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The Prostate Massage And Orgasm Guide Review

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The Prostate Massage And Orgasm Guide teaches you how to stimulate the prostate and turn a regular orgasm into a WOW orgasm!

While it’s pretty simple for most men to have an orgasm during sex, it’s just a regular ol’ orgasm unless the prostate gland is stimulated. That’s right – the prostate gland is like a woman’s g-spot, but for a guy. While the route to get there isn’t exactly favored by a lot of guys (sticking something up your anus may not be your idea of a good time) but the results are out of this world!

The Good

If you’re looking for a guide on everything there is to know about the male prostate (including some information that you would probably consider TMI), the Prostate Massage And Orgasm Guide is an excellent choice. There’s definitely no shortage of topics covered here, and no stone is left unturned when it comes to a man’s prostate gland. Whether it’s a discussion about reducing the risk of prostate cancer, how to get clean before and after a prostate massage and specific techniques to use, this book covers it all.

Although there are some spelling and grammatical errors that will leave you re-reading a sentence a few times to get the meaning of it, the author’s conversational tone is a welcome change from the usual dry, statistical feel of many of the other prostate massage guides out there. You’ll enjoy reading about prostate massage from a guy’s perspective – it’s almost like the author is talking to you one on one.

The Bad

The Prostate Massage And Orgasm Guide isn’t for every man. For example, although the book does cover how to get over the squeamishness that many men have about anything touching or going in their butts, if you’re really really against the idea, this guide isn’t going to help all that much.

On a technical note, there are some spelling errors in the Prostate Massage And Orgasm Guide, and there is a definite lack of visual engagement here. While the all text format may not be an issue for women, men learn best (and are intrigued more by) visual stimuli. Men who don’t enjoy reading are going to get bored about halfway through the book, if not earlier. On the plus side, there are decent headlines, so it’s not that difficult to skip around and find what you want, or reference back to a section after you’ve already read the whole thing.

The author doesn’t give much information about how to use condoms to keep anal sex toys clean, although he does suggest using a latex glove when using your fingers. (Neoprene or any non-latex glove can be used for guys that have a latex allergy, although the author does not suggest this). Other bits of missing information or sections that could be elaborated on more are what types of lube to use (everyone has heard of KY Jelly and in all honesty, there are much higher quality anal lubes out on the market today) and exactly how to clean your anal sex toys.

The Bottom Line

The Prostate Massage And Orgasm Guide is a must for any man who is interested in exploring his body to the fullest during sex and receiving the most intense pleasure possible. While there are a few things that this guide could have done better (more pictures, please!), the value of the information contained within should not be underestimated. If it is difficult for you to read a huge chunk of text in one sitting, commit yourself to reading just a few sections at a time. It’s a lot to take in, so don’t expect to be able to catapult yourself to prostate heaven within ten minutes of reading the guide. However, with careful exploration of all the techniques in the book, you’ll be able to experience what men who have tried prostate massage call the “holy grail” of sex. It’s well worth the read!

The Full Prostate Massage And Orgasm Guide Review

The Prostate Massage And Orgasm Guide teaches you how to access your own pleasure button (and how to show your partner how to access it) so you can take your orgasms from ho-hum to “WOW!” Once you learn the right tips and techniques, you’ll be able to experience the most intense pleasure you’ve ever experienced during masturbation or sex with your lover.

Prostate massage can give men the most intense experience they’ve ever had during masturbation or sex, even more than the best handjob or blowjob they’ve ever gotten!

Here’s What You’ll Learn In The Prostate Massage And Orgasm Guide:

  • What the prostate gland is and how to find it
  • Why massaging your prostate can improve your health and reduce your risk of cancer (by 30%!!)
  • How to get ready for prostate massage (cleanliness is a must!)
  • How to get over being squeamish about something in your butt
  • How to do it yourself during masturbation
  • Breathing techniques to help you relax your anus
  • Step by step instructions on how to massage the prostate
  • How to teach your partner to do it on you
  • Different types of male orgasms (yes, you can have different types too, it’s not just for the ladies!)
  • Anal sex toys to use during masturbation and sex to massage your prostate for you
  • And much, much more!

As you can see, there is truly an abundance of information here about all things prostate – so if that’s what you’re looking for, the Prostate Massage And Orgasm Guide is pretty much everything you need. There are few guides out there that cover this topic in such detail.

The headlines and clear table of contents make it easy to skip around if you want to or quickly reference back to something you’ve already read. However, skipping around isn’t recommended. Although reading through the medical facts and statistics about the prostate may seem boring, it’s really for your own good. You don’t want to go sticking anything up your butt until you’re fully educated and fully informed. Skip around at your own risk!

In addition to the plethora of information found in the Prostate Massage And Orgasm Guide, it’s actually good information – not a whole lot of fluff to speak of. The author cautions against using sex toys in the bum that don’t have a flared base, because yes, they can get lost up there – buying you an embarrassing trip to the emergency room. The author also discusses using plenty of lubrication (you absolutely CANNOT massage the prostate with ANYTHING – finger or toy – without lube) and notes that anal sex toys must be kept very, very clean to limit the spread of bacteria.

Overall, the Prostate Massage And Orgasm Guide is an all-in-one book that covers pretty much everything you would ever want to know about prostate massage from how to do it to how to teach your partner how to do it. While some sex tips guides may have small sections on prostate massage, if you’re looking to get into it (or even get better at doing it), THIS is the guide you want to get.

10 Libido Types – Which One Is YOUR Girl?

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Libido types are important for understanding your partner. The more often you can practice touching each other, the easier and more magical it will get! The amount of time that you have available for sex will vary, but you can maximize your chances by gaining an understanding of your wife’s libido. Take these tips to heart and make the most of her love-style.

1. The Sensual Type

The sensual woman is an emotional creature and sex is a pure expression of her love for you. She adores the exotic when it comes to exploring the finer things in life, so don’t be surprised if she enjoys feeling champagne bubbles on her skin or the taste of fresh fruit and chocolate during foreplay.

2. The Erotic Type

Eroticism is defined by its intensity. An erotic libido demands the extraordinary – something breathtaking and adventurous. This woman probably won’t turn down “ordinary” sex, but to really grab her attention it needs to have that spark.

3. The Dependent Type

A dependent libido understands sex as a way to relieve stress and relax. A woman thus inclined is likely to become upset and frustrated without frequent release, but may not always be willing to initiate. To avoid the cycle of abstinence – then fighting over a lack of sex drive – then make-up-sex release, you may want to try adding some other regular physical activity to your routine.

Try going for hikes or playing a sport together to invigorate that competitive spirit and warm up your bodies, minds and emotions before letting go.

4. The Reactive Type

This sexual personality is rarely aroused before their partner. They will almost never instigate sex through foreplay, but can have an active sex life if their lover takes the lead. It can take a lot longer to get things going, but don’t fret! Showing and telling your wife how turned on you are by her is a surefire way to ignite her flame.

5. The Entitled Type

Hopefully neither you nor your wife fall into this category. This kind of lover doesn’t really believe they have any responsibility to pleasure their partner, or believes their skills are better than they truly are, and so feels as if they are entitled to receive pleasure but don’t actually give any back. This type of lover holds and resonates loving sexual energy, but never replicates or reciprocates it. In short, the entitled libido is selfish, ignorant or both. It’s time to do something different, right?

6. The Addictive Type

This kind of person tends to get sex-obsessed. It is an absolutely necessary component of their day-to-day lives, often to the detriment of other areas, including relationships. Addictive lovers are prone to cheating and may have a difficult time maintaining relationships if they cannot overcome their emotional dependence on sexual pleasure. Discovering their true sexual and emotional potential will help them recover from addiction and learn to enjoy a healthy, regular sex life without feeling desperate.

7. The Stressed Type

A stressed out lover is no fun for anyone, so if this describes you or your wife, some immediate change is necessary! This kind of libido is going to be very low, because sex is an uncomfortable event filled with anxiety. Pressure to perform and worries of inadequacy make true intimacy nearly impossible. This person needs to do some real soul searching and work towards coming to accept their body and having their body accepted by others.

8. The Disinterested Type

Sometimes the result of past sexual distress, sometimes the product of a very low libido, some men and women are just not very interested in sex and orgasm. This, of course, does not mean they don’t enjoy intimate touch! Some women do not enjoy the thrusting of a penis inside them, but instead find great pleasure in oral sex, mutual masturbation and the skillful manual manipulation of a coochie connoisseur, and don’t mind reciprocating for an eager lover.

9. The Detached Type

A detached lover doesn’t necessarily dislike sex, but rather tends to forget about it when it is on the back burner. Even if they feel sexual, they may tend to spend a few minutes with masturbation rather than initiate sex, because of the time it would take away from the things currently occupying their mind. With this kind of partner, it can be important to make dates.

Take time away from the TV, the computer, Addictive lovers are prone to cheating and may have a difficult time maintaining relationships if they cannot overcome their emotional dependence on sexual pleasure. the kids and the kitchen; turn off the cell phones and lock the doors (or better yet, go somewhere special away from it all!) and get your minds focused on each other.

10. The Compulsive Type

Folks with fetishes and problems with chronic masturbation tend to fall in this category, where sex is only really enjoyable if they are able to follow a specific ritual. This need is often psychosomatic and can easily be adapted to work in a relationship.

Most women who are only able to achieve orgasm through one specific act or movement can learn to achieve orgasm in other ways if the sensation is altered over time – in other words, if you spend enough time fingering her while she uses her vibrator, she can probably learn to orgasm just from your hands, without the use of the vibrator!

What Your Eyes Say To A Girl During Dating

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Dating is heavily reliant on eye contact. Many consider them as balls stuck in a socket, producing eye-crusts every freakin’ morning, and unable to modify shape. The eyes can’t even change color unless irritated. Far from being spectacular, they are simply there absorbing the scene.

But consider this – more than being instruments of vision, eyes have the ability to make somebody feel self-conscious and uncomfortable at a distance. Ever been slapped just by looking at a lady a certain way?

The Eyes Say It All

  • The eyes can betray a man’s lack of sexual confidence.
  • They reveal his cluelessness as to where her clitoris really is.
  • They can say, “Wow!” quicker than a dropped jaw can.
  • They reveal how his balls ascended up his throat after ejaculating inside fertile Amy.

Through the eyes, one can invoke serious sexual intent. You can gaze into her soul and proclaim the sensual pleasures about to envelop her body. Eyes reveal your ache for her breasts and curves, they announce your confidence, competence and awareness of what’s about to happen.

One woman required her partner to keep eye contact 85% of the time whenever they are having sex. That way, she doesn’t feel like a sex toy or a glorified giver of sexual favors. They want to be seen.

If you’ve ever been accused of being passionless, unaffected and indifferent in bed – simply increase the eye contact. There might be other goodies to scope on a naked woman, but looking at her eyeballs is just as important and pleasurable.

Increase Intimacy With Eye Contact

To increase and strengthen the bond between couples, there has to be an increase in the frequency and duration of eye contacts. Psychologists have learned that the more a couple gazes at each other, the more drawn and attracted they are to each other.

Moreover, closely acquainted individuals don’t talk through their mouths, but through their eyes. It’s the “I know what you’re thinking” bit. Through eye locks, you can actually be strangers but feel like you’ve been together forever.

Men who intuitively know the power of eye contact may have deliberately disconnected by avoiding them altogether. The absence of intimacy means less complications and an easy transition to the next one-night stand.

Increase Vulnerability With Eye Contact

Just as strong as the desire to be seen, is the fear of being fully known. Eye contacts make her very vulnerable. Actually, it makes both of you vulnerable) With deep eye locks, she’s not only exposing her face, pimples and everything, but her thoughts as well.

Her eyes will be screaming her thoughts. You can see through her, beyond the façade, and that makes her feel very vulnerable. But this is really good news. Believe it or not, vulnerability is an element of hot sex.

How To Master The ULTIMATE Orgasm!

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An orgasm gives some men the impression that the women should be responsible for stimulating themselves. This has always seemed a bit unfair to me, since the woman is providing him with the stimulation he needs to reach orgasm. So shouldn’t he do the same to give her an orgasm? However, when handled appropriately, having a woman stimulate herself can be a pleasurable experience for both her and her partner.

Be A Multi-Tasker

Multi-tasking basically means the man does more than one thing at the same time. For example, he may be penetrating the vagina while also stimulating the clitoris by pressing his pubic bone against, also called “grinding.” This is a great method for the woman to reach orgasm.

If the couple wants to achieve orgasm at or near the same time, this is clearly the best option. Other couples I’ve met with have resorted to taking turns, meaning one partner will climax first, then the other. Depending on how each person best reaches orgasm, this may be a possibility, but for couples that enjoy climaxing together, this may not be a satisfactory option.

Experiment With Her Orgasm

The best thing about clitoral orgasms is that they can be achieved in many different ways. Because the entire area is highly sensitive, experimenting with these types of orgasms can also add some interest and spice to sexual relationships, which may have become routine and boring over time.

The main benefit of experimenting is that you’ll learn just what makes your woman tick—sexually speaking, of course. While some women prefer direct stimulation, others find it uncomfortable and prefer to have the area around the clitoris stimulated instead. Women who have learned how to have an orgasm through masturbation will generally have a much better idea of what type of stimulation they prefer than women who have not.

Know Her Orgasm

As I mentioned above, the clitoris fills up with blood and becomes erect like a penis. This means it’s much more noticeable when a woman is aroused. Because the clitoris does not need to be erect for sexual intercourse to occur, clitoral orgasms will only happen if the woman is properly aroused.

That means some type of foreplay is generally a requirement. With continuous stimulation of the clitoris, it becomes more engorged with blood and this further heightens its sensitivity. As stimulation continues, a point is reached when all of the tension in the area must be released—the point in which an orgasm is experienced.

The Big Conversation Mistake 90% Of Men Make!

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Flirting can lead to big mistakes. The biggest mistake men make when interacting with beautiful women is talking in a monotonous, emotionless, dull “filling in time” way. While starting conversations with women seems hard enough, it appears even more daunting to keep a interesting, fun conversation going.

Don’t Change Your Behavior

When men hang around with their friends they laugh, make jokes, have fun and don’t take things too seriously. But for some reason, when a man finds himself interested in a beautiful woman, he usually becomes very reserved. He stops laughing. He stops making jokes. He stops teasing. He stops having fun. He stops being flirtatious.

When in the presence of a potential date, instead of keeping up the friendly vibe he has with his friends, he suddenly becomes boring. He won’t make jokes or laugh with the woman, he won’t play around like he does with his friends, and he takes things way too seriously.

Why do men change their behavior around women? They usually don’t’ even realizing they are doing it. The reason is that men are so afraid of losing their only chance with a particular woman that they turn into “Mr. Serious.” Don’t mistaken this for confidence.

Men get so nervous talking to beautiful women that they lose all creativity and can’t make interesting conversation. Fearful that they might say something rude or challenging, they resort to boring “walking on egg shells” conversations, which results in no emotion.

Remember This Simple Law

While men can tell you that it’s important to not be boring when you try to meet women, they often don’t even realize when they’re doing it.

1. When you fear loosing a woman you become cautious
2. When you’re cautious you become serious
3. When you’re serious you become boring
4. When you’re boring women aren’t attracted
5. When women aren’t attracted you don’t get a date

Men have such a strong “I must have this girl” attitude that the more they have physical attraction to a woman, the more serious and boring they become in their poor attempts to date them.

Don’t Beg Her!

Although films and television strongly encourage the idea of begging women, it doesn’t work. These values are used to evoke emotions for the movie audience, and in people take it to heart and buy into the idea that this behavior will lead to success. It always seems like Mr. Romantic is doing the right thing by standing outside a balcony window every night singing love songs, reading poetry and bringing flowers until his dream girl finally falls in love with him.

While these actions may seem romantic and work in movies, we don’t live in the movies; we live in the real world. Women can smell manipulative men ten miles away and have no respect for their child-like behavior.