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3 Sex Tips To Give A Woman An Orgasm Without Using Your Hands!

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Ever had sex with a woman? If so, you know how badly you want her to have an orgasm before you do. So she’s happy, she’s satisfied and she wants to have sex with you more. That’s why, in this article, you’ll discover three of the easiest way to make her have a violently powerful orgasm without ever once using your hands! Or touching her body!

The trick is, most women are controlled by their emotions, and by their minds. When you want to have sex with her, what do you do? Not grope her all over, but turn her on, starting in her MIND! You bring her roses, wine and dine her, tell her how beautiful she looks, until she’s overcome with desire, and must have you.

Here’s exactly how you can “overwhelm” her emotions while you’re in the middle of the moment – and how you can make a female orgasm with your words and your words, alone.

Here are three phrases that you can use to get your girl off during sex.

Tip #1: Telling Her To Orgasm

“Now be a good a good girl and come for me….”

Telling a woman to come is one of the most powerful ways to get her to orgasm when having sex. This primal urge goes all the way back to our caveman days – she gets off on you being in control of her body.

So here’s how you send her over the edge during sex:

1) Use her favorite sex technique to bring her to the brink of orgasm

2) Wait until you hear her breathing speed up, and see her start to “lose control” of her body

3) Tell her you’re going to make her come. And tell her to come for you. Don’t ask her – just tell her!

Most of the time, this is exactly what she needs to hear to send her right over the edge. Pair this with some constant, unbreaking eye contact and deep thrusting during sex, and your woman will feel dominated in all the ways she fantasizes about.

Tip #2: Dominating Her

“I love you, my baby girl…”

Women have come very far, when it comes to equal rights in both the job and the home. Women can achieve anything men can achieve in our modern world. However, when it comes to sex, most women still have primal instincts that need to be satisfied. And these instincts tell her she NEEDS to be “owned” by a dominant man.

That’s the only way she can orgasm.

So here’s how to do it:

1) Again, bring her right to the edge. This time, use a slower pace.

2) Whisper a few words about how much you love her, right into her ear.

3) Then, call her your baby, your girl, or whatever comes to mind.

4) Some women will orgasm on this alone. If she doesn’t, just add in the technique above. She’s guaranteed to get off when you pair eye contact, deep thrusting, and these two techniques.

Every single woman I’ve ever had sex with has needed little more than these two techniques to have an orgasm. Contrary to popular belief, getting her to orgasm is relatively easy. Most men just jackhammer away like they see in porn, while the best way to make her climax is to stimulate her MIND!

Tip #3: Setting The Mood

How can you make her have a wild, crazy, screaming orgasm? By setting the scene before sex, of course! This sex tip tells you exactly what you need to do:

1) Before you meet up with her, take a few minutes to make wherever you hook up as clean and serene as possible.

2) Light a scented candle – something with a soft scent like vanilla.

3) When she gets home, tell her to take a second with you to get rid of the stress of the day. Take a few breaths together, in and out, as deep as you both can. (This helps you both relax and synchronizes your breathing just a bit, so your sex “rhythm” is even better later.)

4) Start your evening with an erotic massage and see where it goes.

Why this advice? What’s the core of this technique? It’s simple: Most men just rush to sex. And by far the easiest way to make a female orgasm, is to take more time with foreplay. It’s really a no brainier. Enough build up and foreplay and she will orgasm on the very first stroke you take. This is great to know if your stamina is still building, or you’ve been in kind of a rut.

From this relaxed place of increased foreplay, you can start adding in fantasies, role-playing and other sexual elements. But for now, you’re miles and MILES ahead of every other man she’s ever had sex with because you know how to make her orgasm during sex, without using your hands!

The 9 Types Of Orgasms – And How To Give Them!

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Orgasms for a man are EASY to understand. You simply thrust, get aroused, finish, and go to sleep. Most men can only have one type of climax – after which they usually lose their erection temporarily before they can get hard and have another.

Women however, can have MANY different kinds!

These range from those that are barely noticeable to her man, to SCREAMING, TOE-CURLING, even bed soaking squirting orgasms (Woo!) There are also many different ones in between those extremes! Unlike men, the TYPE of climax a woman has is often 100% CONTROLLABLE by her sexual partner (you)!

One of the first steps to giving your girl the strongest orgasms of her life is RECOGNIZING that YOU have control over them.

Lucky you!

You should never blame your girl for not coming. Always be honest with yourself, and ask yourself if you are really sexually satisfying her. Let’s talk about some of the kinds of climaxes women are capable of having.

Foreplay Orgasms

These take place during foreplay (or “pre-penetration.”)

Foreplay orgasms are so important, because they allow your lover to “warm up” and have multiple orgasms later when you penetrate her. Every GREAT lover should have the following in his playbook:

Nipple Climax

Not all women can have a climax through nipple stimulation alone, but since a personally know a few who can, so I had to put it in here to make the article complete!

Clitoral Orgasm

This climax concentrates on the clitoris. Not as intense as the deep spot and other vaginal orgasms but still a great warm up and relatively easy to do.

“Deep Spot” Climax

The “deep spot” climax is often the first time many woman have a true “internal” orgasm, as it’s usually easier for a woman to have one of these than it is for her to have one during sex.

“G-Spot” Climax

The g-spot climax is similar to the deep spot but not quite as intense. Still a great orgasm to have in the bag of tricks to get her “primed” for multiples during sex.

Now let’s talk about some of the orgasms women are capable of having during PENETRATION:

Penetration Orgasms

Vaginal Orgasm

Normal climax while you are inside of her, much like the “deep spot” orgasm. Usually more intense than any foreplay orgasm but for some woman very difficult to achieve. Far easier to achieve AFTER a foreplay orgasm.

Anal Climax

This occurs when you have a clitoral or vaginal orgasm during anal sex. It feels very different to a girl than a clitoral or vaginal orgasm alone.

Multiple Orgasms

Multiple orgasms are when your lover has an orgasm and you give her another (or many) orgasms right after. This is different than the continuous orgasm which is described next.

Continuous Orgasm

This is when your girl has an orgasm but instead of letting her sexual excitement come down (as many women think they have to because they are sensitive) you INSTEAD keep going and often even harder. This causes her to start climaxing UNCONTROLLABLY and over and over. With a continuous climax she will often be EXHAUSTED after and will always say she had not idea how many orgasms she had. 99% of women need to be verbally talked through a continuous climax as it is rare that previous lovers have EVER done this to her. She also has no way to do this herself through masturbation. If you make your girl have one of these, she just might become sexually addicted to you, so only do this with a girl you REALLY like!

Squirting Orgasm

Ah, the mysterious one! Well first of all I will tell you, squirting orgasms are VERY REAL and every woman has the “equipment” to have one! Let’s just say they’re a lot of fun!

So there you have it. Being a girl does have SOME advantages!

Female Orgasm – Squirting 101

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The ability to squirt during orgasm is perhaps one of the more elusive and taboo parts of a woman’s anatomy. Squirting can be a huge turn on for guys and it can intensify an orgasm for a woman ten fold. Many people believe that squirting isn’t something women can do at all, but in recent years it has been proven that women can indeed squirt. So what is squirting anyways?

What Is Squirting?

Squirting for women is much like ejaculating is for a man. All women have a functioning prostate gland that starts producing fluid when a girl begins to go through puberty. This fluid is what is ejaculated from the vulva when a woman “squirts.” It does not come from the vagina nor does it come from the urethra, where urine is expelled. It comes from its very own special gland called the Skene’s gland. This gland is present in all women and its sole function is to serve as an exit for a woman’s prostate fluid. However, not all women can or will squirt during their lifetimes!

What Is The Fluid Made Of?

The fluid a woman ejaculates when she squirts is a clear, very thin and watery fluid. It can sometimes be milky in color, and posseses its very own odor. It does not contain any sperm, but it does contain higher levels of glucose and enzymes that are similar to male semen. Many people who were or are skeptical about a woman’s ability to squirt have said that the fluid ejaculated during orgasm is simply urine, but this has been scientifically disproved. A woman may feel like she is about to urinate when she is getting ready to squirt, but true squirting consists only of this special fluid from the prostate gland. Female ejaculate is also separate from the fluid the vagina naturally makes during sexual arousal. The fluid made by the vagina during sexual arousal is often thicker and more sticky, while female ejaculate is more of a transparent type liquid.

Stimulating The G-Spot

To make a woman squirt, it requires intense g-spot stimulation. Use very firm pressure! A woman will not squirt if not enough pressure is used. However, it is important that a woman be relaxed and extremely turned on before attempting to make her squirt. For a woman to squirt, she must be comfortable enough to completely let go, because if any part of her is holding back, she’s not going to be able to squirt. Starting with firm pressure isn’t going to do anything but make her uncomfortable. Get her very wet and very turned on before you begin stimulating her g-spot and prostate gland. Stimulate her labia, her vagina and her clitoris first, or at the same time that you stimulate her g-spot. Have patience, because it will usually take a few to several tries before squirting is actually acheived.

There is nothing wrong or abnormal about female ejaculation – in fact, quite the opposite! Squirting can deeply enhance a woman’s orgasms and spice up a couple’s sex life tremendously. Every woman can learn how to squirt – she just has to learn to let go!

Ladies: How To Reach Orgasm During Intercourse In Just 5 Minutes (Or Less)

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Could it really be THIS easy to reach orgasm during intercourse in just 5 minutes or less with the man you’ve been with for years.

The answer is “Yes”, and if you want to eliminate all the frustration, exhaustion, and heartache that can come from failing to reach the orgasm you really want and start experiencing fast, easy, and consistent orgasms every time you make love… regardless of your past attempts… AND… regardless of his “lovemaking skills”, then you’ll want to read the rest of this article.

Surprising Facts About Female Orgasms

  • It takes most women less than 4 minutes to reach orgasm when masturbating
  • A huge number of women fake their orgasms, because they know they just can’t keep up with their man
  • Faking orgasms can be utterly detrimental to the health of your relationship
  • Stressing out over sex and orgasms can actually make you lose vaginal lubrication, making an orgasm even more elusive
  • It IS possible to have an orgasm during sex in less than 5 minutes, even if you never have before
  • It IS possible to have an orgasm every time you have sex with your partner.

Click here to take a very short quiz to see if this is possible for you!

You’re Not Alone – Most Women Have Difficulty Reaching Orgasm Through Sex….

Nearly all women have had the experience of trying to reach orgasm through intercourse… trying out many tips and techniques with their partners… failing time and time again… with no orgasm in sight… only to feel like giving up and accepting that “that’s how women are”.

And what’s worse… because sex is not exciting or pleasurable to you, and your orgasms takes too much work… sex becomes a chore and you don’t feel like “doing it” anymore… however, your partner still feels like having sex… and sometimes – out of sexual frustration – he has to resort to pressure you to give him release… and maybe make you feel guilty for not wanting sex as much as he does… and you can feel its STRAINING YOUR RELATIONSHIP.

You may or may not know this already, but your inability to achieving orgasm during can ruin your relationship and your self-esteem.

This type of situation makes it easy to feel pessimistic towards having a sex life in general… and can definitely lead you to believe that ALL MEN are sexually selfish… and there’s some problem with you because you can’t reach orgasm consistently during sex… if at all.

The 3 Deadly Mistakes Women and Men Make During Sex That Kill Their Chances of Ever Reaching An Orgasm

Mistake #1: Focusing on Long Penetrative Sex To Achieve An Orgasm

Long, drawn out lovemaking sessions can be great in any relationship, but more often than not, it’s impractical, takes too much time and too much damn work. He has to try to “last” all night and hold himself back from ejaculating during sex. He’ll try to distract himself until you’re at the point where you’re ready to orgasm. After all the preparation and hours of pumping – you finally climax.

Mistake #2 : Relying On A Man To Give YOU An Orgasm

Society has the common view that a man should GIVE a woman an orgasm. It’s no surprise that this is a standard belief. Men are supposed be the “gentleman” and pay for dinners, open doors, “take care” of their woman while a woman is…well, left in a more passive role. Even our anatomy hints that men should be “giving” it to women. The man is the “giver” because he has a penis, and the woman is the “receiver” because she has a vagina. And to top it off, there are many books (good and bad), magazine articles, and other forms of media instructing men on how to become better lovers, and GIVE their woman an orgasm. While there is nothing wrong with being a man who is “great” at sex, it takes a man who is dedicated to improving his skills in bed and become a better lover for you. However, this is simply not the case with most couples.

Mistake #3 : Thinking That Something MIGHT Be Wrong With You If You Can’t Orgasm

This is the big mistake a lot of women make. Listen, I know it’s easy to think this way. It’s easy to feel down and depressed if you try something and it doesn’t work, like orgasming through sex. And it’s not your fault. We as women aren’t taught how to climax during sex, but in reality, we SHOULD be able to reach climax just as fast, if not, FASTER than men!

The good news is that reaching orgasm quickly and consistently is easy if you know how to do it.

Experience Faster, Quicker & More Consistent Female Orgasms Each & Every Time You Make Love!

Our good friend Jessica Perez has an amazing guide that will help you reach orgasm during intercourse quickly and easily every time!

It’s called “Faster Female Orgasm – How To Orgasm During Sex Quickly, Easily And Guaranteed“.

Here are some great things you’ll find out in Faster Female Orgasm – How To Orgasm During Sex Quickly, Easily And Guaranteed:

  • Detailed descriptions of female anatomy so a woman can understand how her body really works
  • Directions for direct and indirect clitoral stimulation, as well as what NOT to do when touching your clitoris
  • Directions for G-Spot stimulation during sex
  • How masturbation can treat sexual dysfunction
  • How to masturbate properly so you can begin to climax during sex
  • Exactly which techniques to apply during sex so you can orgasm harder and faster
  • Why you need to TURN OFF YOUR VIBRATOR
  • How to have blended orgasms, simultaneous orgasms and multiple orgasms
  • Detailed descriptions of sexual positions to use to set yourself up for orgasm success from the start
  • How fantasizing and involving your brain during sex can help you climax
  • How to train your man to do what you like during sex, not what he thinks you like
  • How to love yourself and become a sexual woman

The information in this eBook will save you years of time, heartaches and wasted energy. Most women go through their entire lives never learning how to reach orgasm during sex… and… getting what they truly want from their relationships. But it doesn’t have to be this way.

You at least owe it to yourself to check it out… Get more info here: Faster Female Orgasm

Will it work for everybody? Of course not.

But let me ask you this… What if this knowledge helps you reach just ONE orgasm during sex with your boyfriend or husband? Just ONE.

Or what if it helped you turn around a boring, painful or non-existent sex life with the man you’ve been with for years?

What would that be worth to you?

Now ask yourself… What if there’s even a chance that this book can actually teach you how to orgasm during sex, make you want sex more often… and… make him want to be with you forever? What if you really can learn how to orgasm at the same time as your lover… achieve a mutual orgasm you’ve always wanted and finally experience that loving, passionate relationship you deserve?

How much would that be worth to you? A thousand dollars? Ten thousand? More? For most people I know, it would be priceless.

Just the POSSIBILITY of having this kind of special once-in-a-lifetime sex would be worth at least checking out the material.

I know that when that time comes for you, you’ll look back on this moment and be glad you made this investment in yourself.

This much is for sure… Sometime in your life you’ll feel like you’re just about to climax while making love to your man. Maybe you’ve already felt this and he already can tell you’re just about to scream.

The question is, do you know exactly what to do to push your feelings and emotions over the top and finally orgasm? Or are you going to ride this pleasure-plateau never hitting the climax and never know how you will feel and how he will feel.

Do you want to even consider the chance that you’ll be sexually frustrated and heartbroken again and again and never get the help and answers you need. Or do you want to get this area of your life IN CONTROL and learn what works – so you can make the most of your time, energy, and your heart

Get your copy of Faster Female Orgasm and get ready to start loving sex again!?

Still not sure, Read our Review of Faster Female Orgasm.

Do Women Really Want Multiple Orgasms?

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The pressure is on – give your girl an orgasm, give her more than one and give them to her now. Society says that for men to truly please their partners, they need to give her multiple, over the top orgasms and become a master lover. How realistic is this? Do women actually want multiple orgasms? Or are some women okay with just one, or none?

A Woman’s Climax Pattern

When a woman climaxes, it is true that she remains in the climax “zone” for some time before coming back down to her pre-aroused status. When men have an orgasm, however, he immediately relaxes and his body goes back to normal and must stay in a non-aroused state for a period of time before allowing him to become turned on again. In Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus, John Gray, Ph.D. compares a man’s climax pattern to a “blowtorch” – which quickly heats up, fires and quickly burns down, while a woman’s climax pattern is more similar to an “oven” – taking more time to warm up and cool down. But because a woman’s body allows her to be primed for multiple orgasms after the first one, does that mean she really wants one?

If The Orgasm Is Good Enough…

Men are obsessed with quantity. The more, the better. The bigger, the better. Therefore, men feel like the more orgasms they give their partner, the better the sex and the more satisfied she will be afterward. However, a woman doesn’t necessarily need multiple orgasms to have satisfying sex. In fact, some women are satisfied with just one orgasm while a few women don’t necessarily need an orgasm to enjoy sex with their partners. Some women feel pressured by their partners into having multiple orgasms, and therefore the orgasms become more forced and less pleasurable each time. Many women are more focused on the quality of the orgasm rather than the quantity of orgasms. If the orgasm is good enough, it’s entirely possible – and even plausible – that she will be completely and utterly blissed out with just one.

How To Give Her THE Orgasm

Make sure she’s relaxed, both mentally and physically. Like the oven, she needs time to preheat and get warmed up before the action starts. For a woman, this means she needs to be both emotionally and physically warmed up. Give her a massage or draw her a hot bath and let her stress from the day melt away. She will be more open and receiving to your efforts. Sexually speaking, when you get started, take it slow. Focus on her and don’t jump the gun. Don’t just go for the gold and expect her to have an orgasm right away. Show her that you are really into her, and enjoy being intimate with her. When you’re pleasing her, listen to her feedback – her body language and vocals will let you know what she likes and what she wants more of. A combination of all of these things can help your partner reach THE orgasm she wants and has been craving, and this time, it will be so good that just one will be enough.