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Sexting: Why “Dirty Texts” Turn Women On Like Crazy

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Sexting your partner is one of the most powerful ways you can get her hot and ready for sex. Sexting is an easy way to speak the language of a woman, and it’s convenient because you can do it anywhere and anytime. Sending your lover a racy text takes very little effort on your part, but the results are absolutely astounding! Check out how you can send your girl a “racy text” and have her all over you by the time you walk through the front door after work.

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Women Are Wired Differently Than Men

It’s pretty obvious that women are wired differently than men, especially when it comes to what turns them on. Men are visual creatures and respond sexually to visual stimuli, including porn videos and pictures of naked women. However, a woman usually can’t look at a picture of a naked man with muscled arms and six pack abs. While looking great is always going to be a check in the plus column for you, it’s not going to be something that immediately turns your woman on. What will get a girl hot though is language. To effectively get a woman thinking about sex and nothing but sex, you’ve got to engage her brain. This is why sexting is so effective for women – it gets their imagination going. It’s like if she wore sexy lingerie for you – when you sext her, you speak her language. In the old days, to get a girl interested in him, guys had to write love letters and poetry for women. Now, we have technology that helps streamline communication between one person and another.

Using Sensual Language

When sexting your partner, you can use sensual language to get your partner horny with just the push of a few buttons – no matter where you are or what you’re doing! This is exactly what makes sexting so powerful. You can have your girl clawing at your clothes as soon as you walk in the door, all from the sensual sexts you sent her on her lunch break. Depending on how racy you want to be, you can send her texts that are sweet, sensual and full of romance or you can send her texts that tell her what exactly – word for word – you’re going to do to her when you get home. You can start sweet and gradually increase the raciness of your texts to sweep her off her feet and then get her so hot she won’t know what to do with herself.

She’ll Never Leave Home Without It

Think about it – a woman will rarely ever leave the house without two things – her lipgloss and her cell phone. These days, just about every girl uses a cell phone! Her cell phone is precious to her, because she keeps her most personal and private information in there including her friends, her family, her contacts and her pictures. By sexting her, you’re connecting with your partner in one of the most private ways. It creates a type of “secret” sexual connection that only you and her share. It blows through all of your lover’s defenses, hitting her right at the center. The majority of ladies really enjoy the idea of getting to be secretly naughty in public, especially when they’re supposed to be “proper” and “professional.” Sexting is also a great way to break the ice when getting into dirty talk in the bedroom. If you’ve never tried it before, sexting is a great way to introduce yourself!

Stop Texting And Start Sexting

To effectively create this “secret” sensual channel between you and your lover, you need to stop texting her completely and send only racy texts when you want to. Don’t text “to do” lists or what time the dog has an appointment at the vet’s the next day. This will actually ruin the whole stigma you’re trying to create with sexting. When you do this and she feels her phone vibrate for a message, she’ll already be expecting something exciting and titillating. She’ll know before she opens her phone that it’s from you and it’s something secretly kinky! She’ll start looking forward to it and start wondering when it’s going to happen and what the texts are going to say. She’ll also get better at sending you sexy texts back, telling you what she wants to do to you! This is such a super hot way to think about each other during a boring, monotonous work day. Try sexting your partner tonight and watch as the sparks fly!

What Your Partner REALLY Wants During Phone Sex!

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Phone sex can be a great way to keep your relationship interesting if you have distance issues. Even if you live in the same city, this dirty deed can be a mood killer if not handled properly. Here is what real men and women are saying about it.

What She Said:

Imagination And Tone

Phone sex is all about imagination and your tone of voice. This is much different than sexting. There is nothing you cannot talk about! Since guys are super visual and you are miles away, a great idea is to describe to your guy what you are wearing. After he has a nice visual describe to him what you are doing to yourself. Keep your voice low and sultry.

To help get yourself in the mood, you should put on something sexy that feels good on your skin, light a few candles to set the mood and keep any toys and lubes near by. Another hot tip is to describe a sex romp you two had in the past! Describe what you two did and then tell him how hot you feel thinking about it.

You can also describe in details what you would do to him if you had him with you.  There are no rules or boundaries and when you trust your partner you can let your inhibitions run wild. And if you are unsure of what to say, a deep low moan escaping your lips is worth a thousand words!

What He Said:

Be Specific And Be Slow

Tell your partner what you would like to do to them, in great detail. Let the story build. I also think it’s great to be naked when you talk dirty to your partner. It’s best to have access to your naughty bits with your dirty talk and just the fact that you’re naked, helps set the mood. It will really help you fall into that world.

Realize that phone sex is fantasy based, so feel free to let your mind wander and imagine yourself having the best sex you and your partner have ever had in a dream location. Maybe it’s about you two having sex on the beach, maybe it’s about the two of you having sex in public.

Maybe it’s slow and sensual love making, may it’s about hard and nasty fucking. Maybe he wants to do you and your best girlfriend, maybe you want to fuck him in the ass with a strap on. Or maybe it’s about trying an orgy for the first time. From straight sex to swinger sex, let your imagination go wild!

Then let your fingers do the walking. If you’re on the subway, it’s maybe a bit different, but if your alone at home, and you and your partner both don’t orgasm, what’s the point? Get your lover hot and bothered, and make sure you cum loudly for them, and they of course need to return the favor. Tease, please and play all you like, but make sure you end it with a bang.

And above all, have fun. Dirty talk is a skill and it takes practice, but what’s the downside of that? Phone sex is fun and should be enjoyable. It’s not rocket science and it’s not hard labor (unless of course, those happen to be sexual fantasies of yours). So relax, un wind and get your rocks (and other things) off!

Discover The Stunning Secret Of Turning Your Wife On With The Push Of A Button!

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Has your wife (or girlfriend) just STOPPED having sex with you?

Does she seem to always have a headache, always too tired, or does she give you some other excuse as to why she doesn’t want to have sex?

Have you stopped asking for it because you “KNOW” she’s going to say “NO”?

The free video presentation on this page will show you the REAL reason you’re not having better sex with your spouse right now. It’s not because she’s “not into sex anymore!” In fact, when you watch this short video you’ll be shocked to discover that your partner’s sex drive is secretly much HIGHER than you think it is – and much higher than SHE thinks it is too!

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Text Your Wife Into Bed

Warning: Make sure to watch the entire video to find out why flowers, jewelry and expensive nights out on the town could actually be KILLING your sex life and why you already have the “Magic Key” to your wife’s sexual mind – and how to use it to give her the EXACT kind of “fuel” she needs to make your love life take off like the SPACE SHUTTLE (no matter how long you’ve been married, how many kids you have or how little time you think you have for sex.) You’ll also learn what really turns women on, and why women don’t like porn and EXACTLY what to say to her to access her “secret sexual mind” on demand and literally at the push of a button.

Is She A Lost Cause?

Absolutely not. You may think your partner doesn’t want to have sex anymore and there’s nothing you can do to change that, but NOTHING could be further from the truth! She actually has a HIGHER sex drive than you – all YOU have to do is activate it!

Even if she hasn’t wanted sex for a long, long time, you can re-awaken her sexual desire and turn her into an absolute FREAK in the bedroom!

Honestly, this is a weird, but freakishly effective way to turn your woman into a freak in the bedroom!

But just what is it?

The truth is, you already have the 1 tool that you need – your cell phone!

Believe it or not, you can use something as simple as your cell phone to reignite her desire, with just the touch of a button! In fact, all those flowers you’ve been buying and all those dinner dates you’ve been taking her out on are actually a BIG MISTAKE on your part! In fact, those aren’t going to do a thing to make her want to have sex with you!

Text Your Wife Into Bed is the ONLY resource available that teaches you to access your partner’s “secret sexual mind” and turn her on at will  – something not 1 married guy in 100 has figured out on their own!

What You’ll Learn

  • The 4-step sexting formula HUNDREDS of guys have already used to turn their wives on and skyrocket their sex lives
  • Exactly what to do if you don’t already text
  • How to “warm up” your woman so she’s eager, ready and desperate for every sexting message you send
  • The “3 Magic Texts” you can try out TONIGHT!

Believe it or not, it doesn’t matter how much you or your partner wife work, how many kids you have or how little time you have, how tired she is or how she feels about her body. Even if you and your spouse have been together so long you feel like having boring sex is “just part of being married.” Well, it’s not!

Watch this FREE video to find out how you can have INCREDIBLE sex, even if you’ve been married for decades!

She will actually CRAVE having sex with you when you use the tips in Text Your Wife Into Bed! By actually using these tips, you’ll notice:

  • She starts flirting with you more, like when you first met
  • She’ll start feeling sexier and having more confidence (because what you’re doing is going to make her feel like the sexiest woman alive!)
  • She’ll be very engaged when you have sex
  • She’ll brag about the HOT sex to all her friends
  • She’ll reach orgasm faster and harder than ever before
  • She’ll actually BEG for sex from you and do ANYTHING to please you!

Hotter, Wetter Sex Than EVER Before!

With Text Your Wife Into Bed, you’ll learn how a woman’s brain is SO involved in sex that you can get her dripping wet just by sending her the right texts!

You won’t find these secrets anywhere else – and they have helped hundreds of married men just like you, who have lost the fire in their sex lives.

See what these guys are saying about it!

“Scared the bejeezus out of me at first, but I followed what you said and was amazed at the results. I never thought my wife would be the one to initiate sex. Now she can’t get enough.” – Mark L.

“I sent 3 texts and my wife was so hot for me when I got home. We had the best sex in years.” – Tim Thomas

“My wife and I were right in the middle of a dry patch…her reaction was overwhelming. Now her friends keep asking me to teach their husbands how to do this!” – Jim

Remember, believing the myth that “she’s just not that into it anymore” and that it’s a natural thing for two people who have been married a long time to have boring sex, will RUIN your sex life forever.

Re-ignite it and bring the passion back JUST by using your cell phone!

It’s so easy, you can’t afford NOT to do it!

Click Here to watch the FREE Presentation that reveals a “weird” (but staggeringly effective) method for waking up your wife’s (or girlfriend’s) sex drive and turning her on at will…

6 Sexting Tips For Couples

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Sexting has taken the world by storm. The most common question about sexting is “Why would anybody send naked pictures of themselves?” The answer is that it can be really hot. If you would like to introduce sexting into your relationship there are a few things that you should know beforehand. Whether you’re just trying to mix things up or it’s been a long time interest, sexting can build a lot of anticipation throughout the day. If you’re not too sure how to start sexting as a couple, here are a few guidelines to follow.

1. Start Out Slow – Very Slow

Sexting is all about anticipation. If you rush into it you’re going to ruin all anticipation. Have you ever seen a stripper yank all of her clothes off in first 20 seconds of dancing? Of course not. You want to build up to the main event with your girlfriend or wife. A great way to start out is to ask them what they’re wearing. This gets them into the frame of mind to get descriptive. If you’re texting your boyfriend or husband, you can text them the same thing. When they text back, tell them how much you love that outfit and then make a physical reference. “I love how your ass looks in that dress” or something similar.

2. Plan What You’re Going To Say

Make sure that you’re comfortable with the things that you’re going to say. Remember that you will have to see your partner at some point so you don’t want to say anything that is too embarrassing or out there. For women, this isn’t really a problem. Men can handle, and will probably welcome, complete filth. However, men should watch it. It’s all too easy to fall into the sexting trap and send something that will turn her off or creep her out from the comfort of your cell phone’s keyboard. Think about what you’re saying before you send the text.

3. Lead Up To The Dirty Talk

Sexting can get very dirty, but lead up to it with anticipatory messages. “Wish you were here right now” or “I can’t wait to come home” can lead to a lot of anticipation. If your partner sends you something like this, ask them “Why?” This can lead into sexting easily. After your partner has texted you “Why?” follow up with something that is not necessarily dirty, but more loving. “I need you right now” or something like that is enough to get the message across without the attachment of a picture of your penis.

4. Actually Use Dirty Talk

Once you have established where the conversation is going it’s time to get into the grunt of it. “My cock is so hard” or “My pussy is so wet” works well as a follow up. If your partner is really sexual, they are going to follow up to your message with something even dirtier.

5. Escalate It

Sexting require escalation. Starting off slow and bringing the sexual level up is essential. You must escalate the sexting until you have a good rhythm going with the messages. Wait a little while between the texts. 3-5 minutes between the texts will build anticipation. Can you picture your partner sitting at his or her desk at work staring at the phone waiting for dirty talk to pop up? If not, then you’re not doing it right!

6. Send Pictures

Picture messaging has taken the cell phone industry by the balls. This is also a staple of sexting. When the time is right in the conversation you can ask for a picture. Tell your partner to go into the bathroom and take a dirty picture for you. This works much more for women than men. Surprisingly, women aren’t as likely to ask for a picture of your dong. There was a line in Seinfeld that pretty much applies to this: “Men are utilitarian. They’re built like Jeeps.”

The male body can be sexy, but it’s nothing compared to a woman’s body. Guys should remember that what they are saying is going to play much more of a part than a picture of them standing in a mirror with their penis in their hand.

Sexting can bring anticipation for the moment that your partner walks through the door in the afternoon. However, you need to know what you’re doing before you can get your partner turned on. Couples that sext often have better sex because text messages can be less personal than a face-to-face conversation. Having the ability to express your sexual desires through a phone can help you open up. Follow these guidelines and you’ll find your partner rushing home to fulfill their cravings.

Best Sexting & Dirty Talk Tips Of 2011

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Sexting and dirty talk will heat up your sex life like you never imagined! You’d be surprised at just how much this stuff can take a dull and boring sex life and turn it around into sex so hot, you’ll think you and your partner just met! Check out our favorite naughty articles of the year!

Don’t forget to take a look at some of our best sexting and dirty talking articles – these suggestions will get your sex life so hot, you won’t be able to contain it to the bedroom!

Also, we’ve worked very hard this year to find you the best resources to help you improve your sex life with sexting and titillating talk in the bedroom. Check out the ones we thought were the best and why, and see what you can learn to make your sex life hotter than ever before!

  • Text Your Wife Into Bed (This is THE resource on sexting – these suggestions are so hot, she’ll be ripping your pants off before you’ve sent the third text message!)
  • Dirty Talk Secrets (a great guide on how to introduce dirty talk into your sex life, with plenty of examples for those who aren’t quite sure what exactly to say)