually creative.

This guide is probably the best at educating men who have difficulty helping their partners reach orgasm how to do so with the use of a variety of different ways to have sex. Couples who have no trouble with orgasms and who just want to try some fun, new sex positions may find the approach a little “female pleasure instruction” heavy. However, that is not to say that couples of all kinds can benefit from this resource.

What You’ll Learn In Orgasmic Sex Positions:

  • All about the female orgasm
  • Details about a woman’s anatomy and how it plays into which sex positions you should choose
  • A chronology of a woman’s pleasure, from beginning to end
  • What the heck a “symphysis” is and how it can help you (and your partner) reach orgasm during sex
  • What to say and do during sex to make her feel sexy
  • How to properly do the Coital Alignment Technique
  • How to make missionary even more fun
  • How to tell if she’s faking orgasms (and what real orgasms look like)
  • How to give a woman multiple orgasms!

Orgasmic Sex Positions also includes a Q&A/Troubleshooting section, which can be helpful for guys who are having specific issues with trying new sex positions or helping their partner to reach orgasm.

You’ll also learn:

  • What to do if she’s not into it (so you can get her into it)
  • What to do if sex hurts
  • Why lube is absolutely IMPERATIVE during sex – a lot of people skip this and wonder why the sex is mediocre at best
  • What to do if your partner has gotten “desensitized” by her vibrator or sex toys
  • What sex toys to use during sex that enhance the sensations you create, not overpower them

Just remember that if you’re a guy who hasn’t been able to easily help his girl reach orgasms, that this book is right up your alley. But it’s not the only one you want to get if that’s where you’re coming from. Sure, different sex positions are great and all, but they’re not going to be wholly responsible for your lover’s pleasure and satisfaction no matter how many cool new ones you use. Many men make the mistake of thinking that what feels good for him feels good for her too – but such is not always the case. Just because it feels awesome when you stick it in her 20 different ways, doesn’t mean it feels as awesome on her end.

Consider investing in an oral sex guide for women, or a comprehensive lover’s guide in addition to this one if you have trouble helping your girl reach the big O. You’ll be glad you did.