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2 Ways To Undress A Woman

By loveandsex

Foreplay begins before a girl even has her clothes off. Use one of these two ways to strip her down so the foreplay leads into something even more exciting!

1. The Orange Model

This has something to do with tearing clothes off a woman’s body. It’s fast, furious, with severed buttons lying all over. It comes without warning, is swift and unforgiving of any delays. The goal is to unveil booty in the soonest possible time.

The Orange Model is one of intensity, all energy channeled to ultimately getting skin-to-skin contact, which usually happens during frenzied love-making where partners won’t tolerate even a single centimeter of physical separation. It’s frantic and frenetic.

Everything happens so fast. Snap! And all clothes scatter on the floor.

When all the gloves are off, what’s really there to do next? It’s the dead end in stripping as you can’t strip her skin no more. When you’re staring at a naked woman’s body with your naked eye, there’s no room left for the imagination. Everything is right there!

Now, you’re visually confirming if she’s cut and curved in all the right places. There’s little room for teasing, because the desire to behold hidden assets has been indulged.

Am I saying that the Orange Model sucks? Not at all. The good thing about it is that it’s FAST. The poor thing about it is that it’s FAST. You have to decide what’s both practical and beneficial for a particular situation.

2. The Onion Model

This model luxuriates with time – the process is likened to skinning an onion.

This is in contrast to peeling an orange where you only deal with a single layer of skin, and voila, the meat is exposed. Peeling an orange requires boldness and tenacity as you tear it’s relatively thick skin. But the onion is a little different. A little tenderness and patience is required because you can’t get to the heart of an onion in one bold stroke. You peel its numerous layers, gradually exposing its core.

(Here, stripping is not taken for granted. Just think of it. Stripping is an art as well as a multi-billion dollar industry. Men actually pay ridiculous amounts of money in strip clubs just to witness clothes unwrap a woman, never mind that they never get to touch her.)

In the Onion Model, clothes aren’t simply skimmed over, stripping is celebrated in & of itself. It is mildly paced and elegantly executed – in contrast to the fierce and intense manner of the Orange.

When you de-fashion a woman, you are taking away something that attracted you to her in the first place. How else could a man be interested in what’s under there if her packaging isn’t right? Was it not her foxy red dress that sparked your fancy?

But what do most men do?

They attack clothes like archenemies, like bumps to triumph over. Give a moment’s hint of privacy, and they raid like a SWAT Team and finish de-styling proceedings in-between heartbeats.

Easy Junior!

When you peel a woman so hastily, you miss on the joys and tensions of undressing her. You throw all that opportunity away! And for what? Of course we know for what! It’s got something to do with breasts and stuff. But hey, do you have the faintest idea how fun undressing a girl can be?! If not, then it’s probably because you’ve never looked at it as a process.

Filed Under: Foreplay Tagged With: female orgasm, foreplay, have better sex, sex tips

3 Keys To Erotic Massage

By loveandsex

Erotic massage will get a woman warmed up for sex, but you need to do it right. With these three tips, you can give your girl an outstanding erotic massage!

It’s not about targeting deep muscles as it is simply adoring lover’s skin. As such, you really have great autonomy going about it. Sensuality is not found on the strokes, but in YOUR PRESENCE – it’s in the vibes you give off.

1. Be In The Moment

For the commercially available masseur, touching her is a job, and they have done it to several other clients that day. But for you, touching the beloved is a delight, you don’t count minutes during foreplay as you’re not being paid by the hour.

Effect slow, leisurely motions and take in the sensual bombardment.

Make no mistake, giving the sensual massage is just as blissful as receiving it. In spite being the giver, notice how your senses get bombarded with stimulation, feel through your palms the softness and suppleness of her body.

Delight your eyes at the curves of her of illuminated form. Smell the tingling scent of oil or lube rising from her skin and be attuned to her breaths and moans of rapture. Take this all in and you’ll find that giving the massage is just as great.

2. Have Confidence

Don’t go touching your partner’s body as if it’s the first time you’ve held a girl. The worst thing is to give off that vibe of uncertainty – she’ll catch it. Instead of melting and succumbing to your touch, she’ll get self-conscious and uptight. Not good for your cause.

Lead with confidence, move with control. You’re not putting on a show. Women know it if a guy has confidence. In sex, SLOOOOW is how confident and controlled men execute. This is not yet the time to gallop like a run-away pony. Don’t worry, she’ll feel your kick later.

3. Breath Regularly & Deeply

Yes, breathing is an attitude. And a pretty important one at that.

It does sound like the most basic thing, but breathing is also the most important. Everything starts with the way you breathe. When you take in oxygen, you’re replenishing life forces in your body, and if there’s one thing I want you to learn about erotic massage, and sex in general, it is to breathe regularly and deeply. Observe how a sleeping person does it, that’s the kind of relaxed and leisurely affair we’re gunning for.

The arts of Tantra and meditation have proper breathing as their cornerstone. Good luck being sensual and confident while panting delirious. (Many today live on shallow and quick breath cycles – and they still wonder why their days are always tense and nervous.)

Respiratory rate affects the rest of your body, getting fresh and ample amount of oxygen relaxes your muscles, for example. And observe how slowing down movements becomes really easy when you also slow down your breathing. Emotions, like anger, are held stable through regular and deep supply of air – as it’s very difficult to get mad when your breathing is as steady as a Uranium clock.

Filed Under: Foreplay Tagged With: confidence, erotic massage, foreplay, sex tips, tantra, tantric sex

How To Ask A Girl Out – The EASY Way!

By loveandsex

Dating tips will help you keep from making mistakes and choking on your words. Never again will you flub up! Here’s how to do it EASILY!

Ask a girl out once and you should be able to do it a million times, right? Although it may seem simple, various aspects of asking a girl out can rattle a guy to his very core. Concepts like approach anxiety are common with a lot of guys.

It doesn’t matter if you’re shy, nervous or you feel like she’s out of your league, it doesn’t have to be a catastrophe when you ask a girl out. At one point or another you’re going to have to step up your game, and be bold. Here are a few dating tips to get you through the process.

How To Approach Her

Approaching a girl that you like is one of the most difficult aspects of dating. As a guy, you’ve been cursed with the expectation to always initiate contact with the girl. For women, approaching a guy is liberating and can show confidence.

However, the threat of rejection is enough to cripple most men. When you are approaching her, make sure that you have a smile on your face. No girl wants to be approached by a guy with a frown. Don’t rush over to her like a hungry dog looking to be fed. Move a little slower than normal so you draw her in with your approach.

Starting A Conversation

There are a lot of dating tips out there that will tell you to use a specific routine. While these might work for some guys, they aren’t recommended. Routines are a “one size fits all” game that rarely works with girls that you’re actually interested in. Most of these routines are made to get girls to have one-night stands with you.

Simply saying “Hello” or “Hey can easily start a conversation with her. Introduce yourself, but don’t offer a handshake. This is a mistake that a lot of guys make when they approach girls. A handshake is not romantic; it’s business oriented. Wait until you can break the touch barrier before you actually touch her. Keep the conversation to questions about what she does and where she went to school. Judging by her body language, you should be able to tell whether or not she’s interested in you.

Breaking The Touch Barrier

The touch barrier is essential when you’re trying to ask a girl out. The touch barrier is basically the first time that you touch her. This doesn’t mean that you’re going to get to second base, it simply means that you touch her on the arm or the hand. If the approach has gone well then you should have her laughing. Breaking the touch barrier is not very difficult if you are good at flirting.

There are a lot of guys that know how to flirt, but don’t know how to approach. If you have her laughing, she might break the touch barrier before you get a chance to. Wait for her to start flirting back with you and then touch her shoulder or arm when she says something teasingly. Breaking the touch barrier is an essential of many dating tips when trying to get a woman to date you.

Ask For The Number

Asking for her number is much easier than asking her out. The best thing about asking for her number is that you aren’t definitely going to call. Although most guys do call when they the number, there is as much doubt in a girl’s mind as there is in a guy’s mind.

If the conversation is going well and she has broken the touch barrier, ask for her number. More than likely she will give it to you. Be ready with your phone when you do so you’re not fumbling with it while she’s trying to give you the number. A girl is more likely to give you her phone number than to agree to a date right then and there.

Prepare Yourself For Rejection

As with any aspect of dating, there is a chance that you could get rejected. When you go to ask a girl out, make sure that you are prepared for rejection. More than likely she will make up a story of a boyfriend or that she’s dating somebody rather than giving you a fake number. If she says that she has a boyfriend, brush it off and move one.

Don’t question her if she tells you that she has a boyfriend or if she’s not interested. You’re not going to change her mind and you’re wasting your time. Rejection is a part of dating and you need to be able to handle rejection in order to grow as a person.

Filed Under: Dating Tips Tagged With: approach women, ask a girl out, confidence, Dating Tips, flirting

The Difference Between Sex And Making Love

By loveandsex

Sex is sometimes just sex and other times it’s “making love” – this happens when you really open yourself up to someone you care about.

How Do You Best Distinguish Between The Two?

“Just sex” usually takes place outside the context of a loving relationship – one-night stands for example. People get horny – so they get laid, it’s that simple. Men and women use each other to get an orgasm or two. Motivation is mostly physical and very little, if at all, emotional. In fact, emotional entanglements are avoided and little consideration is given to the partner’s enjoyment.

“Making love,” as especially seen by women, is more romantic – more tender, respectful and considerate. It’s what lovers do. The people involved have feelings and emotional investments on each other. Motivation is both physical and emotional.

  • If lust shoves the penis down her throat, love slides it in while caressing her cheek.
  • If lust ejaculates on her face, love is kissing her tenderly.
  • If lust is fast, short & furious, love is sensual, slow and romantic.
  • If lust is purely physical, love is largely emotional & psychological.
  • If lust is penile penetration, love is penetration – and more.

Are There Any “Gray” Areas?

Although at first glance, the two may seem like night and day, but there are actually a lot of gray areas between the two. Differences can be very subtle and one could argue that they’re really one and the same. The two cannot be objectively evaluated in terms of actions, and it’s not as if they are mutually exclusive. There isn’t really much difference in terms of actuations.

“Making love” can be passionate as well as fast and furious. “Just sex” can also be sensual and slow. People in loving relationships can have sex just for the heck of it. And even one-night stands can come with romance, albeit not very often.

Pay Attention To Your Emotions

It’s in the perception and interpretation of the players. It is FELT, not seen. It is in the individual to perceive whether what’s happening is simply lust, or a combination of lust, like and love or something else.

If a woman interprets things one way, then that’s what it is! If over time, she changes her mind, and develops feelings and sees the two of you as ‘making love’, then FOR HER, it’s making love.

If it’s “just sex” to you, then FOR YOU, it’s just sex.

What If You’re Not On The Same Page With Your Lover?

Unpleasant surprises arise when partners’ views don’t match. She’s making love, and he’s just in it for the sex. And because they have differing perceptions, they consequently have incongruous expectations and behaviors. She expects him to be generous and loving, but since they’re not on the same page, he might not be those things at all!

A great lover avoids unnecessary complications by making sure they’re both on the same page. Playing with women’s emotions is NOT cool!

Filed Under: Sex Tips & Advice Tagged With: making love, orgasm, sex tips

Get The 10 Review

By loveandsex

Get The 10 is a video series specifically created to help men build enough confidence and dating skills to raise the bar a little bit, but the tips and techniques the coaches go over can be applied to any dating scenario. A great deal of different topics are covered, from improving your confidence to planning a date to getting a girl to kiss you to giving her an incredible orgasm when you finally do get her into bed with you. No stone is left unturned!

The Good

Get The 10 is exceptionally well done, especially when compared to other video style dating (and sex) guides. The audio is clear and easy to hear (although there is a bit of an echo, however it is easy to ignore) and the video is also done well – it’s not blurry, the camera doesn’t move around, and the picture is crisp and clear.

This lends a hand to the overall professional feel of the video instruction series, because frankly, no one is going to stick around and watch some guy talk about dating if it looks like he’s just jabbering into his webcam – which is definitely not the case here! The topics covered are extremely relevant to getting and dating a really hot girl, such as how to become confident in yourself and approach women confidently and once you get the phone number, what kind of date to plan if you want to be successful. While it would be nice to be able to read some of this information as opposed to having to listen to all of it, that doesn’t decrease its value one bit.

The Bad

As far as video series’ go, Get The 10 is actually very good. The filmography, the audio and the video are done very well. However, the information is only presented in a video format, which really is the main caveat here. Some men don’t process information through their auditory senses well, meaning that they’re going to have trouble understanding the information. Other men don’t learn well through visual stimuli, so this video series will be perfect for them.

Bradshaw would do well to create a companion guide with the same information so men who want to read the information can, or if they want to read along with the video they can. Another issue with only having video as opposed to having both video and book formats is that it becomes somewhat difficult to quickly reference back to what you’ve viewed already. Module 6 does have a companion PDF, but the entire series could use one as well.

The Bottom Line

While Get The 10 is specifically marketed towards dating really hot girls, it can actually be used to sharpen your game when dating any girl. Of course, you want to strive high, but don’t be discouraged if you feel like a “10” is out of your league. Bradshaw discusses how to improve yourself so that you’re a 10 as well, but that’s not the point here.

The material is very well suited to apply to any dating scenario, meaning this video series is helpful for just about any guy who wants to build his confidence and date any girl he wants. The all video instruction format isn’t something you can sit down and watch in one fell swoop (although some guys might be able to) but   you’ll definitely enjoy having what seems like a real life personal dating coach walking you through what to do step by step.

The Full Get The 10 Review

Good dating tips that can be used in any scenario are pretty difficult to come by, considering that most dating “gurus” pass out dating tips that can only be used in the scenarios they’re suggesting. Many men who spend a lot of time and effort researching dating tips end up disappointed when they go to put them into action, because the “right time and place” for these techniques just doesn’t come up all that often.

Enter Get The 10. A high quality video series that teaches men how to become confident enough to raise the bar and date the women of their dreams reveals dating tips that can be used pretty much any time and anywhere, with any girl.

What is really great about Get The 10 is that you don’t have to download any videos to your hard drive – everything is served up after your login, so you can watch the videos from your laptop, your home computer, your mobile phone – wherever you want! You get immediate access to the videos once you sign up (no waiting is a huge plus!) and new videos are added weekly so you can continue learning.

Bradshaw realizes that improving your dating game is a continual process – it’s not something that you can learn overnight. Be prepared to watch and watch again if you really want the information to stick. While this program is super easy to use, you’re not going to get everything out of it that you need to if you just watch a few clips a few times. Get The 10 is about bettering yourself and becoming confident and that’s not something that happens right away! Use this tool to your advantage, but be willing to put the time in to learn as much as you can from these great videos.

How to make yourself a “10” is the first thing you’ll learn, and then you’ll learn the art of approaching women and where to go if you want to meet the hottest ones. You’ll also learn how flirt to get a woman chasing you (instead of the other way around) and how to get her to kiss you! You’ll then get shown the perfect date under $30 (this will surprise you!) and how to up the physical connection between you and a girl. Not to mention the bonus videos on how to give a girl an orgasm and how to have a threesome! The topics in Get The 10 are incredibly relevant and useful, unlike many outdated dating tips out there.

If you’ve been looking for a video series that will teach you how to get your game on, Get The 10 is an excellent choice!

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