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Make Her Fall In Love With You – Using Only Words!

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Love advice can be complicated, but did you know you can make a woman feel love for you just by using the right words? If you choose the right phrases to make her feel happy, excited and warm towards you, she’s going to fall for you fast. Here are the phrases that you need to use if you want to make her go crazy over you!

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Words Are Very Powerful!

Don’t underestimate the power that language has on a woman. Certain phrases can trigger thoughts,emotions and fantasies and can easily affect how a person feels in both good and bad ways. There’s no denying that words can be used to affect someone in many different scenarios. You can also read into the way another person is feeling and thinking by paying attention to the words they’re using in a conversation.

Of course, not just any word is going to make someone upset, happy, angry or excited. It’s the use of emotional language that does that. Emotional language is certain phrases that evoke emotion in someone, whether it makes them feel good or bad or anything in between. You can use innocent words to turn a woman on, or make her feel happy or ecstatic. So it’s no surprise that you can affect how a woman feels just by paying attention to the words you’re using and using the right phrases to make her feel the way you want her to!

Actions Speak Too

Remember that even if you take the best love advice to heart and use the right phrases to win a woman over, you’re still not going to get very far if you don’t follow them up with the right actions. If you’re going to “talk the talk” so to speak, you’ve got to be willing to “walk the walk.” If you say something flirty and nice, and then turn around and do something else that negates what you just said, any girl is going to be able to spot you as a fake. Make sure that your actions go along with what you’re saying and that you’re being genuine about it.

Examples Of Things To Say

Here are some excellent examples of phrases that are going to evoke emotion in a woman:

  • Happy – “I feel so happy being with you!”
  • Excited – “I’m so excited to see you.”
  • Love – “I love it when you….”
  • Adore – “I adore you!”
  • Confident – “You make me feel confident.”
  • Amazing – “I feel amazing around you.”
  • Incredible “You’re incredible!”

Using Words The Right Way

To have the impact you want on a woman when using language, it’s important that you pay attention and use it the right way. Avoid talking about things that create a negative energy around you, such as talking about your problems or complaining about the things around you. If you’re creating negative energy around you, you’re not going to be able to make anyone feel good regardless of what language you’re using.

Pay Attention To The Words She’s Using As Well

Women communicate with words much, much more than guys do. In fact, it’s estimated that women use on average 15,000 words a day while men use about 6,000 – so you can pretty much guarantee that she’s going to let you know how she feels and what she’s thinking in her language, even if she doesn’t come right out and say it. Listen to the hidden meaning behind the words she’s using and look for the emotions buried within.

Is she using phrases that suggest she wants to touch or kiss you? Are the phrases she’s using suggesting that she’s happy or having a good time? If so, you’re definitely on the right track! Alternatively, watch for phrases that suggest she’s not having fun or that she isn’t interested in you at all. A lot of guys don’t pay attention to it when a woman makes it clear that she’s not interested in them, simply because it’s not what they want to hear.

Consider Taking A Language Course

Because women use words so much more than men, if you want to really understand girls and how they think, you might want to consider taking a course on the subject. Becoming more knowledgeable about how people use language and the meanings behind certain phrases is going to help you indefinitely when it comes to understanding and talking to women. If you don’t want to take a course, there is tons of information out there on the Internet to help you learn to understand language and how people use it to communicate with each other!

Long Term Relationship: How NOT To Be A Nag

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A long term relationship take some effort to keep. Nagging is one of those things that can destroy long term relationships if you let it – here’s how to stop!

Are You A Constant Nagger?

No one likes being called a nag. The term is full of all sorts of negative connotations. Yet all of us have probably done it to someone about something at one point or another. Maybe you find yourself repeatedly asking your mate to put their dirty laundry in the hamper and not on the floor. Perhaps you’ve requested over and over that your partner remember to deposit that check at the bank. Whatever the point of it, you know that it’s no fun being on either end of it.

When you’re the one being nagged, you feel annoyed with your S.O. Their nagging is a reminder that you’re not living up to their standards on this particular issue, and that never feels good. If you’re the one doing the fussing, you feel frustrated and exasperated. It’s not as though you want to get on to someone—you just want them to do something the first time you ask them to do it. The worst part of nagging is that you start to feel more like an angry parent and scolded child than a pair of two adults in a romantic long term relationship.

Are You On The Giving Or Receiving End?

The key to halting this in your long term relationship is being considerate and forgiving of each other. If you’re typically on the receiving end of it, ask yourself why. When your partner asks you do them a favor by picking up the dry cleaning once a week, be considerate of their wishes. Surely that partner does things for you. Maybe you get distracted easily and forget to pick up those clothes. To your partner that seems inconsiderate. That’s why they become annoyed and then get on to you about it.

Since you know that you’re prone to forgetting things, come up with a way to remind yourself, like putting a reminder into your phone. Sure, you might still forget from time to time, but if you do a better job overall, your partner will be more likely to forgive you when you do screw up. That means less fussing for you to have to endure.

Give Yourself A Reality Check

Should you be the one constantly fussing, try to check in with reality. If you’re doing it about little things, you might want to consider letting the issue go. Say your significant other always leaves the dishes on the counter instead of putting them into the dishwasher. This is probably a bad habit of theirs that they’re not likely going to change.

Instead of wasting your time and energy on fussing at your partner about it, just put the dishes away yourself. It probably takes less effort for you to load the dishwasher than it would to regularly complain to your S.O. about it. Don’t ever forget that you probably have a bad habit or two that bothers your mate. You’re not perfect, therefore you shouldn’t expect perfection from them either.

Is The Issue Bigger Than The Little Stuff?

What if there’s a bigger issue at hand than dry cleaning and dishes? Maybe you’ve been nagging your partner to stop smoking or cut back on their drinking. Instead of nagging in the moment, sit down and have a heart to heart with your mate. Do this at a time when you’re both in good moods and the problematic issue is not directly at hand. You truly are trying to help them overcome big problems here, but nagging may not be the right way to go about it.

Tell them how much you care about them, and why you need them to break their unhealthy habits for you. Then you should work together to come up with a plan. Promise them that you won’t be on their back about it every five minutes if they show you that they’re working to get better. Seek outside help or marriage counseling so that you’re not the lone person policing the issue. Above all, make sure that your S.O. knows that you’re doing this because you love them. If they love you as well, they’ll understand how well-meaning you are being.

Top 10 Best Dangerous Places To Have Sex

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Sex can be a lot of fun when you have it in different places – moving out of the bedroom can be all you need to bring back the spark between you and your lover. Many people love the thrill of having public sex, and some even love the idea of having sex in dangerous places. Here are the ten most danger filled places to get busy.

**Disclaimer**

Sex in the places named in this article can be very dangerous and could result in you or your partner getting very seriously hurt or dying. Proceed at your own risk.

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High Up In A Tree

Take hunting to the next level by having sex in a tree stand. Or, if you really like to rough it, just make your next tree climbing adventure a little more sexy! Be aware that you could fall out – which can really hurt if you’re high up! Bonus points if you have a tree house to spend the night in.

On Top Of The High Diving Board Over An Olympic Size Pool

The views from a high dive are amazing, and having sex on the high dive can make you feel like you’re floating above the pool with almost nothing holding you up. This one can end badly though – if you have rough sex or get going too fast, you may very well fall off and into the pool. A back or belly flop may not be the worst thing, but if you hit the concrete, you’re in trouble.

While Rock Climbing

If you really want to connect with nature while feeling the thrill of having sex in a dangerous place, try having sex while rock climbing. Don’t try this on your first rock climb though – get to know the area and become experienced with rock climbing before trying to get busy on the ropes. If you do, make sure you and your lover are completely harnessed and that you have a third party around to call an ambulance if things end badly.

While Skydiving

You probably can’t get much more than a handjob or possibly oral sex in while skydiving, but the thrill is the same nonetheless. Again, don’t try to do this on your first skydive. Get a feel for it before you decide what can and can’t be accomplished on a dive.

In A Bucket Truck As High As The Bucket Will Go

This one is a little safer than some of the other suggestions here, but still carries risk with it regardless. If you know someone who owns a bucket truck, ask if you can borrow it for a few hours to “cut a tree limb” in your yard. Push the bucket up as high as it will go and join your partner for a sexy romp in the sky. Make sure to harness yourself in with the proper equipment!

On The Back Of A Pickup Truck While Going Down The Freeway

This one is just plain risky and can end very badly if there’s a wreck or the hatch in the back falls down. Bring a blanket with you and find a way that you can tie or belt yourselves in if you absolutely must try it.

On Top Of A Moving Train

Again, this one is very, very risky. There’s really no way to make this safer, because you can’t belt yourself in or use safety harnesses in any way. If you must have sex on top of a train, try doing it when the train is at the station and you can just pretend you’re moving.

In A Window Washing Basket

If you really like the idea of having public sex, a window washing basket is going to be right up your alley. There is some risk associated here, so make sure you’re strapped in properly before getting it on. The idea of doing it right in front of a window with no holds barred can be extremely erotic!

On The Ledge Of A High Rise Building

Much like having sex on a moving train, there really is no way to make doing it on the ledge of a high rise building any safer. Try doing it up against the window and looking out at the street below instead – or you may just fall off the ledge and be falling towards the street below head first!

In Your Car In The Summer With The Windows Up

Sweaty sex is good sex, but there’s a line that is crossed when you consider having sex in your car in the summer with the windows up. You could definitely experience heat stroke and pass out, dying of heat suffocation before you can come to. If you must have sex in your car in the summer, crack the window!

The Incredible Sex Video Series Review

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The Incredible Sex Video Series is a new way of teaching men how to please their partners. Instead of wading through boring e-books, watch three amazing porn stars literally SHOW you how to please a woman – in their underwear! There’s not a man on Earth that isn’t going to be able to pick up these techniques and utilize them almost immediately. Is it because Ryan Keely, Justine Joli and Jade Vixen are all very well known porn stars with impressive resumes and killer bodies? Or is it because they have a real, down to earth teaching style and they actually know what they’re talking about? How about both?

The Good

Who doesn’t want to be taught how to have great sex by three gorgeous porn stars? Seeing beautiful porn stars talk about the “hows” and “why’s” of sex is a great concept – and Ryan Keely definitely delivers here. The videos aren’t “fake” with chintzy advice. It’s down to earth and a little gritty – which is perfect for the topics at hand. Enjoy REAL advice from porn stars on how to seduce a woman and give her earth shattering orgasms.

The Bad

Men looking for instructional videos that feature nudity aren’t going to find it here – the videos are strictly PG-13. However, it’s still fairly erotic and the instruction is excellent. You can still learn how to do everything the girls in the video talk about, even though they don’t remove their bras or panties. Also, the audio and video quality isn’t superb in a few of the videos, but you hardly notice because you’re watching three gorgeous porn stars teach you how to please a woman!

The Bottom Line

Incredible Sex Video Series offers everything a man looking for sex advice could want – the right tips and tricks, delivered by incredibly hot porn stars. Who could ask for more? The video and audio quality could be a little better (and if it were, this would soon be the go-to place for sex advice for men – and it might still be), but overall the instructional videos offer excellent advice in an easy to digest format. Every woman will want her man to watch these – any jealousy issues that a wife or girlfriend will have about their guy watching these ladies give sex advice will go right out the window when he puts his new skills in action.

The Full Incredible Sex Video Series Review

Sex tips are always handy, but reading through boring text to learn them is rough. Why not watch super hot women show you the best sex tips out there?

Incredible Sex Video Series is a video series that shows you how to have sex like a porn star. It’s a breath of fresh air when it comes to sex advice. Forget about instruction videos from hairy guys with doctorate degrees (talk about stale!) – instead, why not watch three breathtakingly gorgeous porn stars strip down to their skivvies and show you how THEY like to be pleased? Yes, it’s PG-13, but who cares?

The Incredible Sex Video Series will have you captivated from minute one – Ryan Keely just has a presence about her that shows that she KNOWS what she’s doing. And she’s going to teach you how to do it! These twelve videos talk about everything from fingering and fisting techniques to seduction techniques to sex positions. They just about cover it all – it’s highly unlikely that you’ll still have questions on how to please a woman after you watch them not only tell you, but SHOW you what to do!

Bonus Materials

There are also videos on different sex toys to use (and how to use them to please a woman) and how to introduce bondage and roleplay to your partner. Don’t forget to check out the great bonus material – experts like Michael Fiore and Dean Cortez offer some of their products for guys who want to learn how to text a woman into bed or ignite a fire in their relationship.

The only downfall here is that some of the videos are lacking in quality. The audio sometimes has an echo and some of the videos (specifically those captured by webcam) are blurry and hard to distinguish. This, however, is minimal compared to the wealth of information you’re getting about how to have porn star sex – and you actually get to see and hear it rather than read it.

Who You’ll See In This Video Series:

Ryan Keely

2011 Penthouse Pet runner up and October 2009 Penthouse Pet has an impressive resume in the adult film industry. Nevermind that, because she’s absolutely gorgeous and down to earth! Ryan leads with laughs and candid advice that makes you feel like you’re sitting in the room with her. Her confidence and vast knowledge are displayed prominently throughout the Incredible Sex Video Series, yet you never feel as though she’s talking “above” you or “at” you.

Jade Vixen

Who knew that a porn star could be this gorgeous and have a double science major undergraduate degree? Beautiful and smart, Jade lends her knowledge about the female body to the videos, discussing everything from where the g-spot is to how not to give a woman a yeast infection (because if you do, she’ll probably never sleep with you again).

Justine Joli

The beautiful and talented multi-time Penthouse Pet and AVN award winner also lends Ryan Keely a helping hand in the videos, often acting as the example (they’ve got to show these moves on somebody, right?) and also offering her unique advice on how men can have porn star sex and give women sheet soaking orgasms. Did you know she has 2 g-spots?

All in all, the Incredible Sex Video Series is well worth it’s minimal price tag. There just isn’t anything else on the market like it – when was the last time you had a super hot porn star teach YOU how to have sex?

Ejaculation By Command Review

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Ejaculation By Command exists to help the 20-40% of men who climax too early during sex. A quick orgasm means several things – sex doesn’t last as long and it isn’t as enjoyable, you can’t connect intimately with your partner if you’re only having sex for a few minutes and you certainly can’t give your partner great orgasms if you don’t last long enough in bed. Ejaculation By Command promises to fix all that – it will teach you how to control your orgasm so you can climax when you WANT to!

The Good

A complete guide on what premature ejaculation is, the myths surrounding PE and how you can overcome it for good. Men who really want to figure out what PE is and learn how to get rid of it completely will appreciate the thoroughness of Ejaculation By Command. There’s really no stone left unturned here, whether it’s discussing the basics or talking about techniques. An audio supplement to the guide makes for easy listening for those who have difficulty reading or simply want to listen rather than read!

The Bad

The wealth of information contained in this guide may intimidate some men, but it’s worth wading through because truly understanding PE is part of getting rid of it forever. These are NOT “overnight” techniques that will cure you immediately – although there is a companion guide that gives you several techniques you can use in a pinch. However, learning a few tricks isn’t going to help you in the long run – which is why while the Ejaculation By Command guide is lengthy, it’s totally worth it.

The Bottom Line

Ejaculation By Command is an excellent, thorough guide for men that want to learn how to control their orgasm and last longer in bed. The information is plentiful and may take awhile to go through, but it’s well worth the read!

The Full Ejaculation By Command Review

Premature ejaculation can be overcome if you first understand it. Why does it happen? Who does it happen to? Can it really be cured, or will you have to live with it forever? Lloyd Lester, author of Ejaculation By Command, answers these all important questions and more.

Men who truly want to learn how to overcome premature ejaculation will really enjoy this approach, because it covers all the bases from beginning to end. He also points out common misconceptions about premature ejaculation. Debunking the myths surrounding PE is another important step in truly getting past it.

Techniques For Controlling Orgasm

After a lengthy introduction, Lloyd to jumps right into sex techniques, which is what most men with PE are chomping at the bit to learn. You may be tempted to skip the intro, but the beginning chapters are packed with information that is essential in understanding PE. However, once you get to the really good stuff, there’s no shortage of exercises for men who want to train their body to perform better, from PC muscle exercises to exercises with a partner.

Ejaculation By Command offers plenty of pictures and easy to read diagrams to help men visually see the different phases of orgasm and how they can learn to control themselves during the stages of climax. As you read through the chapters in Ejaculation By Command, you’ll learn how to relax your mind and body so you can please your partner before you orgasm.

Why This Guide Is So Much Better Than Others Out There

There are numerous guides out there claiming to teach men how to control their orgasm and get rid of PE forever. Problem is, many of them fail to actually deliver on this claim. Ejaculation By Command is one of the best guides out there – simply because Lloyd favors STEP BY STEP instruction to teach you how to become the master of your own orgasm, instead of letting your climax control you.

After reading Ejaculation By Command in its entirety, men who actually plan on implementing the steps that Lloyd outlines (and any man who suffers from PE should) will have plenty to do! From exercises that will strengthen your body and improve the control you have over your climax to changing your diet to improve your sexual stamina, you’ll find everything you need in this book to say goodbye to premature ejaculation forever!

With Ejaculation By Command, you’ll also get several bonus guides that will help you improve your sex life once you’re able to last long enough to actually have great sex!

Emergency Tactics To Last Longer

If you suffer from PE, you’re definitely going to want to read the entire Ejaculation By Command guide – but sometimes men want a quick fix, especially if they plan on getting laid tonight. This bonus guide offers several tactics that you can use tonight to last longer!

Raunchy Sex Secrets: Transforming Your Life In Wickedly Sensuous Ways

This guide is a little basic, and the suggestions aren’t as raunchy as the title suggests. Those looking for the really dirty stuff aren’t going to find it in here. The suggestions, however, are still great and more inexperienced folks will enjoy trying out some different things.

Female Orgasm Secrets: How To Give Women Insanely Powerful Orgasms

Learn the basics of female orgasms and how they work, as well as specific techniques you can use to give her incredible, earth shattering orgasms. A perfect follow up guide for men that have read and employed the techniques in Ejaculation By Command and want to focus on their partner’s pleasure.

Top 10 Sex Positions

Learn 10 new sex positions, from the sensually sweet to the dirty and dominating. Illustrated with excellent photography featuring gorgeous girls Eva Angelina and Madelyn Marie. Fun to look at, even more fun to try on your own!

101 Romantic Ideas by Michael Webb

You’re never going to get laid unless you can seduce your partner with a touch (or more) of romance. Michael Webb has long been touted as the “Oprah Love Expert” and when you get Ejaculation By Command, you also get 101 Romantic Ideas. You can use them to make your lover swoon before ever getting into bed with them and showing off your new lovemaking skills.

With Ejaculation By Command, you’ll also get access to three great videos on how to give sensational oral sex as well as videos on the g-spot and orgasms. There’s really no comparison here – this is one of the best products to help a man who doesn’t last long enough in bed learn to control his ejaculation as well as improve his oral sex skills and learn to spice up his sex life so sex is never boring again!