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Foreplay Moves That Girls LOVE!

Foreplay is essential for a woman to enjoy sex, so you’ll want to make sure you’re doing things right. Check out these foreplay moves she will really love! Girls are complicated creatures. Unlike guys, girls take a bit more time and work to get all hot and bothered. Yet, if it is done right AND LONG ENOUGH the payoff of having a woman begging for you is well worth it. Here are some moves that can help get her fire going.

What She Said About Foreplay:

1. Tease Her

Seduce her. Take your time with a woman, even though you may be hard and ready to go, she may need to warm up. So don’t head for her boobs or clit right away, work your way there. Start with kissing her neck and shoulders also rub your hands along side her body. Pay attention to how excited she is getting and go slow.

Spend minutes, note MINUTES, not seconds on her neck, then spend MINUTES on her legs, then spend MINUTES kissing her back. Spend time lots of time on her. Think of her body as a treasure map but before you get to the buried treasure, you need to work your way there. Caress her legs and arms and kiss her everywhere. Make it a game to not touch her near her clit nor on her boobs and see how super excited she gets. This is foreplay!

2. Repeat #1.

Seriously, do what you just did all over again. Even though you may feel like you spent “forever” kissing her, she needs more foreplay. She needs more touching all over her body.

3. Mix It Up

Keep doing the above steps but vary your touch and pressure and use more tongue. Now would be a good time to add massage oil and rub her down.

4. Talk To Her!

While doing foreplay steps 1-3 talk to her. I am not saying you need to have a full blown conversation, nor do you need to get all poetic or dirty talk on her. I mean tell her how sexy she is, how hot you are getting, how you can’t wait to feel all of her. Tell her how fantastic her body is and how you are the luckiest bastard in the world that you get to see her half naked or you get to kiss her.

Praise her whole body with your touch and your words. I know it sounds corny but in the heat of the moment shit like that can really get a girl going!

5. Repeat!

Seriously, do it all again until she is begging you to have sex with her. And if you really want to score major points, tell her that you want to focus all on her. So if she starts to go down on you, stop her (if you can), and tell her you want this night to be about her.

What He Said About Foreplay:

1. Take The Scenic Route

Look we all know where this going. You want to have sex of some variety, but women love foreplay moves that aren’t shall we say as direct. Pay attention to the parts of her that men rarely notice, like the elbows, or the navel. Start to make a beeline towards the boobs or the vagina, then make an abrupt turn to the right and start to work your way away from it, then go back, coming just a little bit closer, but still not making contact with the target. Repeat this, until she just can’t stand it. Then do it again.

2. Tell Her No

Men are usually all about hitting it, getting off and then going to bed. Do number one until she’s literally begging for you to have sex with her. Then don’t. Until you feel like she’ll put a gun to your head unless you sleep with her. If you can do this right, you will own her and she will love you for it.

I have two friends who are masters of this. Some of the most beautiful women I’ve ever seen are falling all over these guys no matter if the women are single or married, or if the guy’s in shape or not. One of my friend teases women he meets at work to a tee. He’s a bartender and he’ll pick up a girl at the end of the night and take her home. He’ll engage in foreplay and tease her until she just can’t stand it and to where she’s on the verge of having an orgasm just off the anticipation. Then he’ll say “You know what? I’m really tired from work. I’m going to bed. Maybe we’ll pick up where we left off in the morning.” Then he actually goes to sleep. This drives the women nuts.

They literally can’t process it. He always gets laid when he wakes up and often then start molesting him as soon as the sun comes up.

Another friend does a similar move, he’ll tease, please a bit, stop, tease some more and then say “Okay, that’s all you get for now. You’ll get more later, if you’re good.” Then he cuts them off. This drives them nuts and this kind of teasing women love.

Sex Positions She Likes Best

By dicksinthecity

Sex positions can make sex even better, but guys don’t often consider what a girl wants. Here are some of HER favorites you can use for great sex tonight!

A happy woman is vital to your sex life! Everyone knows men and women love sex, but which sex positions do women like this? Here are some tasty treats for you and your lover to try out!

What She Said About Sex Positions For Her:

All of them! OK, I know I represent a small majority of women who love sex in every form and position! And I am lucky enough (and work out enough) to have confidence in my body and allow myself to have a healthy body image. I think two naked or half naked bodies doing the horizontal mambo is super sexy! But, there are times when I prefer one position over another.

I have to say that woman on top (WOT is my favorite! When women are on top they can control the speed and depth. Also being on top is perfect for a women to find the right position that rubs her clitoris. Sometimes leaning forward, sometimes leaning back can do the trick. Doggy style is also a winner in my book and great for women who may feel self conscious about their bellies or boobs.

There is something so animalistic about doggy style that I think is a turn on and its also a great position for a guy to bite and nibble on your back and neck! Or he can just hold on to you with his hands, and man hands on a woman’s hip is super erotic. In doggy style, women can control the speed and depth too, just tell your guy to stay still and you can just back your ass up!

What He Said About Sex Positions For Her:

Okay, am I the only one that didn’t know WOT = woman on top? Really? I am? No one sent me the memo? That’s cold.

The sex positions she likes often boil down to either A) which ones she ‘knows’ will get or off or B) the ones that show off her best angles and make her look good.

Ideally every woman would have the confidence in their bodies that old men do. Any guy who has ever gone to the gym knows what I am talking about. They are old, they are fat, and they are naked. Constantly. And they want to have long, in depth conversations with you and they never, ever want to wear clothes. Ever. Not a stitch of modesty, or inhibition, why, I will never know, but every woman should be so uninhibited.

The more uninhibited you are, the more you enjoy sex, and the more sex positions you will enjoy.

Woman on top is great for so many reasons, chief among them the ease in achiving orgasm. I don’t care how unskilled the male lover may be, there’s no way the woman isn’t getting off on top. It’s just not possible. Not only is it guaranteed, her orgasm on top is usually quick and easy. She’s probably going to get off in that position before the man in her life.

I’m not sure it’s as efficient in achieving female orgasm as woman on top, but in my experience, every woman loves to do it standing up. Not every guy has the strength to handle it, but if you can handle it, another great sex position that every woman is sure to enjoy. I’m not sure why they love it so much. Maybe because it’s so primal, and so intense.

Mentally and physically, because you’re being penetrated in a way that is primal and intense, like no other position, and it’s a great measure of trust. He’s literally supporting you and you have to hold on to him in order to not fall and hurt yourself and potential him as well. It is not a position that a couple finds themselves in for super long (as it’s very taxing on the man and easy to get tired and then someone could get hurt), but it’s a pretty intense and amazing position.

How do you pull it off? The simplest way to get into this amazing sex position for women (and men) is to have the man sits on the edge of the bed, the woman sits on his baby maker, wraps her arms and legs around him and then he stands up and they do the horizontal mambo while standing up. A lot of men can’t hold that position for very long, for obvious reasons, so you can either, pick her up and lean up against the wall or do it like that for a while and then sit down on the bed again. You don’t need to hold that one long, women love that one for many reasons! It takes a bit of practice, but is well worth it!

You can then sit back down on the bed, and easily transition back into woman on top or another position.

How To Talk To Her About Sex

By loveandsex

Sex can be a difficult topic to cover in a conversation, but sometimes it’s necessary. Here’s how to discuss sex with a woman the right way.

Probably the most important conversation you can have with your lady about orgasms is the one in which you find out what it is she really likes. The best place to have this conversation is in the bedroom, because if done correctly, you’re going to be doing a lot more than just talking.

Let Her Know You Want Great Sex

After you’ve discussed with your partner your desire to be an even better lover, you then need to explain that to do that you need to experiment a little and find out what she likes. If she’s willing (and most partners probably will be), the next step is to set the mood.

Use foreplay techniques to help her become aroused, then have her stretch out on a comfortable surface, preferably a bed. She should, of course, be completely naked. The next step is for you to explore her body. Move your hands slowly over every inch of her skin. Try different strokes, different movements on each part and take note of the ones, which bring about the most impressive results.

When you’ve explored her exterior, you’re ready to some similar exploring inside her. Try rubbing her clitoris in a variety of patterns. If you have some sex toys, give them a try as well. The idea is to experiment as much as you can to see what makes her feel the best. Encourage your partner to let you know what feels good because that’s the only way you’ll be able to get better. After all of your experimenting, both of you will probably be pretty worked up so take the chance to try out one of the of the positions from the book and see what happens.

How To Get Her To Communicate

When it comes to female orgasms, you and your partner are going to have to open the lines of communication. Even though lots of people have trouble talking about sex in and out of the bedroom, these conversations will provide you with a solid foundation on which to build.

Some sex conversations should be held in the bedroom while you’re both relaxed and aroused. This can make you both less inhibited and more likely to honestly share your secrets. It also makes it easier for the two of you to take things to the next level if those secrets turn you on.

Not all women are comfortable talking about sex. As we’ve said, women vary in how comfortable they are with this subject. If your woman is a little more reserved, don’t push her. Find ways of building trust with her and she will eventually open up to you.

The faked orgasm conversation is one that both of you need to have. By talking about this sensitive subject, you’ll show that you really are the kind of lover your partner wants and needs.

Never, Ever Be Judgmental

Never be judgmental. One important thing to remember when you are sharing sexual secrets is that you cannot be judgmental of her. If you tell her what she’s doing is wrong or bad, then she’s going to feel worse about her own sexuality, close her mind to experimentation, and feel betrayed by you. All of this is going to hinder her ability to reach orgasm with you or her future partners. If you can’t keep your negative opinions to yourself, then you probably shouldn’t be asking her these questions in the first place.

How To Give Women Multiple Orgasms EASILY!

By lloydlester

Multiple orgasms are often considered the “holy grail” of sex. They’re not as difficult to elicit as you might think – here’s how to do it the easy way.

Men may find it very easy to get into the mood during sex and even easier to reach a climax. But for women it takes more time and effort. If you wish to amaze her when it comes to your sexual ability, you have to be able to meet her personal preferences and get her excited with your mysterious ways. What is promising though, is that when you do get her to that wonderful “sexual high,” she can keep that feeling and experience multiple climatic episodes. So cajole and satisfy her with these titillating ways….

Make The Prelude To Sex A Fun Escapade

Women are emotional creatures. Their bodies need a little help to bring up the lust and arousal needed for intercourse and multiple orgasms. No woman can resist a very attentive man, especially one who knows his way around her mind and body. Did you know that the most active sex organ in her entire body is not her vagina but her mind? Feed it with the right words and you will be able to stimulate her mentally even before you get to touch any part of her. She will even yearn for your touch and kisses if your gift for words can make her visualize all those wonderful things you are going to do to her. She will totally lose her inhibitions when you start to caress her.

Savor Her Throughout The Whole Act

Seductive men are those who make women feel beautiful, desirable, comfortable, and loved. In order to do that, you have to savor her. So that means you have to take your time. Do not go to the main event quickly. Delay and make it an everlasting pleasure for her. Explore her body like it is a beautiful and delicate work of art that is uniquely hers. Make it a fun banter between you and her.

Give Her Multiple Orgasms By Matching Her Rhythm

Make sure that you are in rhythm with her when you are making your moves during intercourse. Do not perform movements and motions that suddenly start or stop out of nowhere. She will perceive you as being lacking in confidence in what you are doing or worse, see you as someone clumsy and unsure. Be self assured and believe in yourself. The more you can connect with her during sex (i.e. make her feel sexy and in sync with her emotions and rhythms), the greater the chance she can reach sizzling hot multiple orgasms.

How To Give Her A Mind Blowing Clitoral Orgasm

By loveandsex

An orgasm is the icing on the cake when it comes to sex for a woman. Give her clitoris lots of attention during sex and she’ll be putty in your hands!

The three stages of building an incredible orgasm with her clitoris are as follows:

Early Goings (Disarming)
The Build-Up Stage
On the Edge

Let’s talk about stages 1 & 3 first. Notice the clear distinction between stimulation in the Early Goings and On the Edge.

Early Goings vs. On The Edge Of Orgasm

In the Early Goings, don’t be overly intent on the clitoris itself – instead, pay attention to the areas surrounding it – they’re gold. In some cases, the surroundings may even be more sensitive than her bud.

And when you do come to provoking the clit itself, start off with soft, slow, palm, indirect (via clitoral hood) stimulation. It’s gentle & sweet, disarming but exciting. This settles her down but also creates an expectant eagerness for things to come.

Clearly, a different set of stimulation is required when she’s on the edge, you have to do better than gentle and sweet if you’re going to push her all the way. Stage 3 requires harder, faster and more direct stimulation – a far cry from the innocent, slow maneuverings at the onset.

The Build Up Stage

It means a progressive increase in stimulation. Soft becomes a bit harder, slow gets a bit faster, the palm soon becomes the fingers, and indirect is replaced by direct confrontation. This increases the sexual tension flooding her brain.

During Stage 2, you’ll hear sighs turn into moans, with her body beginning to writhe in exquisite pleasure. She’ll begin squirming seriously as she’s feeling hotter and more thrilled by the second. You’ll hear panting as her pulse shots triple time. If you’ve really done well, tiny beads of sweat will perceptibly well out. She’ll start gyrating with your hands, her pelvis moving to get as much action going. Her eyes will almost always be closed, she will even forget that you exist!

How does one actually go about stage 2?

This is the time to invest in the push & the pull.

That means you start from slow and begin to go faster. From light, you go harder. Pulling is when you tone down and go the other way.

So for example, instead of a continuous, rhythmic stimulation, you might STOP for a few seconds. Resume, and then stop again. The pull is the harder of the two, because it’s as if you’re purposely squandering what has been gained, wandering away from the goal. But know that this is as vital as the push.

Instead of increasing pressure on the clitoris, you slacken a bit and take it easy for a while. Then increase pressure again. Instead of going faster, ease off and coast along. Then build up speed again. Remember, teasing always comes in pairs – the push and the pull – bringing her down and bringing her up to an even more scintillating height.

This naturally takes more time, but this is definitely a worthwhile investment.

Getting Closer

Now, this is the point where I want to make something very clear: As she gets closer to orgasm, gradually phase out the teasing.

That means the longer you are into the process, the pauses, breaks and easing off become shorter in span and less in frequency. There comes a point when the teasing entirely disappears and you simply bring your woman to orgasm without bringing her down. The pull becomes useless at some point, you simply go forward and never look back.

That means you become more aggressive with the clit, giving it faster and harder provocations. You increasingly focus on it until you deal with it exclusively – never giving it rest and forsaking the rest of her body. A few seconds of this type of stimulation and she will orgasm, big time.

Of course, it will be your call when to do away with teasing altogether. I can’t tell you exactly when to do this. Gauge her and decide.

After her first blow, unlike men, she doesn’t dive to non-arousal – she remains horny still although she is quite sensitive. It really becomes easy to usher in those multiple orgasms because after she starts exploding, she can keep going as each subsequent orgasm get easier.

After she cums, this is what you do: Leave her clitoris alone for a minute or two and do something else. Her clit gets extra-sensitive after an orgasm, just as the head of your penis gets extra-vulnerable after ejaculation. (By the way, this is not a refractory period, women don’t have them.) After a minute or two, simply reinstate the last thing you were doing that pushed her off, and keep at it.

Not long after, she will orgasm again.

Many guys never discover the multi-orgasmic capacity of their woman simply because they don’t give her a second shot. While a soulful climax may be enough for a lot of couples, know that both of you can opt for more.