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Marriage Proposal Ideas: The Romantic’s Guide To Popping The Question Review

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If you’re looking for the perfect way to ask your girlfriend to marry you and be with you forever, you’ll find a ton of ideas (and more!) in Marriage Proposal Ideas: The Romantic’s Guide To Popping The Question. This book has compiled the best, most romantic ways to propose to a woman (real guys have used these exact scenarios to ask their girlfriends to marry them), so you have many different ideas to choose from – and almost all of them will put a smile on your face and warm your heart!

The Good

There is definitely not a shortage of marriage proposal ideas in Marriage Proposal Ideas: The Romantic’s Guide To Popping The Question, and they range from simple to creative and more. Many of them are incredibly unique and there are more than a few of them that you haven’t heard of before.

Although these are actually stories of how other men proposed to the women they love, most of them are so original that your girl will most likely think that you came up with it all by yourself! There are also small sections on now not to propose and other helpful sections such as timing and location which can be exceptionally helpful for the guy who wants to make sure all his i’s are dotted and his t’s are crossed.

The Bad

The proposal ideas are actually written as stories rather than suggestions on different ways to propose to a woman. The emotional stories and lack of a clear cut “how to” approach actually makes it more appealing to women than men – so some men are going to get rather bored of reading proposal story after proposal story. Also, the stories aren’t categorized or sectioned off at all in the book.

The table of contents does categorize the ideas somewhat, but lists which story numbers fit into a particular category – meaning that you’ll have to scroll through all the stories to find the number you want, say if you were looking for proposal ideas that take place in an airport or involve the help of police or firemen. The lack of organization in Marriage Proposal Ideas: The Romantic’s Guide To Popping The Question makes it somewhat difficult to find what you’re looking for.

The Bottom Line

A marriage proposal has to come from the heart, but if you want to find an original and unique way to ask your girlfriend to marry you, Marriage Proposal Ideas: The Romantic’s Guide To Popping The Question can definitely help you out. You’ll read through hundreds of incredible proposal stories and if you’re creative enough, you can piece together aspects of different proposals to make your own unique set up, personalized just for your girl. If you’re not that good at coming up with romantic stuff, any of the ideas contained in this book will make for an excellent proposal. Almost any of these ideas will make your girl’s face light up and they’re unique and romantic enough that you’ll have an awesome engagement story for years to come.

The Full Marriage Proposal Ideas Review

Marriage proposal ideas can be tough for a guy to come up with on his own, especially if he lacks creativity and imagination. (Hey, a lot of guys do!)

While the organization of this book could definitely use some work, the ideas themselves are fun, exciting and romantic. They range from sweet to exciting to downright over the top! Some of them involve minimal planning while others would require you to put a lot of effort into setting the whole thing up. (One guy had a scuba diving friend! Unless you know a lot of people who scuba dive, chances are, putting that particular engagement scenario together would be downright impossible).

Regardless, the ideas in Marriage Proposal Ideas: The Romantic’s Guide To Popping The Question will either give you everything you need to set up an incredible engagement or get the gears turning in your own head so you can come up with something as equally fun and romantic for your girlfriend.

Since the ideas are actually real life scenarios that other guys have used to propose to their girlfriends, it may be a little difficult for men to actually get through the book. Women are much more likely to enjoy the heartfelt tales of perfect proposals, while guys who read Marriage Proposal Ideas: The Romantic’s Guide To Popping The Question are going to be wishing for more of a step by step instruction manual. However, the limited table of contents will be of some help – you’ll at least be able to figure out which proposal stories will have you either using elements of nature, proposing during the holidays, using costumes and more.

Overall, Marriage Proposal Ideas: The Romantic’s Guide To Popping The Question is a great resource if you’re looking to ask that special woman to marry you and you just can’t think of a good enough way to do it. Most of the marriage proposal ideas you will find online are either overdone or chintzy – these are actually fun and unique!

Keep Your Relationship New And Exciting By Expanding Her Sexual Repertoire

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Relationship advice can help keep you from falling into boredom. Make your relationship stay fresh by always introducing new elements into your sex life. Your partner has her sexual repertoire – her own skill set and techniques. And women stand on different grounds, based on their erotic offerings. One may give great head but have lame hands. Another may give out-of-this-world sensual massages but be a terrible reverse-rider.

Now, imagine showing a woman the ropes and honing her sexual game. Imagine showing her tricks and positions she’s never done before – bringing her pleasure and excitement she never knew existed. Imagine being the breath of fresh air in her life, opening her eyes to possibilities and making her think, “This guy is something else.” Imagine giving her something that her other relationships have never offered.

The fact of the matter is, your partner is bored out of her wits everyday. Her days are caged in routines revolving around work (or home).

A typical Monday could drone like this:

Wake-up-early-in-the-morning. Have coffee. Drive to work. Answer stupid emails. Have lunch at 12. Meetings in the afternoon. Dinner in front of the TV. Take half a sleeping pill. Dream of a 2 week paid vacation that will never be. Wake up early in the morning. Have coffee. Drive to work, etc.

For many women, sex remains to be the only avenue to unload the stress of a horrendous work week. Unfortunately, these same women become even more deadened as sex further deteriorates their already ho-hum existence – courtesy of lovers boring as hell.

Take pride in your relationship with her. Be the man who teaches her how to please a man. You need to bring something to the table and not simply take from it.

1. Constantly Surprise Her

I don’t mean paying top dollar for anything – that’s just using your money to do the thinking for you. Use your imagination. It doesn’t even need to be elaborate or labored. In fact, the simpler the better – always think simple and little.

2. Teach Her New Positions

Suggest  new sex positions that come to mind throughout the day. Tell her about new sex roles you’ve concocted or this month’s codenames for erotic regions or this month’s genre for booty music.

3. Make Sex Exciting

Whisper naughty remarks while in front of her friends or at the ATM line. Tell her how you’ll blindfold her later and have your way with her. Tell her about your plans of inducting her into the Mile-High Club – right there on her first class seat!

And don’t just tell, do it.

Your partner will gladly take the position of student when she knows she’s in good hands. Be her teacher, her guru and lead the way. Give her the joy of just being there for the ride. Make time spent with you a journey of discovery and she’ll conclude she’s better off with you around.

Reality Check

How can you possibly do these things when you yourself are mentally bankrupt?

When you’ve got nothing, no ideas of your own, how can you possibly add color to her experience? When you yourself are bored to death with your own routines, how can you lead the way? You don’t know where the freakin way is!

If I were you, I wouldn’t rely on the size of my penis and start really thinking how to make the sex more exciting. You’re the man, she will look to you for leadership and dominance.

3 Scorching Hot Valentine’s Day Ideas

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Valentine’s Day is here and it’s time to heat things up! While your girl probably wants things to be ultra romantic, you’re ready to set your sex life on fire. Here are some excellent sexy suggestions to get you started spicing things up!

Blindfold, Restrain And Feed Her

This is a great sex game to play on Valentine’s Day because you can do it so many different ways and you really don’t need a lot of “props” – most of what you’ll use is stuff you already have or can get easily, say at the grocery store. You can also get as kinky as you want with this fantasy! If you and your lover are into BDSM and kink, feel free to take the bondage aspect a little farther with more hardcore restraints. If you’re just a beginner, a tame blindfold and silk ties are just as effective.

Grab some sensual foods such as wine, cheese and rich desserts and take your time slowly feeding them to her. Chocolate dipped strawberries and other berries work well too. Whatever you choose, select something with a lot of flavor. You’ll really wow her this way because when she’s blindfolded, her other senses automatically heighten. So her sense of smell and taste will be at a much higher level than when she has her eyes open. Be creative and have fun with it!

Get Out Of The House!

This Valentine’s Day, don’t just do the same old thing in the bedroom like you do every time you and your lover have sex. Instead, venture outside the house (or at least outside the bedroom doors if you never do it in your kitchen or living room) and change up your location. Even if you use the same moves and techniques as you always do, the new location will provide new sights, smells and sensations that enhance the experience.

You can be creative with this also. Do you have an exhibitionist fantasy? Try having sex in a public place and try not to get caught! Going on a road trip? Pull over and get it on in the back seat. Shopping for some Valentine’s Day lingerie? See how quiet you can be when you have sex in the lingerie store dressing room. If you’re very quiet and very quick, you probably won’t get caught – and you’ll get to test drive the lingerie  too! (Note: If you do “test drive” the lingerie, buy it afterwards. Don’t hang it back up. Just don’t.)

Do Something You Don’t Normally Do

Valentine’s Day is the perfect time to break out some techniques or activities that you don’t normally engage in. Your partner is expecting some really good sexy time, so use this to your advantage and try something that you’ve been really dying to try or do something that you’ve never done before. Never tried kink or bondage? Splurge on a beginner’s bondage kit and see if you and your lover like tying each other up and doing naughty things to each other.

Another great way to do something you don’t normally do without stepping too far outside your (or your partner’s) comfort zones is to put a new twist on something you and your partner really enjoy doing. For example, if you both really get off on oral sex, try the sixty nine oral sex position so you both can receive pleasure at the same time. What makes this such an excellent idea is that you get more intimacy because both of you are receiving pleasure simultaneously and it feels new and exciting while comforting at the same time because it’s not something totally weird and freaky that you’ve never tried.

Whatever you choose to do this Valentine’s Day, just make sure to get creative, use your imagination and go a little bit outside the box. Don’t just do flowers and jewelry with no personal touch. If you get jewelry, make sure it’s a stone that has sentimental value to her. If you get flowers, make sure they’re her favorites. If you buy her dinner, do it at the new restaurant she’s been aching to try.

When you have sex on Valentine’s Day, make sure to take it to the next level. If you’ve never given her an orgasm before, take the time to learn how to do it and REALLY surprise her this evening! If you allow yourself to get really creative, there’s no limit to how special you can make this Valentine’s Day!

How To Choose The Perfect Sex Toy As A Valentine’s Day Gift

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Your Valentine’s Day gift should be a great one! You want to show your partner that she’s important to you and that you care for her – but you wouldn’t mind if you could also let her know that she’s super sexy and you love getting it on with her. If you want to get your girl a toy, here’s how to make sure you’re getting one she’ll really love.

Pay Attention To What She Likes

If you want to successfully give your girl a sex toy as a Valentine’s Day gift, you really need to know her. You need to pay attention to what she likes in bed! Think about it – does she like it when you stimulate her nipples? What about when you play with or suck on her clitoris? Does she really get off on deep penetration, or does she like anal play? Really think about what she seems to respond to the most during intercourse.

This will help you understand what toy is best to get her. For example, if she prefers nipple stimulation, try gifting her with a high end pair of nipple clamps or nipple vibrators. If she likes clitoral stimulation the best, why not get her a cute little clitoris vibrator that she can use discreetly? If she likes spanking, get a soft but kinky paddle to use when you do it with her. Whatever it is that seems to float her boat, that is what you want to stick to when purchasing a toy for her.

Go For Quality

Don’t expect your lover to open a box with a $20 vibrator in it and be very excited – she won’t be. She’s seen better stuff at novelty shops in the mall. If you’re going to really get her a toy for Valentine’s Day and you really want her to like it (and not throw you out in the dog house for the night), then be prepared to spend a few bucks. While you can spend over $100 on a vibrator, you don’t have to.

Make sure you’re purchasing something that is made from quality, high end materials. Get her something phthalate free and easy to clean – hard plastic or soft silicone are excellent sex toy materials. If you get her a jelly dildo that stinks like toxic plastic, she’s not going to be very appreciative and she’s certainly not going to want to get it near her nether regions. Most high end sex toys will come in a nice enough package to gift, but if yours doesn’t, either have it gift wrapped or do it yourself. Don’t just slap a bow on a box with a naked chick on the front demonstrating the toy.

Get Another Gift Too

It may sound like you’re racking up the Valentine’s Day gift bill here (and you are), but don’t make a sex toy her only present this year – and don’t give it to her over dinner. If you don’t want to spend enough money to do gifting a sex toy successful, then find something else to do! Sure, sex toys are fun and all, but only giving her a sex toy for her (or one that you can use together) is pretty lame. It will peg you as being only interested in her for the sex!

Instead, give her another gift over dinner, such as jewelry or chocolates – or another well thought out present – and save the sex toy for a more private place such as your house or hers. She’ll be smitten by your earlier gift already, and when you are both in a more intimate setting, she can really look at and enjoy the sex toy without worrying about stuffing it in her bag right away so no one at the restaurant sees what you gave her. Just be classy about it!

A Note On Lingerie

Don’t give your girl lingerie as a Valentine’s Day gift for her. While this is perfectly acceptable to give her on Valentine’s Day, realize that this really is a gift for you. She’s not going to get off on it at all, unless it’s really nice and comfortable lingerie that she can wear around the house or under her clothes. A bustier and garter belt set is not an acceptable gift for her on its own. Get her something else you know she’ll love, and then enjoy the lingerie as a gift for you. 

3 Role Play Sex Games That Will Make Your Valentine’s Day UNFORGETTABLE!

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Valentine’s Day is an excellent time to have some out of the ordinary fun. Most couples like to try something new and a little different when February 14th rolls around, so if you want to spice things up, here are some exciting role play sex games that will make this year absolutely memorable.

Lonely Man On A Business Trip

This is an excellent role play for Valentine’s Day because it is a fantasy that allows you to get really creative if you want. Just imagine your partner is a lonely business man out on work related travel. He’s depressed and all by himself on Valentine’s Day with no one to talk to.

You can play this scenario out a lot of ways. Have an “affair” while he is out of town on business and his wife is at home. Be the sexy maid that stops by his room to give it a clean, only to find him undressed and alone. Use your imagination! Here are some great ways to give this fantasy a sexy spin.

  • Book a hotel room
  • Wear an outfit that works for the part you’re playing (for example, a sexy maid’s costume)
  • Nice champagne over ice

Sexy Stripper

You really can’t go wrong by playing the part of a stripper on Valentine’s Day and giving your lover a sexy striptease to get him turned on. Even if this idea seems played out to you, it most certainly is NOT played out to your man. Men can watch the same girl do the same striptease over and over again and STILL get excited. Why do you think strip clubs are so popular? Here are some things to consider if you want to make your striptease as fun and exciting as it can be.

  • Pick a good song that you’re comfortable with
  • Practice! You’ll be no good if the first time you dance is on him
  • Consider taking lessons
  • Get an outfit that he’s never seen before – one that not only looks great, but feels great on
  • Have confidence! He’s going to love it no matter what you do or how good you are

Teacher/Student

This is another super fun sex game you and your partner can play on Valentine’s Day. Even if you’ve done this one before, the subject is so broad that you can literally do teacher/student ten times and never do it the same way twice. So don’t count this one out!

This is a fun fantasy to play out, no matter which way you do it – whether you’re the teacher and he’s the student, or the other way around. If you decide to go with playing the part of the teacher while your partner plays the part of the student, you can really take it to a whole new level.

If you’re the teacher, use this as an opportunity to get your lover to try a few things that they wouldn’t normally try. Now you don’t want to go too far out of the box here, but make sure you do teach them a few new things. Because it’s a game, they’ll be more inclined to try some activities that they ordinarily wouldn’t go for, as long as they’re only slightly outside your partner’s comfort zone and not way out there in bestiality and whatnot. Here are some ways to make the teacher/student sex fantasy even more fun!

  • Dress the part. Again, costumes are a great way to really up the immersion factor when doing a role play.
  • If you’re into domination or submission, you can also consider “punishing” the naughty student. This can be exceptionally fun if you’re teaching your lover how to do something very, very naughty.

When experimenting with role play for Valentine’s Day, whether you’ve done it before or are just trying it out for the first time, remember that the most important thing is creativity. Even if you can’t afford to book a hotel room or splurge on costumes, it’s your attitude that is the most important thing of all.

While it’s nice to keep a sense of humor about the whole thing, you’re not going to enjoy it as much if you and your partner think it’s so silly you’re laughing your asses off. So use your imagination and be creative as you can, but make sure you’re taking it seriously enough that you and your partner actually get into it. Remember to relax and have fun, because that’s what it’s all about! Having fun!