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What You Need To Know To End Premature Ejaculation Forever!

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Premature ejaculation can totally ruin your sex life if you let it. Here’s what you should know to get rid of it for good.

Premature ejaculation is one of the most common sexual dysfunction that affects men. Most guys, at one point or another, will wish for the ability to last longer in bed. While actual figures may vary, as many as 4 in 10 men face the embarrassment of finishing too soon during sex. “Too soon” often means 2 minutes or less. And it does not help that the vast majority of women require more than 10 minutes to properly get aroused and achieve an orgasm.

What Does It Matter If Men Don’t Last Long Enough

In most cases it does. For men, it can be downright embarrassing to fall short when it comes to their endurance in bed. It can take away the confidence of most guys who are suffering from premature ejaculation. For women, nothing is worse than a sexual relationship that repeatedly fails to deliver the pleasure that she deserves. And for guys who ejaculate even before intercourse (yes, some men have it that bad), it can put a tremendous strain on the relationship especially if the women wishes to get pregnant.

What Exactly Causes Premature Ejaculation?

Varied factors are at play here. Early conditioning is one major contributor to ejaculation problems. For most men, their sexual experiences (including masturbation) are often a rushed affair to avoid detection. Naturally, over time this conditions a man to climax in rapid fire turnaround time. On the other hand, anxiety and “nerves” are known to contribute to premature ejaculation as well. In other words, if you are nervous or anxious about your performance in bed, you are more likely to shoot off quickly. Some guys claim that consuming small amounts of alcohol help “calm their nerves” and enable them to last longer. But it certainly is not a recommended approach for treating premature ejaculation permanently.

Treatments For Premature Ejaculation

If you have early ejaculation problems, there are various treatments or cures available, depending on the severity of the problem. For mild cases – for example, you are already lasting 5 minutes and wish to last longer – there is no need to make an embarrassing trip to the doctor. Simple distraction techniques can help improve your sexual endurance. Thinking about something non-sexual can help reduce your sexual arousal and enhance your staying power. Alternatively, some form of local anesthetic gel or lotion can be useful. This is applied directly onto your penis before sexual intercourse to dull the sensations during sex. But this solution has its downsides, including less pleasurable sex and possible allergic reactions for both the guy and his partner.

For more severe cases of premature ejaculation (if you are lasting 2 minutes or less), there are natural techniques and exercises that will help alleviate the problem. The Masters-Johnson method, which employs a specialized penis grip to reduce the desire to climax, is one well-known anti-ejaculation technique. Another popular and highly effective solution is to focus on cognitive behavior treatment such as the stop-start technique, which basically aims to alter a man’s sexual response to gain greater control over his ejaculation.

Premature Ejaculation Treatment – The 100% Natural Approach

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Premature ejaculation is treated a variety of ways. However, not all of them are good for your body. Check out this all natural premature ejaculation cure.

It’s a very common misconception to believe that as a man there’s nothing you can do to stop premature ejaculation without the use of medication, creams, special condoms or things like cock-rings.

Misconceptions About PE

And this all comes down to the fact that premature ejaculation is totally misunderstood. You see, it doesn’t happen because of a bad set of genes, your penis size or what your woman does during sex.

Premature ejaculation is caused by BAD SEXUAL HABITS.

90% of men actually cause it to happen because of things they do during sex UNCONSCIOUSLY and without even realizing it. For example, while having sex do you ever take the time to manage your pleasure or stimulation levels?

The truth is that VERY few men do. Most men have sex without a CLUE as to what their arousal levels are. And when it suddenly becomes obvious that orgasm is about to happen, it’s too late and there’s nothing they can do about it.

But if on the other hand you get into the HABIT of paying attention to your pleasure levels and get to know the signs of when you’re approaching orgasm it’s a whole different ball game. If you know way in advance that you’re getting close to orgasm you can take corrective action before it’s too late.

And a corrective action can be as simple as just slowing down sex and thrusting slower.

The 2 Simple Moves That Will Stop PE Naturally!

Thrusting Slower

By thrusting slower you’d give your body a chance to recover from the intense levels of stimulation you were probably just experiencing during sex. And this recovery would mean that in no time you’d be able to go back to thrusting fast without the fear or early orgasm.

Know Your Arousal Levels

Alternatively, if you know your arousal levels well enough to tell that you need more recovery than just going slow can give you, then instead you could pull out and give her oral sex for a bit. Doing this would give you a big break in stimulation and pleasure and allow you to recover plenty of stamina.

Now these two examples of corrective actions you could take when close to orgasm may seem like obvious things to do, but only when you start paying attention to your arousal levels.

If you don’t pay attention to your arousal levels and instead just keep having sex like you normally do, you’d never even think of doing something like taking corrective action to last longer. How this all relates to premature ejaculation treatment is that it proves that there are 100% natural approaches to lasting longer in bed that are worth considering.

How All Natural Treatments Really Work

They all work from understanding the TRUTH about premature ejaculation and how the male orgasm works.

And by tapping into the nature of the male orgasm and figuring out what really causes it it is possible to prevent it from happening prematurely. So premature ejaculation treatment isn’t so much a case of “which pharmaceutical product do I need?” but more a case of “what techniques can I use to last longer?”

Last Longer In Bed – With This Special Masturbation Technique

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Last longer in bed with this simple trick – it’s so easy you’ll wonder why you didn’t think of it yourself! When you last longer in bed, your girl will love it!

Masturbation Affects How Long You Last!

One thing you’ve got to understand if you want to last longer in bed is how masturbation affects how long you last.

The problem that most men have when it comes to premature ejaculation that they DON’T EVEN REALIZE that they are actually causing it to happen, because of negative and unconscious habits.

As weird as it may sound, if you suffer from premature ejaculation, it’s not because you’ve got a “bad gene” or have the wrong penis size or are just plain unlucky, it’s because of the habits you’ve developed during life that are UNCONSCIOUSLY causing you ejaculate prematurely.

And one of the main examples of this that almost every man overlooks is masturbation.

Think About It….

Think for a second about what your habits for masturbation were like when you were younger and growing up.

If you’re like most men then when you were younger you probably didn’t have all the freedom in the world to masturbate. Maybe your mother could pop into your room at any time, or maybe you had a brother or sister that could come barging into your bedroom at any moment or maybe you were living in some kind of community where there really wasn’t any privacy.

Whatever your specific situation was, almost every man growing up can relate to the fact of not feeling like there was necessarily all the privacy available to them when they wanted it.

And what did this mean?

Well it meant that when it came to masturbating you didn’t have many options. You could either take your time doing it and hugely increase the chances of you getting caught, or you could try and orgasm as quickly as possible in an attempt to try and minimize the chances of being walked in on.

From all my communications with men in teaching them how to last longer in bed, my understanding is that most opt for option number 2.

Because no one wants to get caught masturbating. And it’s the logical thing to do at the time.

When Men Get Older, Do Their Habits Change?

But as our opportunities for privacy increase with age most men don’t change this habit. Because we’ve done it all our childhood, most men just keep masturbating with the aim to orgasm as quickly as possible.

But there’s one big problem here – when you masturbate, you condition yourself for how long you last.

Did you get that?

Because that’s an important point.

If you want to know how to last longer in bed, understanding the importance of masturbation is HUGE. When you masturbate you are literally training your body for how long you expect it to last during sex. Most men masturbate for only a few minutes, but when it comes to sex want it to last for over 30 minutes, but this just isn’t how the body works.

If you want to last longer in bed then you’ve got to realize this fact about masturbation and make the change to the way you do it.

And making the change really isn’t that hard. Most men just never do it because they don’t realize the impact that how long they masturbate for has on how long they’ll last. But now that you’ve got this crucial understanding you don’t have to make the same mistake.

Make this habit change today and commit from now on to always take your time to masturbate for as long as you want to go.

Last Longer In Bed And Really Rock Your Girl’s World!

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Last longer in bed and WOW your lover with your newfound sexual skills! When you last longer in bed, BOTH of you benefit!

Is premature ejaculation giving you plenty to worry about in the bedroom? Do you find yourself struggling with confidence and self esteem issues? Are you in a constant state of feeling inadequate with your performance in bed? If you are, then you really should stop, because things may not be as bad as you think. Why? Let’s find out below!

How Long Is Long Enough?

This is one question that practically every man wants to know. They want to know if they are good enough for their female partners. This is understandable. After all, the quality of a couple’s sex life is very often a reflection of the quality of the relationship.

According to sex surveys done over the last decade, 75 percent of men want to know how to last longer in bed. That is a huge figure! But here’s a simple truth – you only need to last as long as her! Many men think (and quite wrongly too!) that they need to go on for hours during sex. Nothing is further from the truth. Most women get an orgasm within 15 minutes, so that is the amount of time you should aim for.

Want to know an even better truth? That “15 minutes” can be shortened significantly – if you learn to give her proper stimulation BEFORE you start intercourse.

Find out what SHE likes in bed. Some women prefer a decent amount of foreplay; others crave oral sex; yet others love a little teasing, dirty talk before sex. Give her what she likes first, and you will have a far easier time managing your endurance in bed.

Ejaculating Early Is No Big Deal, Unless You Choose To Let It Become One!

The next time you climax early, tell her it’s because she is so HOT and turns you on so much. Believe me… women are also very conscious about how they “perform” in bed. So if you “blame” her for your early ejaculation problem, she will actually begin to think that she is really attractive. That will take the pressure off you to perform and help you last longer! But you better buck up the next time you make out with her!

Another great way and practical way to improve your sexual stamina is to train and condition the ejaculatory muscles, also known as the pubococcygeus muscle (or PC). Specific exercises such as Kegel and elevation techniques are proven ways to strengthen and bolster these muscles to give you great control and endurance and amazing sex to boot!

Premature Ejaculation – Stop It By NOT Doing These 2 Things!

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Premature ejaculation can equal no sex life for you. Steer clear of these two problems and say goodbye to premature ejaculation forever!

Did you know that being able to prevent premature ejaculation comes down to avoiding a few simple mistakes? Soon you’ll know exactly what those mistakes are so you never have to make them again!

Problem #1 – Trying To Have Sex Like A Porn Star

If there’s a sure-fire way to not last long in bed then it’s trying to have sex like a porn star. Many men learn everything they know about sex either through porn or from friends who learned from porn.

The bottom line is, since sex is such a taboo subject no one ever takes the time to teach young men the best ways to have sex and how to last long in bed. So what us men do when we’re young (myself included) is we look to the only source we know to learn from – which is porn.

Unfortunately, porn is VERY much unlike the real thing.

There’s no doubt you know this already, but spending our time watching porn has a deep UNCONSCIOUS influence on our ideas of sex that we can struggle to see ourselves. For starters have you ever stopped to think about the fact that porn is EDITED?

Remember, the directors want the porn to run as seamlessly as possible and be as entertaining as possible, which means if the male actor needs to take 5 minutes out to stop him from reaching orgasm early, then they’ll let him do that and just cut those 5 minutes out during production.

Did it ever cross your mind that stuff like this could actually happen?

There are a ton of other things that are totally misleading about porn that I won’t go into here, but you get the idea. Don’t use porn as a sex guide for lasting longer, because the men involved can take a break whenever they want and they won’t show you if they’re using any special techniques for lasting longer.

Problem #2 – Not Giving Her A Great Orgasm (Or Two Or Three) First

One way to prevent premature ejaculation is to reduce the pressure to perform.

Sometimes when it comes to sex we feel so much pressure to satisfy the woman we’re with that we get incredibly nervous and anxious about sex. Unfortunately, this angst and nervousness only ENCOURAGES premature ejaculation and makes it MORE likely to happen.

So how can you take this pressure off and reduce nerves? A really simple way to help reduce your nervousness is to take the time during foreplay to really satisfy your woman and get her to orgasm.

After you know you’ve already deeply satisfied her a LOT of the pressure is taken off of you to perform, because if you do orgasm early it won’t matter half as much if she’s already had an orgasm. And with this pressure off you’ll find it’s actually a lot easier to last longer, because the anxiety to perform won’t be there.

Just avoiding a few simple mistakes like these when it comes to sex is critical to prevent premature ejaculation, because no matter what you do to try and last longer, if you keep making a few critical mistakes you’ll never be able to last longer in bed.