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How To Give Your Girl The SQUIRTING Orgasm Of Her Life!

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Squirting can be extremely hot and surprising if it has never done it before. If she has never squirted before, you could be the greatest lover she has ever been with by employing a few simple techniques. Making your girlfriend or wife squirt is not all that difficult when you understand the physiology of how it is actually performed.

A common misconception is that women who have never squirted before are unable to. This is simply not true. Unless there is an anatomical problem or sexual dysfunction, all women can squirt. Here is a quick guide to squirting so your wife or girlfriend can experience the orgasm of her life.

What Is It?

When most men think about squirting, they think that the girl is urinating. This is not true. Although squirting is a clear liquid, it is not urine.  It does come out of the urethra and not the G-spot, but the liquid has no affiliation with pee. Before you try to make your girl squirt, there are a few things that you need to be comfortable with.

When a girl is squirting, there is a slight chance that she could pee. Being comfortable with this is essential. Don’t freak out on her if she does pee a little bit. This is fairly normal for girls who have never ejaculated before. Make sure that she knows you are okay with her peeing if this occurs. If she is nervous she will not be able to relax and she will not be able to squirt.

Getting Her Ready

Before you ever try to make your girl squirt, you need to make sure that she is warmed up. In order to put your girl at ease and get her in the mood, you must start off with a lot of foreplay. Shoving your fingers into your girl without getting her ready is never recommended.

Use a lot of kissing and teasing to get your girl wet enough to start fingering her. Suck on her breasts and nipples while running your fingertips up and down her inner thigh. When she starts to breathe harder you will be able to tell that she’s ready for you to start touching her vagina. Again, don’t go straight for the inside of her vagina. Play with her clitoris a little bit and brush the outer lips with your fingers to get her ready.

The G-Spot

The G-spot is going to be the primary way of getting your girl to start squirting. There are a lot of women out there that are so in tune with their bodies that they can ejaculate by just touching their breasts or their clitoris. However, most women will not be able to ejaculate unless they are being stimulated manually through their G-spot.

If you have problems finding the G-spot, there is a simple guide you can follow. Insert your fingers into your woman’s vagina palm-face up. The G-spot is located on the upper-most portion of the vagina about three inches in. The G-spot is a very fleshy textured patch and you should be able to feel it with your fingers. As soon as you touch it you should see your girlfriend squirm a bit.

Making Her Squirt

Now that you successfully found her G-spot it’s time to start making her squirt. Start to curl your fingers as if you are saying “come here.” She should moan in delight. If you start to feel the G-spot fill up and get solid, you’re doing it right. Increase the pressure to her G-spot and start going a little faster.

Take your other hand and press down on the area around her stomach and pubic bone. This will give more pressure to the area and add to her arousal. Take direction from her. If she says go faster, then go faster. If says that she feels like she’s going to pee, tell her that it’s okay and to let go. Within a couple of minutes she should start to ejaculate. You might see a small gush of liquid from her vagina or a stream of liquid.

4 Qualities In A Man That Are IRRESISTIBLE To Women

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Flirting can be one of the most awkward situations if you are not prepared. These qualities – or traits – are things that girls will find desirable. If you project these qualities you will be more likely to attract women.

1. Confidence

The reason most girls are attracted to jocks, bad boys and other men that don’t seem to be “right” for them, is because these men usually act arrogant.

For this to make sense you must understand that women are insanely good interpreters. If a man says or does something, a woman will look beneath his comments or actions and ask herself, “What is he really trying to say?”

Arrogance is interpreted as confidence. And as you may know, confidence is the most important trait you can portray to a woman. Confidence alone will get you more dates than you could ever imagine.

The essence of flirting is based on projecting confidence around women. In addition, arrogance communicates “higher status” and an “I’m too cool” attitude, which appeals to most a girl’s need to climb the social ladder.

2. Dominance

A significant part of being what women call “a real man” is taking charge in all situations. Girls will often say, “I like a man who knows what he wants.” Unfortunately, this statement is baffling to most men.

A man who knows what he wants doesn’t ask for permission. He takes the leadership role in every situation and expects others to comply. The next time you are out in clubs or bars, watch as the dominant men control the situation when they ask a girl out, talking to them, taking them by the hand and guiding them through the club to another location.

These men expect women to follow their lead. They don’t politely ask – they just do it. You might think this attitude seems rude or careless, but what you need to understand is that women want men to act this way.

Why do you think men who ask, “What movie do you want see?” get responses such as…

“I don’t know.”
“I don’t really care.”
“You decide.”

Women want men to be the leaders. Men who ask women to make these decisions get vague responses because women want men to lead. The woman is offering the man a chance to affirm his manliness. An “alpha male” will make decisions.

It may seem daunting to maintain this sort of control, but as these behaviors are broken down into actions, the need for this will become clear.

When women say that they are attracted to strong men, they don’t mean physically strong men; they mean men who can control the situation.

3. Humor

Humor is a very powerful. Everyone loves to laugh, and people love to hang around those who make them laugh.

Humor is something that all women are looking for in a man. But what you may not realize is that humor alone isn’t enough to attract women. You also need to maintain eye contact when you are approaching her.

If you become naturally funny, you’ll be able to keep fun conversations going with women as long as you want. You don’t want your humor to come across too goofy, nor do you want to look like a “try-hard” when you crack a joke.

Humor combined with body language is a powerful conversational tool that everyone needs to develop if they want to succeed socially.

4. Higher Social Status (Be Cooler)

You must understand that along with physical attraction comes social status. Just think back to school – all the cool people hung out together, as did all the other social groups with their respective peers.

The advantage you have when meeting new women is your hidden social status. Most women make dozens of assumptions about you the minute they lay eyes on you, and this includes your social status.

Women want to hang out with guys that are cooler than them. When you talk to a woman who catches your eye, you must always portray yourself as being “cooler” than her, or at least “as cool”. This increases the likelihood of her being interested in a date.

So how do you accomplish this? You accomplish this by increasing your coolness quotient.

  • Don’t act insecure and always ask “Is everything Ok?”, “Have I done something wrong?”, “Do you like me?”, “What do you think of me so far.” Never say these things!
  • Dress in fashionable, comfortable clothes that you feel great in.
  • Be selective with the people you hang around, as well as which women you choose to date.

Now that you understand attraction, and what it is that makes women feel attracted to men, let’s discuss the basics of flirting. And after this, we’ll talk about how to incorporate these must-have qualities into your conversations.

4 Anal Sex Exercises For Increased Pleasure TODAY!

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Anal sex can painful when your girlfriend or wife is not prepared. The anus is a short button-like piece of soft tissue, at the end of the intestinal system. It’s lined with tissue and muscle that connects it to the clitoral network, and it’s densely packed with nerve endings which make it extremely responsive to light touch and deep pressure.

The bad news is that it’s not very elastic compared to the vagina. It also contains no natural lubricant, which means it’s important to take anal sex gradually, to avoid skin getting cut or split.

Surrounding the pink, wrinkled button of happiness are two rings of muscle, the internal and external sphincters, which tighten up to keep the anus closed and relax to release bowel contents. You control the external sphincter, meaning that you can tighten and relax it at will. These exercises are perfect to employ before first time anal sex.

In order for your girl to be more relaxed and anal penetration easier for the both of you, it’s important that she works those
muscles. If you want, you can also do them. In the case of men, they are very helpful when it comes to controlling your ejaculation and increasing erection capacity.

1. Squeeze And Hold

As you slowly inhale, contract your PC muscles (if you haven’t yet found them, just pretend you want to stop peeing; the muscles that contract in order to stop the flow of urine are your PC muscles). Keep the rest of the body relaxed, especially your shoulders.

Hold your breath (and contract your muscles) the time that it takes you to count up to ten, then slowly exhale and gradually relax the tension in your muscles. Do the exercise ten times. If you find them too tiring at first, don’t overdo it. It’s just like with sports, you have to start gradually so that you don’t tire or get clammed up.

2. Squeeze And Push

Start in the same way I described above, but hold your breath and contract the PC muscles the time that is takes you to count up to five. The next five seconds, exhale deeply while pushing out your muscles, like when you poop. Repeat ten times.

3. Quick As A Bird

This exercise is a little more difficult than the previous two. The beginning is the same, the difference is that, this time, while you’re holding your breath, try and quickly relax and contract your PC muscles five times. Start with just five repetitions, so that you don’t tire the muscles, then gradually move up to ten repetitions.

4. Back And Forth

This exercise is only meant for your girlfriend or wife, and it involves all of her down there parts. Here’s what she has to do:
as she slowly inhales, she should tighten both her anus and the muscles inside her vaginal canal, one by one from the opening, all the way back to her cervix. She should stay like that for a maximum of five seconds, then, as she slowly exhales, she can release the pressure first off the vaginal muscles, then off her anus. Repeat the exercise ten times.

4 Simple Ways To Build Sexual Tension

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Sex tips will come in handy when you are trying to build sexual tension. However, you must understand that women’s minds work indirectly. Women don’t try to find concrete solutions to problems. They prefer to talk them “out of their system.”

A woman comes home from work and tells her boyfriend that another co-worker is driving her crazy. The man tries to solve this issue for her by giving her suggestions, such as “just talk to her about it”, or “go tell your story to the boss.” But women don’t want solutions, they want to express their feelings to “get them off their chests.”

So how can you apply this to attracting women? If you understand how women think, you are much better able to communicate with them on their level, or “speak the same language.” You will also not have to deal with rejection.

1. Answer Questions With Questions

Often men make the mistake of bringing up topics like,

“I went to X school…”
“I live in X city…”
“I work in X industry…”

Many men meet women and then use these topics because they run out of things to say. Big mistake.

How can you tell that you’re doing well with women? When they start asking YOU these questions. There’s no point bringing up these topics before they’re really important. Do you really want to know the occupation of the guy passing you in the street? Most likely, you don’t care.

Well, women feel exactly the same way.

Unless a woman is already interested or curious about you, she won’t ask these questions. This is where you can build tension without much thinking. Answer her questions with questions.

2. Be A Blank Canvas

If she knows nothing about you, she’ll want to know something.“He was amazing! But I don’t know anything about him. Where does he work? How old is he?”

Why do we do this? Because the more a woman needs to fill in the blanks, the more she’s thinking about you. The more she thinks about you, the more she’ll like you. Singles are more likely to be interested when they do not know anything about you.

3. Don’t Give In To Her

After a woman begins to show interest she may say things like, “Do you like my hair?” “Why would you do that? Is it because you don’t like me?” This is where most guys crumble while they are flirting.

Never give in to this. Instead, brush off her questions and never directly answer them. If a woman says, “Oh, I can’t believe you did that! Is it because you don’t like me?” and you say, “No, no, I do like you, I’m sorry.” Bam! You’ve just lost the upper hand and the woman has found out exactly what she wanted to know.

If you want to keep women interested, you need to keep them curious and keep them guessing. You can do this by putting down her comments. These questions present a great opportunity to build tension by teasing her further. “Do you like my hair?” “No, not really.” “Why? Are you trying to bring the 60’s back into fashion?”

“Do you like my hair?”
“Well, do you like it?”
“Why do you want to know?”

After you tease a woman about her dorky hair, walk, tag sticking out of her jeans, or whatever it is you have identified to tease, she might respond with a test like “Oh but you love me anyway!” As a general rule: never say “yes.”

4. Don’t Lose Her Interest

Many women stop being interested in men once they find out the men like them. This is a solid fact that I can verify. Many women I’ve spoken to say they lose interest and stop calling men once they know the men like them.

“Awe… but you love me!”
“Do I?”
“Is that what you think?”

If the woman asks personal questions, answer them with sarcastic and humorous answers

What’s your name? How old are you? These questions women are most likely to ask when they’re interested in you.

Men will then usually resort to tedious factual answers with bad body language that will not lead to the kind of flirtatious exchange that engages a woman’s attention. It’s not that these questions are bad – they just shouldn’t be used in a first encounter.

When women hit you with standard questions like these, it’s a good idea to have cheeky indirect answers ready to throw back at them. Playful and absurd remarks work the best. Here are some examples of better responses:

If you don’t talk in a playful tone of voice you’ll come across as serious, arrogant or just weird and you will never get a first kiss. On the other hand, if you answer her questions playfully with logical answers you’ll seem childish and feminine. So make sure your comments are both playful and absurd.

Of course you can’t keep this charade up forever, but by answering her questions in a funny way, you show her that you have a fun personality and don’t take the date too seriously. You can always answer these questions later if they keep coming up.

3 Sex Tips For A Better Sexual Relationship With ALL Women!

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Sex tips usually try to tell men how to last longer in bed. However, according to a recent study in the Journal of Sexual Medicine, the “most desirable” length of time to spend having sex turned out to be only 7 to 13 minutes. Women started rating anything from 10 to 30+ minutes as “too long”. In fact, only 3 to 7 minutes of intercourse were needed for the act to be considered “adequate” and only when sex averaged one to two minutes or less did couples think that coitus wasn’t lasting long enough.

Be open, ask your wife which of the many techniques that she has experienced turn her on the fastest. Don’t worry about her finding the question awkward; she’s been waiting to hear it from you for years, but you haven’t afforded her a safe place to be explicitly asked about this delicate issue.

Knowing that she has an easier time coming all by herself, it can be easy to feel rejected and replaced. You’ve heard that old joke, right? “Why did God create man?” “Because a vibrator can’t mow the lawn.” That may be true – I’ve seen some pretty ridiculous contraptions in my search for sexual fulfillment, but none that could cut the grass!

But for women, sex isn’t a separate part of our existence. Lust isn’t distinct from our love and respect for you. These emotions intertwine and are incredibly complex. Here are 3 sex tips for better relationships.

1. A Vibrator Can’t Cuddle

Yes, sometimes when we are hot and bothered, when we need to relax and focus or fall fast asleep, masturbating is preferable. Sometimes we all just want to be alone – you too, right? But there is a clear distinction between the easiest way to orgasm, and the most enjoyable sexual experience. Sexpert Tracey Cox points out that “there is a reason why we jump through extraordinarily complicated hoops to not only make someone like us, but lust after us – it might be harder to have an orgasm with another person but it’s usually far superior quality.”

2. Throw Out the Calendar

What kind of hoops have you been jumping through? Sex schedules, couch cuddling sessions, couple’s therapy, a bevy of skills workshops – your brain is probably so full of new techniques that it’s ready to explode! Throw out that calendar. Women want the type of orgasms that are hot, exciting, intense, and don’t interfere with their afternoon workout and getting dinner on the table! The only way to ensure you are prepared for hot sex is to master one mind-blowing skill at a time.

3. Be a Musician, Not a Technician

You’ve warmed your wife up and she is primed and ready with you between her legs. As one hand heads for her soft bits, you run down the list of techniques to try in your head. You are so preoccupied with what’s next in your arsenal that you can’t really tell if she’s enjoying herself or not. You don’t bother to ask, because you’re too concerned with transitioning into the next move, and acting out the lie that you’re best for her as a “strong, silent type”.

A technician keeps a list of jobs he needs to get done and checks each one off in a row, making sure he hits every point until the machine in front of him is “fixed”. While an indispensable part of being a good man in day-to-day life, darling, this is not a sexy skill. Kim Cattrall writes that “the musician who never gets past technique never really plays music”. You need to be fit and finessed enough to know a few techniques really well when having sex. When you are a master at making love, you can have dozens of skills in your arsenal, but only when you can do them all well.