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Discover The Stunning Secret Of Turning Your Wife On With The Push Of A Button!

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Has your wife (or girlfriend) just STOPPED having sex with you?

Does she seem to always have a headache, always too tired, or does she give you some other excuse as to why she doesn’t want to have sex?

Have you stopped asking for it because you “KNOW” she’s going to say “NO”?

The free video presentation on this page will show you the REAL reason you’re not having better sex with your spouse right now. It’s not because she’s “not into sex anymore!” In fact, when you watch this short video you’ll be shocked to discover that your partner’s sex drive is secretly much HIGHER than you think it is – and much higher than SHE thinks it is too!

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Text Your Wife Into Bed

Warning: Make sure to watch the entire video to find out why flowers, jewelry and expensive nights out on the town could actually be KILLING your sex life and why you already have the “Magic Key” to your wife’s sexual mind – and how to use it to give her the EXACT kind of “fuel” she needs to make your love life take off like the SPACE SHUTTLE (no matter how long you’ve been married, how many kids you have or how little time you think you have for sex.) You’ll also learn what really turns women on, and why women don’t like porn and EXACTLY what to say to her to access her “secret sexual mind” on demand and literally at the push of a button.

Is She A Lost Cause?

Absolutely not. You may think your partner doesn’t want to have sex anymore and there’s nothing you can do to change that, but NOTHING could be further from the truth! She actually has a HIGHER sex drive than you – all YOU have to do is activate it!

Even if she hasn’t wanted sex for a long, long time, you can re-awaken her sexual desire and turn her into an absolute FREAK in the bedroom!

Honestly, this is a weird, but freakishly effective way to turn your woman into a freak in the bedroom!

But just what is it?

The truth is, you already have the 1 tool that you need – your cell phone!

Believe it or not, you can use something as simple as your cell phone to reignite her desire, with just the touch of a button! In fact, all those flowers you’ve been buying and all those dinner dates you’ve been taking her out on are actually a BIG MISTAKE on your part! In fact, those aren’t going to do a thing to make her want to have sex with you!

Text Your Wife Into Bed is the ONLY resource available that teaches you to access your partner’s “secret sexual mind” and turn her on at will  – something not 1 married guy in 100 has figured out on their own!

What You’ll Learn

  • The 4-step sexting formula HUNDREDS of guys have already used to turn their wives on and skyrocket their sex lives
  • Exactly what to do if you don’t already text
  • How to “warm up” your woman so she’s eager, ready and desperate for every sexting message you send
  • The “3 Magic Texts” you can try out TONIGHT!

Believe it or not, it doesn’t matter how much you or your partner wife work, how many kids you have or how little time you have, how tired she is or how she feels about her body. Even if you and your spouse have been together so long you feel like having boring sex is “just part of being married.” Well, it’s not!

Watch this FREE video to find out how you can have INCREDIBLE sex, even if you’ve been married for decades!

She will actually CRAVE having sex with you when you use the tips in Text Your Wife Into Bed! By actually using these tips, you’ll notice:

  • She starts flirting with you more, like when you first met
  • She’ll start feeling sexier and having more confidence (because what you’re doing is going to make her feel like the sexiest woman alive!)
  • She’ll be very engaged when you have sex
  • She’ll brag about the HOT sex to all her friends
  • She’ll reach orgasm faster and harder than ever before
  • She’ll actually BEG for sex from you and do ANYTHING to please you!

Hotter, Wetter Sex Than EVER Before!

With Text Your Wife Into Bed, you’ll learn how a woman’s brain is SO involved in sex that you can get her dripping wet just by sending her the right texts!

You won’t find these secrets anywhere else – and they have helped hundreds of married men just like you, who have lost the fire in their sex lives.

See what these guys are saying about it!

“Scared the bejeezus out of me at first, but I followed what you said and was amazed at the results. I never thought my wife would be the one to initiate sex. Now she can’t get enough.” – Mark L.

“I sent 3 texts and my wife was so hot for me when I got home. We had the best sex in years.” – Tim Thomas

“My wife and I were right in the middle of a dry patch…her reaction was overwhelming. Now her friends keep asking me to teach their husbands how to do this!” – Jim

Remember, believing the myth that “she’s just not that into it anymore” and that it’s a natural thing for two people who have been married a long time to have boring sex, will RUIN your sex life forever.

Re-ignite it and bring the passion back JUST by using your cell phone!

It’s so easy, you can’t afford NOT to do it!

Click Here to watch the FREE Presentation that reveals a “weird” (but staggeringly effective) method for waking up your wife’s (or girlfriend’s) sex drive and turning her on at will…

6 Beginner’s Oral Sex Techniques

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Oral sex is so much fun to learn! Check out these easy to do oral sex tips for men that haven’t had a lot of experience in the art of cunnilingus.

Start with the most basic of tongue manipulations, and keep any extra combinations to a minimum so as to examine her sexual response and learn more about what she likes, and how to do it repeatedly.

1. The First Touch

This should take no more than a minute.

Tongue: One flat-tongued, soft lick from the bottom of her vagina to the top above her clitoris.

Hands: Both underneath her body, softly yet firmly holding onto her bum. Her legs should be parted only enough to allow you access.

Finger: Nothing at this time.

2. Build A Rhythm

This should take between two and five minutes.

Tongue: Start with about five soft-tongued licks that only cover half of her vulva, and then follow with three to five long tongue laps. Gear your attention primarily to her labia and frenulum; only the long tongue laps should reach her clitoris.

Hands: Take one hand away from her bottom to place a finger inside of her. With the other hand, grasp both of her butt cheeks firmly but not painfully you want to give her the tension she needs for what’s coming up, but you don’t want her to be self-conscious about what you’re doing, either.

Fingers: Take your index finger and put it only partially inside the entrance to her vagina.

3. Build Tension

This can take anywhere from five to ten minutes.

Tongue: Establish a rhythm where you lick her from bottom to top without actually touching the clitoris – five times – then lick her clitoris once horizontally.

Hands: Keep supporting her buttocks.

Fingers: Leave your finger where it was before and use it to feel where she’s at along her arousal process. Is she clenching? Is she lubricated? Allow your other fingers to gently touch other nearby areas, such as her perineum or anal area.

4. Intensify Your Moves

This can take anywhere from five to ten minutes.

Tongue: Continue with the vertical and horizontal tongue stroke rhythm. Occasionally do a “tongue press,” where you take your tongue, hold it flat and firm, and push it up against her clitoris for five seconds.

Hands: Continue holding her buttocks, and see if you can gently play a bit with her perineum using your thumb.

Fingers: Put another finger inside her vagina. Push both fingers up toward her g-spot, and feel around for it.

5. Moving Into The Pre-Orgasm Phase

This usually lasts between three to five minutes.

Tongue: Use the tongue press on her clitoris. Make sure the pressure is firm, and slow things down even more than before. Let her push back against you to show you what she likes and works for her.

Hands: Make sure that the hand beneath her has the right angle and that you have her firmly in your grasp. The arm leading to the fingers inside of her should feel her inner thigh muscles pushing against them, as if she wants to close her legs.

Fingers: Keep your fingers partially inside of her with your palm facing up, and use your thumb to push against her frenulum. The pressure needs to stay constant inside of her along the g-spot, but right now your focus should be on the frenulum thumb touch.

6. Give Her The Big Orgasm!

This usually lasts around one minute or less.

Tongue: Stay in contact with her clitoris using the firm tongue press. She’ll push against you and try to close your legs, but hold on and keep doing what you’re doing. When the contractions are finished (you’ll feel them with the fingers inside of her) lick her clitoris only once, and very, very gently. She should pull back when you do, which means she’s had an orgasm and now needs a bit of time to recoup.

Hands: Her pelvic muscles should clench your fingers. Feel them so you know where she’s at, and keep the pressure on her frenulum the entire time.

Fingers: Use the hand underneath her to keep yourself in close contact with her; as she orgasms it may prove difficult, so firm pressure is needed.

Keep a close eye as to where she’s at along the orgasmic process, and cater your movements accordingly. Start lightly and offer more firm support with your tongue as you go along. If need be, get a vibrator to help with the g-spot so you can concentrate on the licking.

How to Make Sex Last Longer and Give Women EXPLOSIVE Orgasms! (This is Embarrassingly Easy…)

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Premature ejaculation is no joke – it affects hundreds of thousands of guys of all different ages and races. It can wreak havoc on your sex life, because reaching orgasm too quickly isn’t satisfying for you or your partner. Most female partners of men who suffer from PE rarely have an orgasm during intercourse at all. They usually either have to have an orgasm first through oral sex or take matters into their own hands afterwards.

PE will destroy your sex life, destroy your ego and may even destroy your relationship. Women don’t want to be with a man who can’t last long enough in bed to give them an orgasm. They’re not going to stay in a relationship where they’re not sexually satisfied. So if you really want to have a healthy, happy relationship, you’re going to have to beat premature ejaculation once and for all.

Check out this FREE REPORT: How to end the embarrassment of premature ejaculation AND last longer in bed…

Premature Ejaculation IS NOT Your Fault!

If you’re like other guys, you may think that your PE is your own fault. You may feel like there’s something you’re doing wrong during sex, or there’s something wrong with you that is causing this.

That couldn’t be further from the truth! That is a huge myth that a lot of men who suffer from PE believe. But the truth is, it’s not your fault at all. Once you realize this, you can begin to cure your PE forever! Supplements, pills, creams and sprays are only going to temporarily fix your problem – and who wants to put a numbing spray on their penis so they can’t feel anything during sex anyways? The key is to find the ROOT of the problem so you can solve it for good.

What Pharmaceutical Companies Are TERRIFIED You’ll Find Out!

The makers of pills and creams that claim to help you last longer in bed are absolutely terrified that you’ll find out the information contained in Ejaculation By Command. They don’t want you to know how YOU can control your own orgasm NATURALLY, without anything at all! They want to keep selling you supplements and sprays so they keep making money.

The truth is, you don’t need ANY of these products!

So What Is The Absolute Best Way To Last Longer In Bed?

Let me ask you a few simple questions…

  • Have you ever looked forward to a night of great sex, but as soon as the lovemaking began, you climaxed within seconds again?
  • Do you like having sex… but your inability to last is filling you full of anxiety… to the point where you’re actually beginning to dread sex?
  • Do you wish you could last longer and give her the pleasure you know she deserves?
  • Do you ever worry that your woman will cheat on you or leave you for another man who can satisfy her needs in bed… something you just can’t do right now?
  • Have you tried sprays and creams that promise to desensitize your penis… and delay your ejaculation… but you feel uncomfortable using it and telling her to wait 10 minutes so that it could start working?
  • Do you feel inadequate when you come too soon, and even though your woman says it’s okay, you still feel that she’s disappointed in you?
  • Do you get so embarrassed and so self-conscious about your performance that you find any excuse you can to avoid sex?
  • Are you desperate to find a way to end your premature ejaculation, but nothing seems to work. Do you feel you’re wasting the best sexual years of your life simply because you’re too afraid or too embarrassed to ask for help?

If you answered “YES!” to any or all of these, then I really want to stress to you…

You are NOT alone.

How would your life be different right now if you were able to last 20 or 30 minutes in bed? How about an hour?

Would you feel more confident? Would you feel more proud?

You wouldn’t feel so self-conscious or nervous because you’re afraid of climaxing too quickly.

Bottom line is as a man, you want to be able to please your woman. If you don’t feel confident in your abilities, it’s going to come through when you’re close to them.

So if you’re ready to finally say goodbye to the challenges, frustration, and anxiety that’s holding you back from living your life to the fullest, that can ALL change right now…

Here’s How To Enjoy The Kind Of Sex That You Once Only Dreamed About

Our good friend Lloyd Lester has created an amazing program called “Ejaculation By Command“.

Ejaculation By Command is a revolutionary product that will teach you, step by step, how to cure premature ejaculation forever and last longer in bed – so you and your partner can have a better, more satisfying sex life. Not only will you be able to control your orgasm long enough to give your girl a sheet soaking climax, you’ll enjoy your own orgasm that much more!

This is a PROVEN, successful way to cure PE naturally!

Even if you think beating PE is impossible, even if you have suffered from it for years, you can say goodbye to it FOREVER using the easy, successful tools in this book.

What You’ll Learn…

  • How to last at LEAST 20 minutes longer…TONIGHT! Guaranteed.
  • The #1 LIE that leads men to believe it’s their body that is the problem
  • A simple, 3-step formula that you can use every time you have sex, for the rest of your life!
  • How to end the shame, frustration, humiliation and insecurity that is caused by premature ejaculation
  • How to overcome mental barriers to sexual endurance in 9 simple steps
  • 4 powerful breathing strategies that will amplify your staying power and prolong your orgasm for as long as you want
  • How to outlast HER during sex
  • The single most powerful strategy that will drive any woman completely wild in bed and lets you into her orgasmic world of pleasure, even if you ejaculate too soon!

What People Are Saying About Ejaculation By Command…

“[This] has led to the best sex we’ve ever had (including the four extra times during the rest of that evening!)” – Blair C.

“What I like most about the program is that [it] clearly shows you the most effective methods for lasting longer in bed. I’m no longer embarrassed; I have more confidence during sex, and have more fun as well! I would recommend this product because it does EXACTLY what it says in the title!” – W. Leighton

“I like the fact that I can have long and great sex now with my wife. And we both look forward to free weekends to have sex with lots of variety. This book has changed my life. My sex life has improved tremendously and I’ve also become much more confident around women.” – Martin M.

If you’re ready to turn your sex life around and start having mind-blowing sex in a way you or your partner ever thought was possible, then get your copy of Ejaculation By Command now!

With these simple tricks, you can start by lasting 20 minutes longer TONIGHT! No going to the store and buying supplements or creams, no waiting for anything to come in the mail. Just download the program, start reading right now and give your partner the time of her life RIGHT AWAY!

Why should you have to wait for an incredible sex life, anyways?

Act Now and say goodbye to premature ejaculation for good!

Still not sure? Read our Review of Ejaculation By Command.

8 Ultimate PE Busters

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Premature ejaculation will make your sex life less than stellar. Get rid of PE forever with these eight easy but successful premature ejaculation busters!

1. Ladies First

Before busying with your thing, get busy with her. Before penetration, give her orgasms via oral or manual labor. So even though it’ll be a short and bumpy ride, at least she’s had her moments in the sun.

2. Go To Your “Happy Place”

Take deep, full breaths. Proper breathing is central to your sex life, as every physical activity needs to be attended by sufficient air. Taking deep breaths relaxes you and allows your body to handle excitement.

Ejaculation issues usually fester the highly excitable men who are extra-sensitive to stimulation. The best handling of this is by having generous amounts of oxygen in the body, especially the head.

3. Slow Down

You’re unlikely to reach orgasm if speed is significantly slower than what you’re used to. So stop thrusting like crazy and go for deeper, slower thrusts — look for sexual positions that minimize pelvic & hip movement. These regulate the frequency of penetration.

By slowing down and taking your time, you not only delay ejaculation, you build tension – thereby making your climax many times sweeter. It’s the sexual investment for a richer and creamier blow. We tease ourselves for this very reason. It’s not only for the woman’s sake, it’s so when we finally decide to let loose, it will be four times better!

4. Stop Thrusting And Do Something Else

If slowing down is good, stopping completely is even better. (Don’t worry, your partner won’t lose her arousal.) Once you begin thrusting, there’s no rule that says you have to pump all the way to ejaculation. No shame in backing off and teasing yourselves in the process.

Get busy with kissing and other stuff instead. This stalls or even reverses your progress towards inevitability, creating more ANTICIPATION. Woman on top is a good position which will please her greatly while reducing the friction for you.

5. Spread Your Legs

This minimizes the tension and pressure in your genitals and groin area – which automatically buys you time.

6. Use A Condom

For safer sex, always use a condom. But beyond that, the protective sheath results in decreased sensitivity for your jimmy – saving it from getting overly excited.

7. The Squeeze Technique

When you’re nearing inevitability, pull out and squeeze the head of your penis. This forces blood out the genitals, relieving some of the built up pressure – inadvertently, it also forces you to stop penetrating. Repeat this technique several times before finally spraying.

8. Do Not Memorize Batting Averages!

Others say that a slideshow of anything gross can make that cum retreat back up. Distracting yourself with the picture of the cafeteria lady dancing to the tune of Macarena will definitely help. But how fun would that really be? You’re there with this amazing woman, and you’re busying with that?!

Forget the cafeteria lady, don’t memorize batting averages! We have sex for the joy it brings, not for a degree in sports broadcasting! Running rotten pictures in your head as a way to delay ejaculation is superficial. You can’t call it teasing, you’re merely castigating yourself.

Sex, as a moment by moment experience, is supposed to be experienced fully. In fact, the opposite of numbing yourself, AWARENESS, is key. Be aware, and therefore, regulate the stimulation you give yourself.

Close your eyes, feel how wonderful it is to be inside a woman’s vagina. Keep your breaths full. And remember to back off, slow down or do something else when you approach dangerous grounds.

When you absolutely cannot hold off any longer – LET IT LOOSE – you can’t delay it forever! There’s a difference between teasing and torture too, you know. Last as long as you can, blow your load of semen and don’t worry about it. If she’s already had an orgasm or two before you, she’s probably tired and going to be glad you’re done.

How To Make Teen Sex Safer

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Teen sex isn’t at all uncommon. If you’re a teenager and considering sex, here’s how to make it safer. Teen sex is no fun if it ends in unwanted pregnancy!

As a teen you’re probably wondering about sex and what you can do to stay safe. Curiosity about sex is normal and it’s something that every teen goes through. It must be said that the only form of safe sex is abstinence. Even though this is the only foolproof way to stay safe, there are countermeasures that you can take to keep you and your partner free of STD’s or unwanted pregnancy. Here are a few ways that you can stay safe with your partner.

Use Condoms

Condoms are a necessity with teen sex. Not only condoms prevent pregnancy, it can prevent the transmission of STDs found in the seminal and vaginal fluids. Teens are notorious for misusing condoms or simply “pulling out.” When a condom is used properly, the chance of preventing pregnancy is about 97%. When used with lubrication, the condom is more unlikely to break. Don’t use household items like latex gloves, plastic wrap or balloons. Condoms are specifically made for the shape a penis and designed to stay on. Never use a condom twice.

Have Enough Lubrication

Lubrication is essential to giving the condom as little resistance as possible. If you’re considering having sex, make sure that you have a bottle of lube with you. Lube is relatively inexpensive and will cost about the same as a box of condoms. Don’t be fooled into thinking that lubricated condoms will be enough. Yes, the condoms come lubricated, but they can also get dried out of they have been in a drawer or in a car for as little as a week.

Where Can I Buy Condoms And Lube?

Teens primarily don’t want to go into a store to buy condoms and lube for fear of seeing somebody that they know. If you’re afraid of buying condoms and lube from a store, you can go to a Planned Parenthood or another health clinic and get them for free. These organizations are around to inform teens about sex and prevent unwanted pregnancy. Teen sex is on the rise and every teen has a responsibility to be informed of staying safe.

Consider Getting On The Pill

The pill is a good way to protect against pregnancy, but it does nothing for sexually transmitted diseases. If you are on the pill then you have taken the first step against getting pregnant. Now it’s important to know that you can still contract STI’s and STD’s. Make sure that your partner is wearing a condom every time that the two of you have sex. If you are considering the pill, there are a few things that you should know. The pill can affect different people different ways. It’s important to talk to your physician before you go on the pill Ask them how the pill they are putting you has affected other teens. Try to get on a pill that will keep your skin clear. Several of them will do this.

Are You Ready?

We’ve all read about teen sex, but ask yourself if you’re really ready to do it. If don’t know, ask yourself why you want to. Are you doing it to please a boyfriend? Do you really care about your boyfriend and you’re ready to take it further? Remember that as a teenager you will have hormones racing through your body and lust can easily misconstrued for love. Do not give into pressure from a boyfriend to have sex. This can ruin your first time and the first time should be special.

Make Sure It’s Legal

Teen sex is not something that usually ends up as front-page news, but there are laws against having sex with a minor. If you are under the age of consent in your state and your boyfriend is over the age of consent, you need to look up the legal ramifications for having sex. Your boyfriend could go to jail if you get caught. Remember this before you commit to anything.

It’s Okay To Say No

Saying no doesn’t mean that you’re a tease, it just means that you’re not ready. If you’re being pressured by your boyfriend to have sex and you don’t want to, you should tell him no. A lot of girls get pressured into sex with the fear that if they don’t do it, their boyfriends will leave them. If your boyfriend really cares about you then he will want you to be ready when it happens. If he doesn’t care about then he might break up with you.

Abstinence Is An Excellent Option

Abstinence is a choice that many girls make. This is very respectable and can improve the lives of women who choose to keep their virginity until marriage. Choosing abstinence is way of ensuring that you will complete school with a having a child and get into the work force quickly. This can also be a way to see if your boyfriend really loves you and if he’s willing to wait before the two of you have sex.