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5 Signs Your Man Is Cheating Or Just No Good

By loveandsex

Signs that your man is cheating (or is just no good for you) are usually fairly easy to pick out. Most women can tell when there is something wrong with the relationship or when a guy is hiding something from them. If you have taken stock of your current relationship and realized that things just aren’t adding up, you might have a cheater on your hands. Guys have an uncanny ability to hide things from women, but with just a few things to look out for, you will easily be able to determine if you have a sneaky cheater or a great guy.

Here Are 5 Signs Your Man Is Cheating.

#1 He Cringes When You Reach For His Phone

This is probably one of the biggest cheating red flags out there. A guy’s phone is much like your phone: it’s his lifeline. If a guy is cringing or panicking every time that you try to use his phone, he’s probably ding something. If he’s cheating on you, the phone is the first place to look. One of the things that you will find about men is that they hate deleting texts, pictures and emails from other women. They tend to keep them as trophies. So when a guy is in a panic over you using his phone, he has something to hide. Confronting him about it doesn’t have to be a screaming match. Ask him why he has a problem with you using his phone. He might just turn it over for you to look through it. If he refuses, there is something wrong.

#2 He Panics When You Reach For His Computer

Very similar to the phone, the computer is a very private thing that men use all the time. Whether he doesn’t want you to find his secret porno stash or he doesn’t want you to see the email that his ex sent, there is something wrong if he doesn’t want you to use his computer. Everybody gets a false sense of security with their computer.

It’s usually password protected, you can delete the history and you can close out email windows. But when a guy hasn’t covered his tracks, there’s going to be a problem with you using his computer. You will get a feeling of uneasiness when a guy is afraid you’ll find something. When you touch on this emotion, consider what he’s hiding and how bad it could possibly be.

#3 He Doesn’t Acknowledge The Relationship

We live in a digital age of social networking, smartphones and a bunch of other gadgets that can show off our relationships. If you have been in the relationship for a while and he hasn’t really acknowledged it outside of the two of you, it might be time to get worried. Facebook relationship statuses aren’t really a big deal until he refuses to change it for you. There are only two reasons that a guy will change his Facebook relationship status: he’s embarrassed by you or he’s cheating and doesn’t want other people –women, friends, family- to know about it. This is a big problem and you should reconsider the relationship if it persists.

#4 He Doesn’t Plan For The Future

There comes a time when you have to put up or shut up. Now, that doesn’t seem very romantic, but women want a guy that is going to plan for the future. A relationship is about sharing a life and you can’t do this when one piece of the relationship is only considering their own future. If your guy hasn’t mentioned anything about marriage, children, or even a summer vacation together, you might want to take a very hard look at what you’re in. Guys that don’t plan for the future do not see a future and you should prepare yourself for this inevitability.

#5 He Only Makes Time For You When It’s Convenient

This is another big one. There are guys out there that lead very busy lives. Whether he’s a lawyer, a doctor or even a student, if he’s only seeing you when it’s convenient for him, he’s definitely no good. One sided relationships never end well. If you think that you’re in a one sided relationship, ask yourself when the last time your guy rearranged his schedule to accommodate you. Now, he shouldn’t always be doing this. That would show desperation. However, he should make time for you when there is something important happening in your life or you need his help during an emergency. If he’s not dependable, you should go ahead and give him the boot.

Filed Under: Infidelity, Cheating, & Affairs

5 Signs He’s Cheating On You (Or At Least Thinking About It)

By loveandsex

Signs that a guy is going to cheat on you are usually fairly obvious, but there are cases where women have been duped without even knowing it. Men can be masters of deception but when you start to put everything together, the fact that they are not happy or looking outside of the relationship for companionship can strike you like a lightning bolt. If you’re worried that your boyfriend or husband is cheating on you or is about to, there are a few telltale signs to look out for.

Here are 5 of the most common signs that he may be cheating.

1. He Works Late A Lot

Sure, even McDonalds has a night crew, but if your boyfriend or husband has what appears to be a 9-5 job and he’s working late a lot, you should have your guard up. The thing about working late and cheating is that his new schedule will probably appear when you start having problems between the two of you. Don’t jump to conclusions if he says he’s working late and your relationship is a little rocky. He might just be spending time by himself because he’s avoiding the issues in your relationship. If he comes home smelling like perfume or you find condom wrappers in his suit jacket, it’s time to have a talk.

2. You Don’t Have Sex Anymore

If you find that your guy is giving you excuses to not have sex there is a major issue. Men love having sex with their girlfriends and wives so if you’re throwing yourself at him and he’s resisting you need to be on the lookout. The most common reason that a guy doesn’t want to have sex with his wife or girlfriend is that he’s getting it somewhere else. There are a few things that occur when a guy is cheating. He might not want to have sex with you because of the guilt of cheating. Or he might actually not want to have sex with you because he feels like it would be cheating on his new girl. Either way, he’s in the wrong and you should look for other signs that he’s cheating.

3. His Stories Don’t Match Up

 

Has your guy ever come home and the reason that he was late didn’t match up to things that you already knew? If this is the case you probably have a cheater on your hands. The thing about cheating is that it’s hard for the guy to put himself somewhere that he wasn’t. When you start to ask questions because you know something that he doesn’t know he will start to get defensive. When a guy goes into defensive mode the argument will shift from where he was to why you’re so interested in where he was. This is a normal reaction and a normal tactic to try to change the subject and juxtapose the blame onto the accuser. Don’t let him do this to you. Stay on the subject and he will eventually cave.

4. He Accuses You Of Cheating

Have you ever heard it takes a thief to know one?  Well, the same goes with a cheater. If your guy is accusing you of cheating and there is really basis for it, he’s got something to hide. Because he has engaged in the action of cheating, he knows how to manage time, make stories up and deceive his partner. But the main thing is that he knows what to look out for and every little bit of suspicion is going to come up. This is why he is accusing you. There is also a subconscious want for you to cheat so that doesn’t feel so bad about cheating on you. Don’t put up with his accusations and start to check up on him. If you find out he’s cheating, leave him immediately.

He Threatens To Leave You – A Lot

This is a big one. When a guy threatens to leave you a lot there’s something out there that he knows he can rely on, aka his mistress. A guy that threatens to leave a woman is a guy that is confident that he won’t be alone. If he really cared about you he would try to work on the relationship instead of threatening to leave. If he ever says things like “I could have a new girlfriend tomorrow” you should be extremely careful with him. This is the statement of a cheater and should not be taken lightly.

Filed Under: Infidelity, Cheating, & Affairs

5 Signs Your Boyfriend Is Cheating On You

By romymorgan

Cheating sucks – but a lot of guys do it. Is your man cheating on YOU? Here are five ways to tell if he’s being a scumbag.

A cheating lover is something that a lot of women have experienced. Cheating is one of the most disrespectful actions a guy can take in a relationship. It’s not very often that cheating goes unnoticed. If you believe that your fella is having an affair, there are a couple of things that you can look out for.

1. He’s On The Computer A LOT

One of the easiest ways for guys to meet women for sex is online. Even if the guy is not meeting a girl for sex he could be talking about it online with multiple women. The Internet has given guys a platform to play out their fantasies with women anonymously. If your guy cringes every time that you reach for his computer then he might be having an online tryst with other women.

If you guy doesn’t leave his computer open or protects everything with a password, this is another red flag. Check IM chat logs or website history if you can get into his computer. If you can’t, try to look over his shoulder when he doesn’t think you’re around. Yes, this is a little creepy, but better safe than sorry.

2. He Starts To Have Odd Schedule Changes

Does your guy follow a routine down the minute? Does he walk through the door at 5:16 every afternoon? Sudden schedule changes can be a sign that he’s cheating. Some guys like to be spontaneous, but if he has a steady job a sudden change in routine could be a sign that he is cheating. Ask questions about where he was or why he was working late.

You don’t have to prod him with an interrogation like the Republican Guard, but get some details. Details can prove that he was actually where he says he was. If you can poke holes through his story then you might want to rethink the relationship. If he tries to include you in his schedule changes then he’s probably not cheating.

3. He Disappears

No calls, no texts and no emails? This is a huge sign that he’s probably having an affair. If you have gone from hot and heavy to barely seeing each other then there is definitely a problem. If he were really interested in you then he would be trying to spend more time with you.

All relationships hit a bump in the road every so often, but if he is making excuses not to see you he might have a woman on the side. If there are changes at work or something similar then you might not see him as much. However, if there are no changes at work and he just disappears on you, he might be cheating.

4. Something Has Changed

You can feel it. Something has changed about him. He’s focusing more on his looks than ever before. He doesn’t laugh at your jokes anymore. He’s not the guy that you fell in love with. These are all indications that there is something wrong with the relationship. When you feel like something has changed about him it could be the company of another woman.

Cheating has a way of changing men. When they are having an affair, they will put you second fiddle. Take a notice of changes in the air when you’re around him and you might find that he’s spending time with another girl.

5. The Proof Is On His Phone

If you have the inclination to check his phone every time he leaves the room then there is something wrong. He might be cheating or he might not be. Usually, when a woman feels the need to check a guy’s phone she does not trust him. This can be a problem in itself; however, if you feel like you have to check his phone it’s probably for a reason.

If you find text messages of a sexual nature from numbers you don’t recognize then you should definitely confront him about it. If your guy has a password on his phone then you should also be on your toes. If your guy doesn’t let his phone out of his sight there could also be a problem.

A cheating lover is not something that you should tolerate. The disrespect that you will feel after you find out can be soul-crushing. Look for these indications so you are not a victim to his cheating. If you find that your guy is displaying one or more of these signs, talk to him about it. In most cases, talking your way through problems can bring the relationship full circle.

Filed Under: Infidelity, Cheating, & Affairs Tagged With: affair, cheating, fighting, infidelity, Relationship Advice

Am I Crazy Or Is She Cheating?

By loveandsex

Cheating is a tough thing to confront, so you want to make sure you’re positive your partner is cheating before you open your mouth. Here’s how to know.

Nobody wants to play the jealous boyfriend, but at one point or another you might find your mind wandering into scary territory. “Is she cheating or am I crazy?” This question comes up too often and it’s hard to determine for some women. The fear of your girlfriend cheating is enough to make any man shake with terror. The fact of the matter is that most women do not cheat. If they are not happy in the relationship, they will probably just break up with you. However, there are a percentage of women who do fall prey to their temptation. Fortunately, there are some very common trends in women who do cheat. Here are a couple of signs that can keep you on the lookout the next time your questions arise.

Her Age

Younger girls are more adept to play games. That’s not to say that an older woman will not stray, but younger girls have little commitment even if they say that they are committed. If your girlfriend is turning 25, 30 or 35 watch for signs of a crisis. These are the ages that women start to question everything about themselves. Have you ever heard a woman say something like “5 years ago I wouldn’t have done this?” Well, 5 years ago she may not have cheated. Ask your partner if she is happy in the relationship and assure her that you are. Make sure that she knows you would never have an affair and wait for her to assure you. If she doesn’t tell you that she would never cheat, get rid of her.

Job Changes

Job changes are a sign that she might be in a place to cheat on you. When a woman starts making more money or she’s put in a higher position at work, she can feel the power. She might feel like you’re yesterday’s news, especially if she’s making more money than you. One of the best ways to combat her new sense of entitlement is to tell her how proud you are of her. Brag about the promotion and let her know that she’s made a big accomplishment. This will give her the emotional support that she needs. If she starts staying at her job late at night after the first 3 months, you might want to consider whether or not she’s actually “working.” Get details when she works late. Find out what she was doing, but don’t make it obvious. Tell her that you want more time together and see what she says. If she gets defensive, something is definitely up.

She’s Put The Brakes On The Relationship

Remember when she used to call you at work just to see how your day is going? When was the last time that happened? If your romance has come to a complete halt, it’s probably time to be concerned. Get together with her and ask what is going on. Confronting the problem is the best way to move past it. The problem might not even have anything to do with you. Talk it out with her and decide on the best course of action. If she says that there’s not a problem with the relationship, offer to take a weekend trip so you can rekindle the romance. If she’s not interested, take caution. She might be seeing somebody or she’s been cheating.

You Haven’t Had Sex In A Couple Of Weeks

Sex is a pretty big part of the relationship. If you aren’t having sex, there are a couple of things that might be going on. One of the possibilities is that she’s not cheating and she’s just not interested in pursuing the relationship any further. The other possibility is that she is cheating and she’s saving all of her sexual attention for the new guy. Before you storm in and accuse her of anything, talk to her. She might have something going on with her vagina that she’s too embarrassed to tell you about. Assure her that you just want to know what the problem is. Women tend to without sex is there are deeper issues in the relationship so be prepared to talk through other issues when you bring this up. If she tells you there is nothing wrong after repeatedly asking her, assume the worst.

Cheating happens. There’s nothing that we can do to avoid getting cheated on, but diagnosing a cheater can be fairly easy when you put the relationship under a microscope. Always express concern before you accuse your girlfriend of cheating on you. If you accuse her of cheating and she’s not, she could lose all respect for you.

Filed Under: Infidelity, Cheating, & Affairs Tagged With: affair, cheating, infidelity, Relationship Advice

If Rich, Beautiful Women Get Cheated On, What Chance Do I Have?

By dicksinthecity

Cheating happens all the time – guys are notorious for cheating, and a lot of women do it too. It’s often the butt of many jokes, and there’s a lot of guys who don’t think infidelity is serious business. With all the cheating going on in the press to girls who look like they’d never get cheated on, ever. If girls who have it all get cheated on, is there any stopping cheating from happening to the average woman? Are girls who get married doomed to be subjected to adultery, no matter how pretty, nice, kind, funny or awesome they are? Do some guys just need to get it on with a different girl every now and then to be satisfied sexually, or is there a way to prevent it from ever happening?

Why do men cheat on beautiful, famous women? Where’s the hope for the rest of us when even celebrities can’t have a faithful spouse? I’m getting married soon and all this high profile infidelity is making me nervous!

What She Said:

I understand your pre-wedding jitters, but odds are good your husband will not turn out to be a cheater.

Why Do They Do It?

Why do men cheat? Because they can. Aside from that cynical joke, there’s obviously no formula to figure out what makes men stray. Some men cheat on famous women in order to restore balance in the power system. Perhaps the hubby of a celebrity feels emasculated because his wife makes more money than he does. Cheating can even the playing field in the dynamics of a marriage. Yes, it’s completely passive-aggressive – but that could explain the mindset at play.

Men are obviously loaded with testosterone – powerful men possibly more so. Not only is there a strong biological imperative to “spread the seed,” there’s also the fact that men who are with famous women are used to getting what they want, when they want it.

Regardless of who a man marries, I still believe there’s one big reason a guy would be unfaithful – if he’s not happy at home, he’s bound to look elsewhere. Everything else is superfluous and out of your control.

Enter With Full Trust

Give yourself (and your fiancé) the gift of going into your marriage full of trust, love, hope and an open heart. This should be the happiest time of your life; don’t spoil it by fretting over the end of others’ unions. Don’t cross the “he cheated on me” bridge until you come to it – if you come to it. Besides, if you’re marrying a man who’s your best friend in and out of the bedroom, you really won’t have a thing to worry about.

What He Said:

“Show me the most beautiful woman in the world and I will show you a guy who’s tired of fucking her.” — Chris Rock.

Can Men Really Be Monogamous?

It’s an exaggeration to some degree, but there’s also some degree of truth to it. Some men just need some “strange” from time to time. They say men aren’t wired to be monogamous, I’m not sure women are either. I don’t think it’s natural for us to only be with one person for life.

That doesn’t mean it isn’t doable or that it’s a bad thing. There are all different kinds of people out there and there are all different kinds of relationships. The fact that he has a penis doesn’t mean he will be screwing anything that moves.

There’s not much you can do to keep him faithful and more than he can do to keep you faithful. If you never give him a reason to stray, you’re off to an amazing start. And if that doesn’t work, just screw his brains out. Screw him stupid to the point where he is physically unable to be with anyone else. That’s the M.O. of several of my married female friends.

Weatherproof Your Marriage

You can’t go into this marriage with the idea that he’s going to cheat. That’s not going to get you anywhere you want to go. It is helpful to realize that this is a distinct possibility and plan accordingly. You don’t have car insurance because you want to get in an accident, you have it in case you do. That can mean you have a pre-nup or that simply you are aware it could happen and do everything you can do to weatherproof your marriage. That’s not being paranoid, that’s being positively proactive. You get what you put in.

Filed Under: Infidelity, Cheating, & Affairs Tagged With: adultery, affairs, cheating, infidelity

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