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99% Of Women DON’T Know How To Give A Blowjob – Are YOU One Of Them?

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Almost any guy can get a blowjob and ejaculate. But does that mean the blowjob was great, or even mediocre? Not hardly!

In fact, chances are, almost EVERY blowjob that your guy has gotten has sucked – and not in the good way! (And this includes the blowjobs he’s gotten from YOU)

Why?

A recent study from Men’s Health magazine shows 44% of men would leave you for some other random chick with better blowjob skills. This actually happens.

You may have a great personality and looks, but when your man discovers another woman who sucks like an angel from heaven, your relationship may collapse worse than a house of cards in a thunderstorm!

Why Is Giving Great Head So Important?

You might think that this is shallow – that guys should be more interested in the mutual love and trust that comes from a great relationship, not how good the sex or oral sex is. But studies and polls show that almost half of guys who are dissatisfied with their sex lives are unhappy because their partners either don’t give them head at all, don’t give them enough head, or are so bad at it that he’d just rather her not do it at all.

Are YOU one of those women?

Listen, finding a woman who can give an intensely satisfying blowjob is a rare find indeed. She is one in a million – a guy who finds a girl who can suck him off and actually ENJOYS doing it will get a ring on her finger in no time. In fact, he may not even get his pants zipped up before he’s running off to the jewelry store. Yes, learning how to give incredible oral sex is the KEY to snagging the man of your dreams.

Then keep reading. We found an incredible resource that will teach you not only the basics of giving a guy head, but tips, tricks and techniques that he’s NEVER had any other girl use on him – guaranteed! He’ll be so surprised when you give him a blowjob like this that he’ll brag about you to all his guy friends – and his guy friends will want you to teach THEIR girlfriends how to give head that good!

Jack’s Blowjob Lessons will teach you how to be the one that every man will actually want to keep and truly fall in love with! (Yes, your oral sex skills are that important!)

WARNING: It’s only fair that we warn you that these tips and tricks are SO HOT that your fella will be begging for you to go down on him ALL the time. If you don’t want to unleash the beast and make him think that you’re a complete and total sex goddess, then don’t read this book. But if you’re ready to see how hot things can really get, Jack’s Blowjob Lessons will show you how to work your man’s member in a way that will make his knees weak, make his legs shake, and make him say your name over and over!

What You’ll Learn In Jack’s Blowjob Lessons

  • Attitude. This is essential. If you have the wrong attitude when you start going down on him, you’ll be lucky if he can even get it up. This guide will teach just how important attitude is and how to come across the right way. You’ll also learn little tricks and techniques that help him to pick up on your attitude so you KNOW you’re conveying the right thing.
  • Blowjob Positions. Positioning yourself for comfort is also incredibly important – a huge reason that girls don’t enjoy giving head or don’t do it very well is that they’re uncomfortable. So they suck on it for a bit and then move on to having sex, because hey, who wants a crick in their neck? But there ARE blowjob positions that will keep you comfortable for hours while you give your man the greatest pleasure he’s EVER experienced!
  • How to set the atmosphere and how to engage in foreplay. Foreplay isn’t just for women. Sure, men can get hard in a few seconds and get it on, but does that mean it’s really GOOD? This guide will show you how setting the right atmosphere and engaging in plenty of foreplay will get your man so hot, he’s trembling before you even put your lips on his penis.
  • Blowjob Techniques. What would a guide about how to give head be without several specific techniques you can use? These are easy to learn and easy to follow, but your man will wonder where you picked them up and just how you got to be so darn good at giving head! (This includes deep-throating – if you can learn how to deep throat during oral sex, he’ll be yours forever.)
  • Dirty Talk. Guys want to hear how much you love sucking them off. Jack’s Blowjob Lessons will give you specific examples of things you can say that will get your man so turned on, he’s gasping for you to finish him!
  • Spitting vs. Swallowing. Semen is one of the biggest reasons that women avoid blowjobs. They think it’s “yucky” and sometimes it is. But this guide will teach you how to swallow or discreetly spit in a way that still makes your man think that you LOVE it when he ejaculates after a blowjob.

What People Are Saying About Jack’s Blowjob Lessons:

“I tried it when my boyfriend came home, we had dinner, and then I said I wanted desert and he asked me what I wanted and I said, “I don’t know but I want this” touching his penis. He loved that, lol. I did the “smart housewife” and oh my! Lets just say last night was awesome! And the best thing about it is I enjoyed sucking my boyfriend’s d**k!” – Victoria

“Let me start by saying WOW!!!!!  We have been married 19 years and together 8 years before that.  My husband has always been good at letting me know what felt good and we often experiment new ways.  After a blowjob he would say “Oh that was great”  So as you said I thought I was doing a good job.  Bought your book last night browsed through it.  Last night I surprised him with a late evening blowjob. His reaction at the end game point “F**K OH F**K WOW, OH MY, WOW F**K, THAT WAS THE BEST EVER I MEAN EVER REALLY I MEAN EVER!” – Cliona

“Dude I just wanted to say thank you…my girlfriend bought your book and was telling me about it and then tried so much of that stuff on me. I really appreciate all that stuff you had the balls to write in your book. You are definitely one of my new heroes for sure. Thanks again man, also thank the ex porn star also, my girlfriend loved her advice!” – Brian

So are you ready to take the next step and become the BEST lover your man has ever had?

Are you ready to give your fella a blowjob so good, he’s dripping with sweat and can’t even stand up afterwards?

Do you want him to brag to his friends about how amazing HIS girlfriend is at giving head?

Get your copy of Jack’s Blowjob Lessons TODAY and give your guy head so incredible, he’ll never want another girl again!

Best Oral Sex Tips Of 2012

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Oral sex can make mediocre sex super hot, and you can often give your partner the best orgasm they’ve ever had through oral sex! It’s an extremely intimate act that will take your sex life to a new level! Here’s our best of 2012.

How To REALLY Eat A Girl Out 

How To Make Your Lover Orgasm Faster During Oral Sex

5 Ways To Get Her To Give You Head More Often

5 Easy Blowjob Techniques To Start With

Sheet Soaking Oral Sex Techniques

How To Make Him Melt In Your Mouth

3 Oral Sex Tips To Drive Her Wild With Razor Sharp Female Orgasms

4 Ways To Get A Blowjob WITHOUT Asking

How To Get Him To LOVE Going Down On You!

How To Spice Up A Blowjob

6 Beginner’s Oral Sex Techniques

 

Why 69 Can Improve Your Sex Life

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Oral sex in the 69 position is something many couples try, but don’t do regularly. Why? It can totally revamp your sex life! Here’s what you’ve been missing out on.

69 is a great position for giving each of your mutual pleasure. While the 69 position can be great for foreplay, not enough couples use it to bring the both of you to orgasm. Most people think of this as a starter position or something to get the ball rolling for the “real sex.” The fact of the matter is that the 69 position is great for foreplay or for bringing the both of you to orgasm. 69 can improve your sex life immensely. 69 allows the both of you to enjoy giving and getting all at the same time. Here are some ways that you can improve your sex life through the 69 position.

1. The Woman’s Advantage

The 69 position has a significant advantage for girls. Men love to see the most intimate parts or woman’s body from behind. While you are in this position your partner Will be able to give you oral sex from a view that he will love. This will also give you control over how deep you want your vagina on his mouth. A man can please you while you are pleasing him, bringing you both to orgasm with a view that he will never grow tired of. This position will also give you sensations that aren’t commonly felt when your partner goes down on you the traditional way.

2. The Male Advantage

Getting a blowjob is something that all guys relish. However, the problem with having a girl give you oral sex is that she doesn’t get anything out of it. With the 69 position, you both getting you what you want. When she is on top of you, she will give you different sensations just by the angle that your penis is at when it goes into her mouth. This angle is not something that is typically felt unless you are engaging in 69.

3. The Side By Side

A variation of the 69 position, the side by side position allows the both of you to give and get, but without the hassles of gravity. Traditional 69 will leave a girl’s legs tired and her knees irritated. If you are looking for an easier way to achieve the benefits of 69 but without all of the stresses, the side by side is a great way to go. Simply lie on your side and get into the 69 position. This going to put more weight on your side, but you will be able to shift the shift by bracing against your partner’s legs. This will also give you better access to the small of your partner’s back and their butt.

4. Anal

If your girlfriend or wife is into anal, the 69 position will allow you to play with her anus. One of the best techniques to employ is to use a sex toy on her anus as you give her oral sex to her vagina. Not all women are going to be into this so make sure that your wife or girlfriend is up for it before you try it out. If your wife or girlfriend is into analingus, you will also be to easily go from her vagina and clitoris to her anus while you are in the 69 position.

5. Intimacy

69 can easily improve your sex life because it can build intimacy. Not making the night about having the best sex of your life takes away a lot of pressure. This allows the both of your take things slow and forget the rush of pumping away at each other. 69 rarely requires any kind of lube so it can easily be employed from other foreplay methods such as kissing. If you don’t want to take this position all the way to the end, you will be able to easily reposition into sex.

6. Prostate Massages

Another benefit of using the 69 position is that you can give your boyfriend or husband a prostate massage without having to change positions. Whether you are on top or on bottom, you will access to his anus without making much of a fuss. Not all guys are into prostate massages, however, if your partner is, you might want to use this position the next time he gets the urge. If you are going to give your guy a prostate massage from this position, make sure that you have a lot of lube near by and that he knows what you’re about to do. There is nothing stranger than when you feel a girl start to to a little more north that you’re used to.

Why Your Attitude Is KEY When Giving A Blowjob

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Blowjob tips aren’t all about how to suck and lick your partner. It’s also about your state of mind when going down on him. Here’s how to improve your blowjob skills.

The most important aspect of giving your lover an incredible blowjob is your attitude. If you have a bad attitude about it, the activity isn’t going to be enjoyable for either you or your partner. However, if you have a good attitude about the blowjob, it will really turn your lover on and get him into it.

Acting Like The Blowjob Is A Chore

Think about the situation in reverse – what if he were giving you oral sex? How would it make you feel if he acted like giving you oral sex were a chore? How would you like it if he acted like he’d rather be doing anything else than have his head between your legs? (You might already have a man that does this – if so, then you definitely have some perspective here.) It wouldn’t make you feel very sexy, would it? You wouldn’t feel desired, or that your lover cared at all about your pleasure. You would probably feel intensely rejected and you would take a huge blow to your ego.

When you act like sucking him off is a burden rather than something fun and enjoyable for you, it makes your partner feel exactly like that – unsexy, undesired and uncared about. This makes it very difficult for him to get lost in the pleasure, or really feel any pleasure at all. His mind will be preoccupied with trying to figure you out than being open to receiving intense pleasure and orgasms from oral sex. So no matter what your blowjob skill level is, it doesn’t matter if you don’t have a good attitude about giving head.

How Do They Do It In Porn?

Take porn for example. Although porn is probably the worst place you could possibly go to learn blowjob techniques, there is one thing you could pick up from the porn stars and use in your own oral sex repertoire – and that’s how great their attitude is. Men love it when the girls in porn get excited about going down on them. They love it when a woman is enthusiastic about doing such a naughty, pleasurable and submissive activity.

You’ll notice that in almost every blowjob porn, the girl on the giving end is just plain ecstatic about sucking her man off! Now you most certainly do not have to go to the extremes that these women do – or else it will probably come off as fake anyways – mimicking their willingness and enthusiasm about giving a blowjob will make you really good at it. A great attitude is even more important than learning great blowjob skills.

Smile, And Act Like It’s FUN!

So with a great attitude, you can give your lover the best blowjob of his life – even if you’re not that skilled at different techniques and moves you can do. Just act like you get really turned on by the idea of going down on him and giving him the ultimate pleasure. Bonus points if it’s less of an “act” and you really do get into it. If you can learn to really enjoy giving your lover fellatio, the activity can be super meaningful and super pleasurable for both of you.

How To Get Him Clean Before Oral Sex – The SEXY Way

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Oral sex can be awesome, but it can also be gross if he’s not fresh down there. Here are some sexy ways to clean him up before oral sex without him knowing!

When you’re talking about hygiene, it’s easy to get too technical with it. You want to scrub him all over and make sure he’s clean around his scrotum, his perineum and underneath his foreskin if he’s uncircumcised. If your lover sees you washing him up like a doctor washes their hands before surgery, he’s not going to be very turned on and in fact, it might just offend him. You want to make the hygiene process as fun, relaxed and sexy as you can. So here are five things you can do tonight to get him clean and turned on!

1. Join Him In The Shower While Wearing A Wet T-Shirt

This is probably a favorite of most men. You can guarantee he’s had sexual fantasies about seeing half naked women wearing soaking wet white t-shirts, with their voluptuous breasts and erect nipples peeking out from underneath. Seriously, this fantasy rates just below the Princess-Leia-In-The-Gold-Bikini fantasy for most men.

Take advantage of this instant turn on and use it to get him squeaky clean before you go down on him, without him ever knowing. Next time he’s in the shower, get completely undressed, and then put on one of his white undershirts, or a white t-shirt of your own. No pockets, no designs, no nothing. Just white, with sleeves. As he’s washing his hair, slip into the shower with him, allowing the front of you to get soaking wet. When he turns around and sees you in all of your wet glory, don’t be surprised if his eyes pop out of his head!

When he’s had his visual fill, take the shirt off and allow him to feel you up and get your breasts all soapy. Then, take his hard penis in your hands and soap it up while he moans with delight! Congratulations, you’ve just killed two birds with one stone and he has no earthly clue what you were really doing.

2. Surprise Him With A Sexy Smelling New Shower Gel

Next time you go to the store, find a shower gel that you find utterly scrumptious and erotic. Don’t hesitate to buy one or two bottles, especially if it’s on sale. Again, surprise your man next time he’s in the shower by slipping in with him, bottle in hand. Smile sexily and say, “I got you a new shower gel. I think it smells really good. Can I rub it all over your naked, wet body?”

You probably won’t get a “no” and if it has a great scent, he’ll like it too. Once he’s clean and you’ve got him toweled off and in the bed, make a big deal of how awesome he smells before enveloping his penis in your mouth. You’ll probably find that he uses your new shower gel a lot more often!

3. Let Him Catch You Masturbating In The Shower

This one is fun, but can be difficult to do if you have a notoriously unobservant husband. Grab your fave sex toy (or use your fingers) and head for a wet and wild masturbation session. You’ll start out solo, but with any luck, your man will join you before too long. Don’t be afraid to drop subtle hints about where you’re going, what you’re doing and how hot it will be for him to take a peek.

Once you’re in, make a big but convincing show of how good what you’re doing feels. Make lots of sexy noises, but don’t go over the top. If you sound like the girl in the porn movie who gets banged from behind, you’re not doing a good job. Make it sound sexy, but totally natural. If you get into it, that shouldn’t be too hard to do. Just don’t stifle your moans of ecstasy – you definitely want them to reach his ears.

Once he drops in on you, look appropriately abashed but don’t immediately close your legs or stop what you’re doing. Let him get an eyeful of the action going on before you look deeply into his eyes and tell him how much you wish it was him doing it do you. It won’t take much convincing for him to de-robe and hop in the shower with you, giving you both the opportunity to soap each other up and get clean before oral sex. Who knows, he might go down on you too!

4. Draw A Romantic, Candle Lit Bath

After your man has had a long, hard day at work, draw him a hot bath with candles. You can do rose petals too, but depending on what kind of guy you’re dating or in a relationship with, that may be too over the top. But don’t assume that just because he’s a man that he can’t enjoy a nice bath.

Let him have a few minutes to relax, perhaps with a cold beer or a nice glass of wine. Come into the bathroom naked, holding a shower pouf and either some of your new sexy smelling shower gel or your normal soap. Offer to wash his back and his hair to relax him. As you’re massaging shampoo into his hair and working the lather down his back, he should become more and more relaxed. Allow your hands to drift to his penis, which will most likely already be hard and waiting for you.

Make washing his penis part of your erotic soap down. Allow him to finish his bath for as long as he wants and enter the bedroom to find you ready and waiting. This is an excellent time to give your man a blowjob while sitting on the edge of the bed with him standing!

5. Try Some Shower Only Sex Toys

This tactic is similar to the shower gel tactic, but you’re going to use some shower only sex toys instead. Splurge on a waterproof couples vibrator or some specially designed sex handles that help couples achieve different sex positions in the shower. Make sure you’re getting a toy that you both can use. It’s really no good if you get a waterproof rabbit vibe or a clitoris vibrator – it’s like him buying a fishing pole for you. He’ll know who the “gift” is really for.

You can suggest trying them out before he gets in the shower, or you can give them to him in the shower. Do whatever feels right at the moment. As you’re trying out the new toys, make sure to get nice and soapy. Rub him up and down while using the soap as a lubricant, thereby washing his penis thoroughly and making him hard and turned on at the same time.

You may want to give him head or have sex right there in the shower depending on what sex toy you chose, or you can finish off in the bedroom. Again, do what feels right when it feels right and both you and your partner will have a lot of fun!