Sex Tips & Advice

Best Sex Places Of 2011

Sex tips give you the “how,” but rarely the “where.” You can learn all sorts of ways to please yourself and your partner when learning about sex, but many sex tips resources leave out one of the most fun things off all – having sex in all kinds of different areas! THESE sex tips will teach you lots of new areas to get it on in & your sex life will be hotter than ever!

This year, we’re going to look at some specific areas that you might have overlooked – and how you can make it even hotter.

On The Kitchen Counter/Breakfast Bar/Table/Floor. You get the idea here. The kitchen is one of the best areas in the house to get it on. The kitchen isn’t the only cool place in your home – check out more of the best places to have sex around the house!
In The Stairwell Of An Apartment Building. These are usually pretty deserted, and are a great place to hike your skirt up and have a quickie. Don’t miss more great places to have a quickie!
While Hiking In The Woods. You may think this one is cliche, but don’t knock it until you try it. If the woods aren’t your thing, there are plenty of other places to have sex and feel one with nature.
Road Head. Enough said. Of course, you don’t have to do it while driving. Check out more ways to have sex in the car.
In The Dressing Room At A Lingerie Store. Model some sexy lingerie for your lover and then get it on before you ever leave the dressing room. Don’t miss more ways to have sex while shopping to make your money spending excursions more fun!
Under The Table At A Restaurant. This works best if the tables have long tablecloths. Your partner can slip underneath and give you oral sex – just tell the waiter your date had to use the restroom. Get your exhibitionist on with these hot places to have sex in public.
On The Ledge Of A Billboard. Follow the sex tips of others who have gone before you and pick a darker one and wear dark clothes (or go at night) to avoid being seen. Don’t miss out on these truly unique places to get it on.

Your Man’s Top 3 Secret Erogenous Zones REVEALED!

By rochellestavi

Foreplay is just as important for a guy as it is a girl. Here are your guy’s three most hidden – yet powerful – hot spots! Don’t miss THESE during foreplay!

The Usual Erogenous Zones

We are all familiar with the usual erogenous zones that men have: lips, nipples, and penis. When you give your man a juicy kiss, you start to get his heart racing and his blood pumping. When you lick his nipples and suck on them, you start to get him hard and he begins wanting you more and more. When you stroke and rub his penis, that’s how you get him to climax and how you put a cherry on top of the evening. Even though these 3 spots on his body feel good when you touch them, they aren’t the only spots on his body that he wants stimulated.

Men are more in depth than we give them credit for and there are three top secret erogenous zones on his body that you probably have never explored before. You are missing out on giving your man some amazing foreplay, anticipation, and pleasure. If you don’t want to miss out on this for another moment, it’s time you learned just where to touch him and when to touch him.

His Back

Probably the biggest hot spot on his body that gets left untouched, a man’s back is jam packed with so many nerve endings that it is just begging to be touched. The beauty of this hot spot is that it is so versatile. You can both be rough with him and scratch his back or you can get a little gentler and give him soft kisses. His back can be stimulated via a massage and used as a tool in foreplay to get him aroused or you can dig your claws into his back when he is on top of you during sex.

No matter what form of stimulation you choose to use on him, just make sure that you are doing something to his back and touching it all over. Don’t just focus on his shoulders too. Make sure that you rub him all over and that you especially hit the most sensitive spot, that being the small of his back. You know how good it feels when your man’s lips trace along the small of your back so why not give him the same satisfaction as well? Of course it may feel a little less intense for him but it will be a touch and a feeling that lingers for a while to come.

His Thighs

This is one hot spot on his body that you do not want to miss but chances are you are always overlooking it. When we think about pleasing a man, we think about giving him rough stimulation and manhandling him. Naturally, men are built tough so when we do give them stimulation, it is usually a little rougher than usual. However, this mindset shouldn’t always be the case. There are spots on his body that he wants to be touched just like how you want to be touched there. His thighs are one of those spots that regularly gets ignored and that is because thighs have a feminine association. When we think of thighs being stimulated, we think of how men lick and bite a woman’s thighs before he goes down on her. Thighs are often thought of being only pleasurable when stimulated for women but you’d be surprised.

The next time you and your man are getting down and dirty, trace your nails down his thighs or better yet, dig your claws right into them. Since his thighs are very sensitive, you have to be a little rough with them or else you are going to make him laugh rather than get him hard. This may be a ticklish spot on his body but with your hands so close to his penis but yet so far away, he is going to love the anticipation that comes with you rubbing his thighs and teasing him.

His Buttocks

Now, let’s not get ahead of ourselves here. There is a big difference between his buttocks and his anus. We are not talking about rimming or fingering him or anything invasive. That is a whole different realm of stimulation and one that takes some serious conversation. Rather, when talking about his buttocks as being an erogenous zone, we are only focusing on the cheeks. Spanking a man, scratching his cheeks or even rubbing them are all forms of stimulation that really get him hot.

Most men don’t like it when women get too close to their behinds but if you do it in the right way, it is a massive erogenous zone that he probably never even knew he had. The best way to touch his buttocks to get him hot and heavy is to spank him during sex. While he is on top of you, this is a prime opportunity for you to really give it to him. You can even place your hands on his buttocks and drive him into you even more. This will really turn his crank. You can scratch at his buttocks and spank him to really up the ante.

There are plenty of other erogenous zones on your man’s body that are craving some stimulation so open your mind and your eyes and really get down to exploring all of the possibilities you never even knew existed.

Premature Ejaculation Treatment – The 100% Natural Approach

By jackgrave

Premature ejaculation is treated a variety of ways. However, not all of them are good for your body. Check out this all natural premature ejaculation cure.

It’s a very common misconception to believe that as a man there’s nothing you can do to stop premature ejaculation without the use of medication, creams, special condoms or things like cock-rings.

Misconceptions About PE

And this all comes down to the fact that premature ejaculation is totally misunderstood. You see, it doesn’t happen because of a bad set of genes, your penis size or what your woman does during sex.

Premature ejaculation is caused by BAD SEXUAL HABITS.

90% of men actually cause it to happen because of things they do during sex UNCONSCIOUSLY and without even realizing it. For example, while having sex do you ever take the time to manage your pleasure or stimulation levels?

The truth is that VERY few men do. Most men have sex without a CLUE as to what their arousal levels are. And when it suddenly becomes obvious that orgasm is about to happen, it’s too late and there’s nothing they can do about it.

But if on the other hand you get into the HABIT of paying attention to your pleasure levels and get to know the signs of when you’re approaching orgasm it’s a whole different ball game. If you know way in advance that you’re getting close to orgasm you can take corrective action before it’s too late.

And a corrective action can be as simple as just slowing down sex and thrusting slower.

The 2 Simple Moves That Will Stop PE Naturally!

Thrusting Slower

By thrusting slower you’d give your body a chance to recover from the intense levels of stimulation you were probably just experiencing during sex. And this recovery would mean that in no time you’d be able to go back to thrusting fast without the fear or early orgasm.

Know Your Arousal Levels

Alternatively, if you know your arousal levels well enough to tell that you need more recovery than just going slow can give you, then instead you could pull out and give her oral sex for a bit. Doing this would give you a big break in stimulation and pleasure and allow you to recover plenty of stamina.

Now these two examples of corrective actions you could take when close to orgasm may seem like obvious things to do, but only when you start paying attention to your arousal levels.

If you don’t pay attention to your arousal levels and instead just keep having sex like you normally do, you’d never even think of doing something like taking corrective action to last longer. How this all relates to premature ejaculation treatment is that it proves that there are 100% natural approaches to lasting longer in bed that are worth considering.

How All Natural Treatments Really Work

They all work from understanding the TRUTH about premature ejaculation and how the male orgasm works.

And by tapping into the nature of the male orgasm and figuring out what really causes it it is possible to prevent it from happening prematurely. So premature ejaculation treatment isn’t so much a case of “which pharmaceutical product do I need?” but more a case of “what techniques can I use to last longer?”

Best Blowjob Tips Of 2011

By loveandsex

Blowjob giving skills are definitely something you want to have if you want to give your lover out of this world orgasms. Often, men prefer getting head to having sex, so if you’re not giving your partner head, he’s definitely missing out. A guy will almost always choose a girl that gives great head over a girl who doesn’t want to do it or can’t do it well. So really knowing how to go down on a guy and make him squeal with pleasure is to your benefit – and his! Here are our favorite oral sex tips of the year for guys.

Don’t forget to check out our favorite all-time fellatio articles!

Also, take a look at our favorite resources on how to give your lover the most amazing head he’s ever had!

Remember, the best fellatio tips are confidence and a passion for giving your partner oral pleasure. If all you have is confidence in your ability to please your man and you really enjoy doing it, you’re going to be far better off than if you knew every single tip and trick that existed. Relax, have fun and enjoy making your lover’s fantasies come true!

Oral Sex: Safety Considerations When Going Down On A Woman

By loveandsex

Oral sex is mostly safer than intercourse when it comes to STD’s, but the risk is still there. Find out how you can make oral sex as safe as possible.

Will She Really Enjoy It If You Use Precautions?

What are the proper precautions when practicing safer cunnilingus and other sexual foreplay involving the vulva? Well, they’re no fun. Safer sexual contact during these activities involves lots of latex and frankly, most women will be completely turned off by the mere suggestion of a dental dam.

Why use one then? If the woman is not going enjoy cunnilingus, why bother?

Well, for starters, if she’s that uptight about it, then don’t bother. Just think of it this way – men wear condoms. Men hate condoms. Why do they wear them? That’s easy – to keep from having children and contracting STD’s. Most men will sacrifice the extra pleasure of intercourse without a condom considering the alternatives. Certainly, a woman should be willing to sacrifice some pleasure for the sake of keeping both parties safe and STD-free. If there are valid risks associated with performing oral sex for a particular partner and she will not oblige to practicing safer sex, again we say: don’t bother.

Tools For Safer Oral Sex

But for those who are interested in practicing safer cunnilingus and other foreplay, there are a slew of tools that can be used at your discretion – you may even have some in your kitchen drawer right now. You may have heard of dental dams – you know, those little latex squares they use at the dentist’s office to isolate a tooth. Those are great for using during oral sex, but adult toy companies have started making what they call “lollyes” or “dental dams” – the same concept, but labeled specifically for oral sex.

If you’re in the heat of the moment and haven’t got anything else on hand, plastic wrap will work just fine (see, we told you it might be in your kitchen drawer). If you haven’t put two and two together yet, the dental dam/lollye/plastic wrap goes in between your partner’s vulva and your tongue. Lubrication is very, very important if you’re using any of these items during cunnilingus. Just imagine a very dry latex condom. Uncomfortable, right?

Plus, having lube on the vulva-side of the latex or plastic will mimic the feeling of a wet tongue more closely. Remember though, oil-based lubricant can cause latex to break down – always use water-based lubricant.

Gloves, Etc.

If you plan on engaging in foreplay of the vulva using your hands, you may want to consider using a latex glove if you’re concerned about the risk of transmitting STD’s. Truthfully, infections such as gonorrhea, Chlamydia and the like generally aren’t going to be transmitted through hand-to-vulva contact. If, however, there are open sores or cuts on the hands, fingers or vulva, you do run the risk of possibly transmitting or contracting an STD.

Unlike with cunnilingus, using a latex glove does not hinder the pleasurable feelings in the least – in fact, when properly lubricated; a gloved finger may feel more heavenly than one with calluses and hangnails. Just keep in mind that a dry latex glove doesn’t feel good – remember to use plenty of water-based lube. Although some of these ideas may seem like no fun, it really is better to be safe than sorry.

A caring partner will happily oblige if you request protection for both her and yourself if you are concerned about sexually transmitted diseases. And if she doesn’t happily oblige? You may want to reconsider sexual relations with this person entirely.