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How To Get Her To Make A Sex Tape For You

By serenapaige

Homemade porn made just for you is a wonderful thing to have. But just how to you get your lover to do a sex tape? After you use these tips, she’ll WANT to!

Making a sex tape with your girlfriend can be fun and exciting. However, if your girlfriend or wife is not exactly keen on the idea of being on camera, there are a few things that you can do to convince her. Making sex tape is not like it used to be. Nowadays with the Internet, everybody is extremely weary of where the tape might end up.

The camera on your cell phone has the ability to capture your sex life with the utmost detail. Making a sex tape literally takes the push of a button. If your girlfriend or wife has told you no in the past, you might be able to butter her up with these easy methods.

Build Trust

The number one reason the girl would not want to make a sex tape is the fact that they don’t know whether or not he could hurt them in the end. There are a lot of websites that pay great money for amateur porn. If your girlfriend has told you know in the past it might be because she does not have enough trust in the relationship.

Telling your girlfriend that you would never sell a sex tape to a website or upload it to a free porno site is probably not enough to sway her interest in your sexual fantasy. Her girlfriend doesn’t trust you there’s no way that she’s ever going to make a sex tape with you. Build trust in the relationship so that she knows you would never do anything to hurt her, including releasing a sex tape to the public.

Alleviate Body Issues

Another reason that some girls will not make a sex tape with their significant others is the fact that they have body image issues. Girls are just like guys, they have insecurities when it comes to physicality. If your girlfriend or wife does not have enough confidence in herself or in the way that she looks she will be strongly weary of making a sex tape with you.

Even if she knows that the sex tape would only be viewed by you and her she could be afraid of how she looks onscreen. Reassure her that she is beautiful and that you think making one could be a fun and kinky way of spicing up your sex life.

Ease Her Into It

Making a sex tape is a lot like having sex for the first time. The last thing you want to do is jump right into it. Ease her into it by starting off slow. Start off with a tape of you performing oral sex on her or her performing oral sex on you. Watch the tape together and then delete it together.

Once your girlfriend or wife sees the way that she looks on camera she will probably be much more open to making a full-fledged sex tape with you. She will also be reaffirmed by having the video deleted. Once a girl sees that the video she just made can be deleted forever she will probably be much more open to making a real sex tape.

Get The Lighting Right

The lighting for your sex tape should always be in the favor of the girl. If there is bad lighting in the room imperfections of your girlfriend or wife can easily stand out. Not everybody has perfect skin so it is a very common issue for people to get nervous on camera. Make sure that the lighting in the room isn’t going to show off her bad qualities.

With high definition video imperfections can easily be seen, bringing in and to your sex tape before it even begins.

Film Without The Face

As the cameraman on this shoot, you can easily convince your girlfriend or wife to make a sex tape by leaving her face out of it. The face is the most identifiable part of the human body. If your wife or girlfriend has refused to make porn in the past it’s probably because they don’t want it wanting up on the Internet so that friends and family can see.

If you assure her that you’re going to leave out the face, meaning both your face and her face, there will be no identifying parts to lead back to her or you. Girls are just as worried about somebody seeing you in the sex tape as they are of seeing themselves. Once you have completed the tape without filming her face, watch it together. She may even be game for keeping it since it would not lead back to her or you.

Filed Under: Sex Tips & Advice Tagged With: better sex, homemade porn, porn, sex tips

Is Porn Actually Bad For You?

By loveandsex

Porn can be a way to get any guy through dry spell or to spice up the love life between a couple. However, the most common questions is whether or not adult movies are actually bad for you. While it does allow people to indulge in their fantasies, there can be several repercussions to bring pornography into any relationship. If you are a single guy, it can also have detrimental effects to the expectations of future lovers. Here are a few ways that adult films can actually be bad for you.

It Raises Your Expectations A Little Too High

Porn is the equivalency of fantasy. When you start watching it, it is very easy to fall into the trap of living out your sexual fantasies through the characters in the movie. Lusting after porn stars that are willing to do anything can easily be detrimental to relationship that you have been in for a while or a relationship that might just be starting out. When your partner sees women that have an insatiable appetite for sex, it can put a lot of pressure into the relationship.

Guys who are single can also expect new lovers to try different positions or activities based on the adult movies they have watched. This expectation for a lover to live up to the porn stars in the movies can also create tension that would not have been there otherwise. The reality is that most women do not have the libido that men have. Not all women are shaped to the way that they are in pornography.

When men watch too much porn, they can easily push women into doing things that they do not feel comfortable with. They can also start to believe that certain sex acts are universally loved by all women.

It Desensitizes You To Sex

Porn can easily desensitize you to actual sex, leaving you with an unsatisfying feeling when you have real sex. Sex is not about getting off as hard or as fast as you can. Sex should be about the love between two consenting adults. The problem with pornography is that it will subconsciously leave you with a feeling of wanting more. This can easily turn into a vicious cycle to lowers the amount of pleasure that you feel when you are not only watching porn, having sex in real life.

If you have been watching it for a long time, you will start to see just how desensitized you have become. A video that got you really turned on two years ago may not do it for you now. Before there were things like the Internet, guys had to rely on things such as magazines or old-school pinup pictures of women. Now that the Internet is a full-fledged information machine and you can basically watch any kind of movie you want after just a few clicks, the desensitization can easily get out of control.

Porn Objectifies Women

Probably the worst thing about the adult industry is that it caters to men by objectifying women. Although there are videos that show women in control, they are not in control because of their mind or because of their physical abilities. They use their sexuality to get what they want. Pornography turns women into things that are pretty much there to satisfy the man’s sexual urge. Women should be loved because of who they are and not because of what they can provide a man sexually.

It’s Easy To Become Addicted To It

Because of all of these reasons, porn can easily become addicting. Anything that offers instant gratification can become addicting, however, pornography is becoming more and more accessible. With the invention of mobile internet, a lot of porno websites are starting to launch mobile versions of their site. While this can be great for mobile commerce, this can lead to temptation for men finding it hard to resist their addictions.

Porn is a different beast than alcohol or drugs. Porn is not illegal if you are of age. It is not even bad for the body in a physical sense, so it’s hard to regulate this for the normal male. Watching too much porn can lead to porn addiction when masturbating.

Porn, like alcohol or sweets, can be fun and harmless in small doses. However, if you start to go overboard, you might find it difficult to form a healthy relationship with a woman who is not as kinky as you. Talk with your partner or any potential partners about their views on the subject before you expose them to the kind of porn that you like.

Filed Under: Porn & Adult Movies Tagged With: adult movies, masturbation, porn, sex tips

Why Women Hate Men Who Love Porn

By david

Porn has a way of ruining the sex lives of men. If you have recently met a woman that you’re attracted to, you should try to cut adult movies out of your life immediately.

Does This Sound Familiar?

So you’re out one night, you’re in a bar, and you’re talking to this absolutely incredibly sexy woman.

She’s one of the hottest women you’ve met in a long, long time. As you’re talking to her, you’re absolutely fixated on her lips. She’s touching you, flirting, pushing you away.

You order one more drink. She accepts. All of a sudden you’re drinking and you start kissing her a little bit, and then your mind flashes.  Your penis gets hard and you think to yourself,

“This would be the perfect time to have sex in the parking lot. It would be so awesome to have her legs up above her head as I pound her in the back of my Dodge Durango.”

And then you think, “But wait a second, that’s not as exciting as putting her on the hood of the car—spread eagle—where everybody else can see us in the parking lot.”

You’ve actually seen that online.  You’ve seen that in porn and the woman looked like she was having the greatest time in the world.  She looked like she was absolutely having the time of her life and you thought to yourself, “It’s time that I can make my porn fantasies come to reality with this girl. She’s drunk enough; she ready; we’ve already been kissing a little bit.”

Women Don’t Watch Porn Like You Do

This is not going to happen. They don’t want to be banging on the hood of your Durango, nor do they want to do you in the parking lot after getting smashed at the bar.

Sure, maybe the drunken skanky woman, stumbling, falling down, coming on to every guy in the bar.  You might not be aware of this, but the one you’ve been talking to is actually investing time in you. She could be touching you ever so slowly, kissing you a little bit. She wants to be with you, but she wants it to be real.

She’s investing time and moments in you, she just doesn’t want to be thrown on the hood of a car with your dick inside her, and banged at 100 miles an hour for 2.3 minutes.  She actually probably wants to go home with you at that moment and have you go down on her and have you please her and have you figure out how to give her an orgasm.  She’s got other ideas.

She may just enjoy teasing you at that moment.  This may just be a moment of foreplay for her so that all of a sudden you can hang with her another night and have sex.

Porn Can Ruin Your Sex Life

I live in Los Angeles.  I have friends who work in the adult film industry. Los Angeles is the capital of the  industry.  I’ve got friends that are cinematographers for adult movies.  Every single porn writer is a man who masturbates too much and thinks of fantasies.

Women will watch porn once in a while with you, enjoy it, and pick up new positions. But the bottom line is, most women don’t want to have sex like sex in the porn movie.

It doesn’t work that way guys. Porn is warping your perception of sex.  If you want to know what women really want when it comes down to sex, read a little bit.

Porn is going to ruin your sex life, guys.  This is the reason you don’t have repeat encounters.  That’s the reason why so many of you are one-and-done with them.

Filed Under: Porn & Adult Movies Tagged With: adult movies, foreplay, porn, sex tips

Help! My Libido Is Higher Than My Man’s!

By dicksinthecity

Libido can be a drawback for any relationship. When your libido doesn’t match up with your guy’s it’s best not to the problem fester. It’s a growing phenomena that women are wanting and asking for more sex these days. Sometimes, a woman might want it a lot more than her man. Women are making the first moves and sometimes their partners are saying no. What’s a girl to do?

What She Said:

Chat With Your Man

First thing to do is have a chat with your man. We women are emotional and if our guy is turning us down, we take it personally. We think he is cheating, or doesn’t find us attractive. But before you jump to conclusions, you should see if maybe your guy is stressed, or over worked, or maybe he has money issues on his mind, or career problems.

All these outside forces can affect his libido and have nothing to do with you! Instead of holding a grudge, talk to him.  See if something else is on his mind and explain to him your needs. If he is not in the mood, tell him that you aren’t looking for a hot sex marathon, but a little hanky panky would be fun.

Masturbate For Him

Even some cuddling can be amazing; women want to feel closeness with their guy, that doesn’t always-necessary mean sex. If it is the big O that you are looking for and your guy is not in the mood, why not let him watch you please yourself? Who knows, the visual might be all he needs to revive him and have him give you a hand, or penis.

What He Said:

Make An Effort To Turn Him On

Of course women want it more than men, they don’t have to do anything. All you women have to do is lay there and pretend it’s not happening, which you’ve been practicing for centuries. Then he rolls off you and he buys you something. It’s a good deal. There’s no pressure.

A guy has to perform. Literally. And double standards and unreasonable expectations used to be things that society only heaped on women. It was a kinder, simpler time, when men where men and women were the ones slitting their wrists if they couldn’t fit into their skinny jeans or if their man was banging someone else.

Now men have to deal with that stuff too. How messed up is that? What’s worse, now that women have their own money, they have their own power, now their acting just like men expecting more and more of their partners.

Don’t Put Too Much Pressure On Him To Perform

Yes, porn, cock rings, Viagra and all that jazz are great, but maybe make sure he isn’t feeling burdened or pressured. Maybe he can’t fuck all night long. Maybe he only does it in between commercials. Maybe he feels insecure about his penis size, or how long he lasts, how hard he gets or whatever.

Let him know it’s all good, and you’re not expecting anything other than the good loving he is known to deliver. If there’s pressure or stress on his mind, do what you can to alleviate it. A lot of it is out of your hands, to be sure, but whatever you can do to lighten things up, the better.

Taking the pressure off is huge, but so is turning the heat up. Take him to a strip club. Get each of you a lap dance. Take him to a yoga class and dress super sexy. Go to the beach, spend time at pool or hot tub. If you can afford a weekend getaway, do it. That alone can be huge in getting the boom boom back in the bedroom.

Sometimes the act of physically being in a new place makes the mind feel like it’s physically separated from the problems that a person’s going through, despite the fact that they are in their own head.

Let him know quickies are all good, buy some Kama Sutra books or porn, but be advised that it may take a bit of effort to get the sex life ramped up how you like and one partner may still have a stronger libido than the other, but hopefully, if you’re patient and persistent, you’ll be having sex on a more regular basis.

Filed Under: Sex Tips & Advice Tagged With: better sex, libido, porn, sex tips, Sex Toys

How To F#ck Her Like A Porn Star… And How Even The Skinniest Dweeb Can Give Any Woman BODY-QUAKING Orgasms

By loveandsex

Is “orgasm” a word that rarely comes out of your mouth, because you just can’t seem to get your lover there? 

Do you STRUGGLE to give your partner an orgasm, even when she’s turned on? 

Or if you are able to make her orgasm, does it take FOREVER?

Even if you are the SKINNIEST, nerdiest dweeb, you can learn how to make ANY girl orgasm after orgasm with these super secret, insider techniques!

You’re about to learn what the porn stars already know – which is how to have the best sex ever and keep things fresh, exciting and new in the bedroom! You’ll learn their skills, tips, tricks and techniques and before long, you’ll be the BEST LOVER she’s have ever had!

Top Porn Stars Show YOU How To Have Sex?

So just who will you be learning these amazing sex techniques from? Some of the HOTTEST porn stars in the world, that’s who! If you’ve ever watched good porn, you have undoubtedly heard some of these names – because they’re some of the biggest in the adult entertainment industry!

  • Ryan Keely leads the video series and is one of the most sought after names in the porn industry. She REALLY knows how to give squirting orgasms both to herself and to other women!
  • Justine Joli is another big name in adult film, and she is THE MOST requested partner in lesbian films because she is known for making women orgasm faster, more times and more creatively than just about anyone in the world!
  • Jade Vixen is actually a former PhD candidate who knows a woman’s body better than some women do themselves – AND most doctors! Plus, she’s really, really hot!
  • January Seraph and Goddess Shea are both very well-known professional dominatrixes. If you want to broaden your sexual horizons, these girls will teach you how!
  • Isabella Stone and McKenzee Miles lend their amazing sexual talents to the Incredible Sex Video Series as well, rounding out this all-star cast!

The Incredible Sex Video Series

This totally unique video series from our good friends over at Porn Star Sex Life is called the “Incredible Sex Video Series” for a reason – the tips shown to you in these videos will help you have better sex than you have EVER had before – guaranteed! These are the techniques that real porn stars use to give each other the wettest, wildest orgasms for the camera.

WARNING: These tips are incredibly hot. DO NOT use them if you don’t want to turn every lover you’re with into a raging beast who wants sex from you all the time! DO NOT use them if you don’t plan on having sex at least DAILY – if not more than that. These tips will have your woman literally begging for sex and begging to go down on you – so if you DON’T want a blowjob pretty much every day, DON’T use these tips!

Thousands of men all over the world have watched the Incredible Sex Video Series – and they’ve never regretted it since! Not only was actually learning the tips super hot (you might have to take a break in between instruction demos to take a cold shower!), but they used them to give their partners the most amazing, hottest, wettest SQUIRTING ORGASMS ever. These men used to be regular guys just like you – until they learned how to be better lovers than Ron Jeremy.

What You’ll Learn In The Incredible Sex Video Series

  • The sex position that will make your penis feel 2 INCHES BIGGER to your girl and what will make her feel super tight like a virgin to you!
  • How to give her body quaking orgasms with just 1 simple technique
  • The technique that will make almost ANY girl have an orgasm within 30 seconds!
  • The #1 thing holding back your sex life (it’s NOT what you think!)
  • An incredible oral sex technique that the BEST lovers in the world use almost all the time!

Not only will you be learning some incredible sex tips, you’ll learn them by watching incredibly sexy porn stars actually doing these techniques to each other! 

Wait, what?

Yes – you will get to learn the techniques that will make a woman orgasm over and over by watching HOT, NEARLY NAKED PORN STARS demonstrating them on each other!

Where Else Will You Learn Sex Tips From Hot, Almost Naked Porn Stars THEMSELVES?

Really? Nowhere. The Incredible Sex Video Series is revolutionary – there are very few things out there on the market like this. Not just anyone can round up the biggest names in porn and get them to reveal their secrets to getting women to orgasm again and again!

This video workshop includes HOURS of nothing but hot girls showing you how to pick up other hot girls, dating tips, the hottest sex tips, sex positions, and even threesome etiquette should you be lucky enough to ever get your girl to agree to a threesome (which you just might after using the techniques in the Incredible Sex Video Series!)

If you have a sub-par sex life and are ready to turn things around, the time is NOW!

Don’t suffer through even 1 more boring sex session where you barely reach orgasm (and your partner never does) because the sex has become so stale.

Instead, get the Incredible Sex Video Series TODAY and have the most incredible, sheet soaking sex you’ve ever had – TONIGHT!

Don’t delay – you can start having sex like a porn star TONIGHT!

Filed Under: Sex Tips & Advice Tagged With: female orgasm, have better sex, orgasm, porn, sex tips

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