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6 Ways To Be The Alpha Male She CRAVES

By shawnalenee

Sex tips show you what techniques to use, but they won’t matter if you’re a wuss who asks permission to do anything. Here’s how to be the ALPHA MALE she wants!

There are a lot of ways to be authoritative with your girl. Here are six you can use to get on the right track, tonight!

Take Charge!

These sex tips start right from the beginning. Don’t ASK for sex. Just make your move! YOU must lead the interaction. Here’s a great way to show her you’re in control: Once you have her turned on, naked, and ready to go, tell her she isn’t ready yet. Tease her, and show her she has to beg for it before you will give it to her.

Then have her get in the positions you want, tell her what to say – just make sure you are leading!

Make her orgasm on your command. When she is getting close, say to her you want her to come for you, or say she isn’t allowed to climax until you say it’s OK. Then keep doing her hard and make her wait for your okay.

Use Dirty Talk

The whole authority thing backfires if you proceed to have silent sex with your girl!

Start early. If you’re meeting up with your girl later, call or text her ahead of time and tell her you’re going to do naughty things to her. Tell her she’d better be ready. Don’t know what to say once you are all over each other? Start by just describing what you’re doing, then let her know what you’re about to do to her.

Say what positions to get into. Make to talk dirty to you, but save the “I Love You’s” for another day! (Or right afterwards to show her that you LOVE how dirty and nasty she was just for you, but you still cherish and love her).

Do It Hard!

You can’t be authoritative if you aren’t giving it to your girl hard, plain and simple. Save the sensitive love-making for another time. You have to put me in positions that are good for this – doggy style is GREAT for this!

But don’t confuse hard with fast. You don’t have to be pounding away like a jackhammer – just full, hard, and deep.

You can also gently but firmly pull her hair from the back near the roots, slap her lightly on the ass, throw her onto the bed, “mock” rip her clothes off with your teeth!

Use Authority Through The Whole Experience

Use dirty talk and she will love it.

Do her hard and she will love it.

But do ALL of these things – and watch her totally lose control and come over and over at your command!

It’s All Relative

Authoritative for one couple might be completely different from authoritative for another couple. If you have been ignoring great sex tips, having boring, quiet, missionary sex, with the lights out for the last 15 years – you have to be careful not to do too much too soon. This can make her uncomfortable and ruin the experience.

So start out slow if you have to. As you both get more comfortable you can keep adding to the authority and having more and more fun!

It’s Not The Same As Being Mean

Authority is all about being in charge, and telling the girl what you want. It’s NOT about degrading her, making her feel uncomfortable, or being too serious. One of my favorite things is when a guy is authoritative in a playful way. It’s more about him knowing that I enjoy him being in charge, that he’s not afraid to tell me what he wants, and that I can just safely give in to him.

Remember, authority is one of the best ways to get and keep a woman 100% sexually satisfied.

Many men have told me JUST these sex tips have changed their entire sex lives! And taken them from clumsily messing around and “hoping for the best” in the bedroom to confidently giving their women orgasm after juicy orgasm – whether it’s their very first time with a girl, or someone they’ve been with for years!

Filed Under: Sex Tips & Advice Tagged With: dirty talk, domination, female orgasm, orgasm, sex tips

3 Dirty Sex Moves Men Crave In Bed

By jessicaperez

Every guy craves dirty sex. Most of them are hesitant about asking their partners to do certain things in bed for fear of offending the other person, or being judged. However, most  crave a few “naughty” things in between the sheets, even if they are afraid to ask for it. Spice up your sex life by anticipating the “taboo” things your man wants to do to you and give him dirty sex tonight!

Orgasm Inside Your Mouth

Every porn video he has ever seen contains a variation or two of this oral sex activity. Since he has spend a lot of time fantasizing about “cum in mouth” and “cum on face” scenes, he might want to try these when you’re having sex. But some women are offended at the thought of swallowing a man’s sperm. She may also feel affronted at the thought of a man’s semen spraying all over her face. But if your man cannot do these things with you, who else would he do it with?

Save him the trouble of him asking by telling him to orgasm in your mouth. If he asks why you feel like doing it this time, just say you want to taste him in the most intimate way possible.

Analingus

Being the recipient of oral sex should tell you how sensitive the skin around your anus is. It’s called the perineum, where the skin is thinner than anywhere else around your pubic area. For women, it’s the patch of skin that stretches the most during sex. If you felt all sorts of pleasurable sensations when your man caresses that area, you should know that it’s the same for guys. But some women feel grossed out at the thought of licking their partners there, so men usually don’t ask.

While you’re blowing him, slide down to that place and don’t slow down. He might feel surprised, even shocked, at your daring but the pleasure will overpower him after a few minutes of analingus. Slide your tongue over his anal sphincter to intensify the sensation.

Anal Sex

Anal sex on you is something that you and your man might have tried. But have you ever thought about doing it to him? Like rimming, he might be craving for you to shove your tongue or your finger up his ass but never knew how to ask.

Once you’ve graduated from rimming, you can proceed with exploring his anal region with your fingers and your tongue. However, be prepared for some sort of resistance, as straight men who have never tried this before may feel like they’re getting violated.

If your man shows signs of detesting the act because it feels “gay,” remind him that a woman is doing it to him so he shouldn’t feel that way. It’s probably better to discuss the possibility of anal sex on him before you proceed. A man needs to prepare himself mentally and physically for the act.

There are women who can do the things I mentioned effortlessly, but there are women who don’t want to do these things because these activities are “dirty,” literally. If you’re one of these women, you can easily solve this problem by doing it in the bath or under the shower.

Filed Under: Sex Tips & Advice Tagged With: anal sex, oral sex, sex tips

7 Places To Have Sex In The Office

By loveandsex

Sex in the office can be incredibly hot – whether your partner is a co-worker or your current flame just stopping by. There’s something super sexy about having sex at work – even if it’s just a little foreplay before you head home for the real deal. Here’s how to get it on in the workplace.

On A Desk

Of course, having sex on a desk at the office is cliche – but it’s really fun! If you’re having sex with the boss, doing it on the boss’s desk is even naughtier. If not, any desk will suffice. Find a desk hidden away in a conference room or in a cubicle in the corner of the room to avoid getting caught. Bonus points if you actually throw all of the stuff off the desk first in one sweep of your arm!

Best Sex Position: Missionary or woman on top if you both are lying on the desk. You can also have the woman sit on the desk and the man enter her standing.

Against The Filing Cabinet

This can actually be a great way to hide from your co-workers if you can find a little nook created by a few filing cabinets. Doing it up against a filing cabinet is super sexy because it’s impromptu – and has an air of naughtiness to it. Just make sure you’re not having sex up against the side of the filing cabinet that has the handles. Ouch!

Best Sex Position: Standing, of course. Depending on how tall the cabinet is, the girl could sit on the top of the cabinet while her man lifts her skirt up and per forms oral sex on her.

In The Elevator

Most of the time, you only have enough time for passionate kissing in an elevator until the doors open. However, you can extend the time you have if you’re alone by pushing the emergency stop button. This may or may not set off an alarm, so you may want to find out beforehand from the building maintenance staff if you’re going to need to make a run for it afterwards.

Best Sex Position: Standing, without removing your clothes. This is so you can high tail it out of there if you have to!

On The Stairwell

A stairwell in an office is a pretty decent place to get it on if you’re not into getting caught, because few people actually travel the stairways, especially if it’s a large building. Most people take the elevator, so why not capitalize on the laziness of your co-workers by having a quickie on the stairwell?

Best Sex Position: Doggy style. You can vary the angle of penetration by having the girl facing up the stairs or down the stairs. Also, you can use the handrail for stability!

In The Supply Closet

Having sex in the supply closet is a great way to escape during the day without getting caught. Slip away on your lunch break when no one is paying attention to where you are and have a quickie in the closet. The other benefit of doing it on your lunch break? Most of your co-workers are probably at lunch too – and not looking for supplies in the closet.

Best Sex Position: Any position that you can manage. Depending on what supplies are in the closet, you may have a lot of sex position options, or you may have very few.

In An Office Chair

This is a good option if you want to try some sitting sex positions – and this is one you can do at home if you have a home office. Have the man sit in the chair and the woman straddle him. She can move up and down to bring her vagina closer to his face if she wants a little bit of oral, or lower it down onto his shaft for deep penetration. Women, wear a loose skirt on the day you plan on doing this – you’ll be grateful that you did!

Best Sex Position: Sitting, with the woman on top. You can also do another version of oral sex here – have the receiving partner sit in the chair and the giving partner kneel with their hands and knees on the floor.

In The Bathroom Stall

Use this one of you’re desperate or if you just don’t have anywhere else to go. It’s not so bad if the bathroom is pretty clean though. It can also be kind of fun if both of you are able to stand on the toilet and aren’t tall enough to tower over the top of the stall. If you can manage this, no one will know you’re in the stall (if you can stay quiet, that is) and you can get a little voyeuristic when people come in to use the restroom. Although, if you get stuck with someone who went to the Mexican restaurant for lunch, it’s going to be far, far from sexy.

Best Sex Position: Any position that doesn’t involve touching the toilet seat with any part of your body!

Filed Under: Sex Tips & Advice Tagged With: best sex places, foreplay, oral sex, sex tips

How To Give ANY Woman Multiple Orgasms And Have Her Sexually Addicted To You!

By loveandsex

This FREE VIDEO will show you how to give your girl the most incredible, heart-pounding sexual experiences of her entire life!

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When you watch this free video, you’ll learn secrets to get ANY woman off at ANY time, regardless of your penis size or sexual stamina, and even if you’ve been with your partner for YEARS and the “spark” seems gone.

The truth is, most men don’t have a clue how to touch a woman, make her feel good and get her off during sex – let alone give her incredible, body shaking orgasms. A lot of women cheat on their partners for one reason and one reason only:

Because she is bored with you in bed!

Women love and NEED sex just as much as a man, if not more! They crave orgasms given from their partner and not just any kind of orgasm – they want their lover to make them feel incredible! Girls want wet, wild, SQUIRTING orgasms just as much as YOU want to give them to her!

If you can give a woman INTENSE orgasms, she will do whatever you want, when ever you want! If you can please your girl, she’ll let out her inner freak and become totally, completely addicted to you! (Trust us when we say that her inner “bad girl” is way naughtier than you EVER thought possible)

You Probably Didn’t Know This But….

Girls HATE to tell you what to do in bed!

It’s completely embarrassing for a girl to have to show you what to do during sex – so much so that she’ll either go without and wait for you to get it over with, or find someone else who already knows how to please a woman. Even if she does show you what to do, she’ll be so turned off by the time you actually do it that she probably STILL won’t be able to get off.

You NEED to know what to do to get her off, WITHOUT her having to tell you!

This is the only way to have truly great sex and get her having multiple orgasms.

If you’re like most guys, you want to learn how to make your sex life SIZZLING HOT!

You might have struggled to give your female partner an orgasm, or you may never have been able to before. Rest assured, if you have problems getting your girl to reach climax, you’re not alone.

The Truth Is, MOST Guys Can’t Give Their Girl An Orgasm!

Most guys don’t know the first thing about how to put their hands on a woman, so forget trying to actually get her off. If you’ve been in that position before where you try and try and try to get your lover to reach climax only to fail miserably, then you KNOW how frustrating it is.

You KNOW how frustrating it is to go down on her for the better part of an hour, without her EVER having an orgasm!

You KNOW how it makes you feel like less of a man when you can’t give her the pleasure that other guys have before! 

There have been many nights where no matter how hard you try and no matter what you do, you just can’t get her OFF!

But does that mean you should assume that it’s impossible and stop trying?

NO!

You CAN have incredible sex with your lover – sex so good, she’s having 2, 3 or 4 orgasms and she’s so wild, she’s literally soaking the sheets as you thrust into her again and again! You CAN make your partner so satisfied in the bedroom that not only will she never even THINK of having sex with another guy, she’ll be begging and pleading for YOU to do her every single night!

Even if you have a small penis, average sexual skills or low stamina, you CAN become so good at giving your lover orgasms and pleasing her sexually, that she’ll think you’re a SEX GOD?

So, are you ready to say GOODBYE to a mediocre, boring sex life?

Do you finally want to be DONE with wondering if you pleased your lover in bed, or worrying whether she will find someone else that will give her the orgasms that you can’t?

Are you READY to make your sex life as hot as the porn stars?

She WANTS You!

2 Girls Teach Sex is a revolutionary video system that teaches you, step by step, how to seduce a woman and how to give her orgasm after dripping wet orgasm! When you use these insider sex secrets, you’ll be able to give your girl an orgasm with just a few simple moves! These are the super hot secrets that the PROS use, but never share with anyone! That’s right, you can get your hands on the sex tips, secrets and sex positions that will turn you from an ordinary (or bad) lover into an absolute and total SEX GOD!

Who Wants To Learn About Sex From A Book?

shawna_4_resizeThere are tons of sex guides out there that claim to teach you how to give your lover an orgasm. While some of these sex tips may be useful, most guys can’t sit there and read a book for hours, trying to visualize different sex positions and techniques and how they would work. Guys need to SEE something to actually learn it!

This is why 2 Girls Teach Sex is DIFFERENT than any other sex instruction product out there!

And that’s why it will WORK for you!

2 Girls Teach Sex features gorgeous professionals acting out the fingering, oral sex techniques and sex positions that make their legs shake!

Wait, back up for a second.

You mean to say that this product has hot naked women that SHOW YOU exactly what to do on camera?

YES!

2 Girls Teach Sex is an instruction video, but you’re not going to have to sit there and watch someone sit in front of their webcam and read from a script about sex. How would you learn anything that way? With THIS product, you can get STEP-BY-STEP, visual instruction on how to make your lover orgasm over and over again!

What You’ll Learn In 2 Girls Teach Sex

  •  A simple twist on the missionary position that will make your penis feel 2 INCHES BIGGER to her! And she’ll feel even tighter to you!
  • 3 spots you only have to TOUCH before sex to get her squirming with anticipation and BEGGING you to be inside her!
  • How to tell if your girl is faking her orgasm (THIS is a dead giveaway! You’ll be able to tell every single time!)
  • What lesbians know about oral sex that YOU don’t
  • 6 easy tricks to give her a powerful clitoral orgasm
  • A technique that will give her an orgasm through penetration alone (she CANNOT do this by herself! She will be ADDICTED to you after this!)

When you discover the powerful sex secrets that thousands of men DON’T know, you will see five incredible changes in your sex life, LITERALLY OVERNIGHT!

Sex Will Never Be Boring Again!

2 Girls Teach Sex isn’t about sex tips that you use once or twice and get bored of them quickly, like so many other tips out there. These are techniques that produce an orgasm every single time, and no woman ever gets tired of climaxing!

Even if you end up sticking with your lover for months, years or for the rest of your lives, you will still be able to use the techniques you learned to keep your sex life stellar.

That’s right, it won’t matter how long you’ve been together! The sex will always be hot!

Don’t wait. Take control of your sex life now!

Get 2 Girls Teach Sex and give your woman an earth shattering, squirting orgasm TONIGHT!

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Filed Under: Orgasm Tagged With: female orgasm, have better sex, orgasm, sex tips

How To Make Your Girl’s Sex Drive Stronger Than Yours!

By shawnalenee

Sex tips are definitely something you want to have on hand to keep your sex life fresh. If you want MORE sex, here’s how to revv up your lady’s sex drive.

Do you ever feel as though you have a HIGHER sex drive than your girl? Maybe you’re always the one who has to initiate sex, or maybe she’s just not in the mood as often as you are.

If you’re finding these things happening with your woman, you’re not alone.

But, I’m going to venture that the REASON WHY she doesn’t seem to want to make love as often as you do is NOT because she has a lower sex drive!

Why She Doesn’t “Want” Sex

What is really happening is you’re just not satisfying her enough during sex to make her CRAVE it!

You see, in order for a woman to experience REAL sexual pleasure, she MUST be having orgasms. Her moaning, saying its good, or just letting you have sex with her IS NOT ENOUGH. Think about how sex would feel for YOU if you always got “close” but were never able to fully get off. That would pretty much suck, right? Well that’s exactly what your girl is going through if you’re not giving her the mind-blowing orgasms she craves!

If you’re not giving your girl orgasms when you make love, it may SEEM like she is having fun. But in reality, she’s probably just being nice, and sleeping with you because she feels she has to. And if this is the case, then she’s not going to want to have sex with you very often.

Worst case scenario, if she’s been with a guy in the past who was capable of giving her orgasms – and you are not – she’s probably not going to stick around very long unless you are married or financially supporting her.

It’s sad, but true.

But fortunately since most guys DON’T know how to give a woman orgasms, you probably don’t have anything to worry about. (But in a way, isn’t that even MORE sad?!?)

Getting Her Off

On the upside, giving a woman orgasms is not difficult, it’s just DIFFERENT! A woman’s body works very differently than a man’s, and once you know the subtle differences, it’s actually very EASY to give your woman not just one orgasm, but 2, 3, 4 or more – even different kinds like blended orgasms!

When you ARE able to give your woman orgasms, sex with you is not frustrating… it’s FUN! So of course, she’ll want to have sex with you all the time! Often times, she’ll even be the one asking you for sex!

How To TELL If You Are Getting Her Off

The lesson to take away here is that your girl’s “sex drive” and how often she wants to have sex with you have nothing to do with body chemistry and everything to do with whether or not you are sexually satisfying her.

With this in mind, here’s how to tell if you are:

  • If your girl wants sex at least 3-4 times a week, then you are satisfying her.
  • If she DOESN’T want sex at least 3-4 times a week, then I am sorry, but you are not.

It’s really that simple.

How To Make Absolutely SURE You Satisfy Your Woman Every Time

Start by giving her a foreplay orgasm each and every time. Giving a girl an orgasm through intercourse is a MUCH more intense experience for a girl, and giving her one of these body-shaking orgasms usually requires you know some techniques.

On the other hand, giving a woman a foreplay orgasm is easy.

So easy, that there is NO EXCUSE for not being able to give your girl a foreplay orgasm! But first, REMEMBER:

While you’re going to give her this orgasm during foreplay, it’s important that you continue to think of foreplay as PART of the sex, because to your girl, it is! Women love foreplay and you can keep it going until she is DESPERATE for you to be inside of her. Women LOVE this!

Here are a few ways to keep foreplay going:

  • Kiss her for 10-15 minutes before taking off clothes (hers or yours)
  • Rub her over her “area” for 5 FULL minutes and refuse to take her panties or clothes off no matter how much she or you wants it – tell her how much she wants you AND how much you want her
  • If you start the technique I’m about to share with you AFTER you do all this stuff then you are almost GUARANTEED to give her a foreplay orgasm!

Giving A Clitoral Orgasm

The easiest way to give her a foreplay orgasm is by stimulating her clitoris. Here’s one way to do it that I know your girl will like:

  1. When massaging it, use one finger in circular strokes directly on it, but to the upper right. Think of it like the 1:30 position on a clock. For reasons I can’t explain, this particular area of a woman’s clitoris is packed with even MORE nerve endings than the rest!
  2. Make sure she is wet, or add lube (you can also lick your finger).
  3. It’s important that you keep a steady pressure the whole time, but not too hard! We girls are much more sensitive than you are, so start off light, and don’t go harder until she starts pressing herself against you.
  4. Once she starts lifting her hips towards you, go just a little bit faster – and tell her softly and gently, “Come for me baby and totally relax.” This reassures her that it’s “okay” to let herself go, and often you reassuring her is exactly what she needs to go from feeling really good to going OVER THE TOP and having an incredible orgasm!

Discover How To Give Her More Advanced Orgasms

Giving a woman a foreplay orgasm is always a good time, but if you REALLY want to take her pleasure to a level that no man ever has before, you’re gonna have to give her the more ADVANCED types of orgasms that make her whole body pulsate with pleasure! The type of orgasms that leave her lying there wondering what just happened – and instantly have her calling you the BEST she’s ever had!

Filed Under: Sex Tips & Advice Tagged With: female orgasm, foreplay, have better sex, libido, orgasm, sex tips

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