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How To 69 The Right Way

69 is a fun position that gives pleasure to each partner. 69 is a way to engage in oral sex in a way that both partners get pleasure at the same time! If you are tired of the same old 69, there are several new positions that you can implement into your regiment to spice things up. Knowing how to give her the best stimulation during 69 is essential to getting her off and keeping her happy.

When your girlfriend has a great orgasm during sex she is more likely to want it more often. Using the same kinds of sex positions all the time can easily turn her off in the bedroom. Keeping things spicy and erotic will keep you closer. Here are some tips for the next time that you do decide to 69.

1. Suds Up First

A very common complaint about the 69 is the possibility of smells. If you know that you are going to use 69, it is highly recommended to take a shower or a bath beforehand. This gets you very close to your partner’s anus. Keep in mind that your partner will also be extremely close to your anus. Because of this, it is necessary that you take the proper precautions so that the moment is not ruined by a horrific smell from either of you.

Use the preparation to your advantage by either taking a bath or a shower together. Wash each other to get you both into the mood for the coming attraction. While you do not have to actually go inside of your anus to make sure that there are no smells, washing on the exterior is going to be essential for getting all of the funk off of your body.

2. The Standard (Her On Top)

The standard position involves her on top and you on bottom. While you may find this boring, it is the standard for a reason. It’s going to be much easier for her to achieve an orgasm while being on top than for you to achieve the orgasm while being on top. With her on top she has control over the situation and how much she can take of your penis inside her mouth.

If you’re going to use the standard 69 it is important that you do not neglect her. Make sure that you are not just focusing on her clitoris, but are also focusing on the outside of her vaginal lips. This is also a prime way for you to use your fingers on her. Use your index and pointer finger while you lick and suck on her clitoris to stimulate her g spot.

3. Side-By-Side

If you are tired of the standard 69 you can use the side-by-side sex position. The side-by-side is essentially both of you laying on your side and performing the 69. This is an excellent position to spice things up if you are tired of doing it the traditional way. One of the biggest complaints of doing this is that the weight of the guy or girl can become uncomfortable. This is not an issue whenever you use the side-by-side.

Get in the middle of the bed and make sure that you are comfortable. You will not be able to use the edge or the top of the bed as your legs are going to be more extended than the traditional way. It’s going to be harder for you to finger her when you are using the side-by-side. However, this will probably feel a little bit better to you because the penis is going to be a different angle when it goes into her mouth. If you really want to spice things up, use a vibrator to replace your fingers.

4. Guy On Top

Guy on top is not one that every couple is going to like. Some women love to be submissive in the bedroom, making the guy on top extremely erotic for them. Most women like to have control of how far they are going to take your penis into their mouth. This makes the guy on top kind of an issue. Another complaint is that the women are going to have to use their neck muscles in order to actually suck on your penis. This can get tiresome and frustrating for the girl.

However, some girls thoroughly enjoy having their guy on top thrusting into their mouths. Consult your girlfriend before you try this and make sure that she is okay with it. Another common complaint of the 69 is that there is too much going on and it’s hard for people to focus on what they’re giving while also receiving. Having your girlfriend strain herself in order to try to give you pleasure could take away from the fact that she is also receiving it. In the event that she is not really feeling this, move on to a different one.

How To Give A Woman An Orgasm In Seconds!

By lloydlester

The female orgasm is known for being super elusive, but no more! Here’s the best way to give your girl an orgasm in just seconds.

That sounds like a pretty bold statement to make – but that is exactly what can happen when you learn and apply what is in this article. Many men want to improve their sexual stamina and last longer during sex, thinking this is the only way to give their women an orgasm.

Why Lasting Longer Is Not The Key

Let me explain.

There are many powerful techniques for helping men last longer in bed, for example, by strengthening the pelvic muscles; or even through the use of delay sprays and lotions.

But these methods are simply masking the symptoms of the problem and not addressing the root causes.

Almost all cases related to maintaining a hard erection and lasting longer boils down to one thing – you are too unsure or too nervous in the bedroom.

Gaining sexual confidence is the only genuine way to completely obliterate any performance anxiety in the bedroom and lasting as long as you want. The problem with having great sex is that the issue is NOT about lasting longer.

Mastering Her Sexual Response

It really is about how to completely master your partner’s sexual response and gain her trust in bed. Most women view sex NOT as a means to an end, but as a titillating journey to the end itself. They cherish how they are brought to an orgasm, and not just about the orgasm itself.

The ability to last longer is an integral part of great lovemaking, but many guys make it to be more important than it really is. Here’s the simple truth – if you can last more than 10 minutes of thrusting, you already have all it takes to be a phenomenal lover. Most women don’t need that kind of continuous penetration, simply because they tend to dry out from that constant thrusting before it starts to hurt.

The way to a woman’s orgasm is not in penetrative sex. It lies in what you do BEFORE you make love to her! Many studies have shown that more women get an orgasm from oral sex and foreplay than from intercourse! This means you should really pay attention to the techniques to get her sexually-charged before intercourse.

This will increase your sexual “competence”. And when you achieve that kind of mastery, the confidence you get will obliterate the problem of not lasting long enough!

When you understand this powerful stuff, it is entirely possible to give your woman an orgasm within seconds, without the need to last very long!

How To UNLOCK A Woman’s Sexual Code

By david

Sex tips are a great help when giving your girl an orgasm, but what if you could go deeper than that? What if you could get unleash her inner freak?

Imagine this situation:

You’re really excited. You find her hot. You find her sexy. Things are going well and it looks like you might “get lucky.”

And then you start thinking to yourself, “Am I going to be able to please her in the bedroom? Am I going to be able to be the most dynamic lover she’s ever had? Am I going to be able to bring her to multiple orgasms until she begs me for more? Am I going to be the man that’s her best lover ever and is she going to be willing to do all the things that I want done to me?”

These are questions that haunt a lot of men on a regular basis. Men everywhere want to know how to unlock her sexual code and how to make sure that she begs for more. Let me tell you how.

Emotions Play A Significant Role

There’s so much mindset to sex that a lot of men don’t pay attention to. A lot of men are very physical; when they’re attracted to a woman, all they want to do is rip her clothes off and penetrate her immediately and have incredible intercourse that’s going to blow their mind away. But they don’t understand the way women really think.

Somebody told me a long, long time ago that if you can please a woman in bed—and it all starts with pleasing her emotionally first and really connecting to her emotionally—she’ll do anything for you. She’ll truly believe that you are the first man to be attentive to all her needs, the man that understands her on all levels.

A lot of guys don’t think that way. A lot of guys just want to go, get a woman in the sack, have sex with her for five or six minutes and hope that she gets off. Those moans and groans that you hear when you’re banging her are not necessarily moans and groans of pleasure. They’re moans and groans of disappointment, a disappointment that you are not taking the time on her the way she needs.

It’s all about understanding the way a woman’s mind thinks when it comes down to sex. You’ve got to understand her emotional core, what she needs. She needs to feel safe, she needs to feel the attraction, and she needs to hear words.

“You look hot. You’re beautiful.” Say it, whatever it might be. She needs to feel like you’re there, in tune with her. She may want to warm up to you, and spend the time kissing. And if you want to become a good kisser, mimic her kissing style. If she comes at you with a soft tongue, come back at her with a soft tongue. If she comes at you hard, come back at her hard.

Teasing Is Pleasing!

It all comes down to teasing her body and not going immediately for the clitoris or finger banging her immediately. It’s all about taking your time almost like you’re driving down a long, winding road. You want to be able to spend as much time on her body, teasing her.

You also don’t want to sleep with her the very first time you get her naked. You want to drive her crazy. The more you drive her crazy, the better the sex is going to be for her.

It’s all about understanding her need to feel safe and secure. She wants to give you her body. Too many men do not understand that. They don’t spend the time on the mindset of sex. All they do is think about the physical side of sex. If you think about the mindset, then you think about licking her like an ice cream cone, spending the time to savor each and every drop.

Becoming the most dynamic lover is not just about physical. It’s about understanding her emotional core and then seducing and teasing her. If you’re able to give her what she’s always desired when all the men before you have disappointed—you win.

2 Ways To Undress A Woman

By loveandsex

Foreplay begins before a girl even has her clothes off. Use one of these two ways to strip her down so the foreplay leads into something even more exciting!

1. The Orange Model

This has something to do with tearing clothes off a woman’s body. It’s fast, furious, with severed buttons lying all over. It comes without warning, is swift and unforgiving of any delays. The goal is to unveil booty in the soonest possible time.

The Orange Model is one of intensity, all energy channeled to ultimately getting skin-to-skin contact, which usually happens during frenzied love-making where partners won’t tolerate even a single centimeter of physical separation. It’s frantic and frenetic.

Everything happens so fast. Snap! And all clothes scatter on the floor.

When all the gloves are off, what’s really there to do next? It’s the dead end in stripping as you can’t strip her skin no more. When you’re staring at a naked woman’s body with your naked eye, there’s no room left for the imagination. Everything is right there!

Now, you’re visually confirming if she’s cut and curved in all the right places. There’s little room for teasing, because the desire to behold hidden assets has been indulged.

Am I saying that the Orange Model sucks? Not at all. The good thing about it is that it’s FAST. The poor thing about it is that it’s FAST. You have to decide what’s both practical and beneficial for a particular situation.

2. The Onion Model

This model luxuriates with time – the process is likened to skinning an onion.

This is in contrast to peeling an orange where you only deal with a single layer of skin, and voila, the meat is exposed. Peeling an orange requires boldness and tenacity as you tear it’s relatively thick skin. But the onion is a little different. A little tenderness and patience is required because you can’t get to the heart of an onion in one bold stroke. You peel its numerous layers, gradually exposing its core.

(Here, stripping is not taken for granted. Just think of it. Stripping is an art as well as a multi-billion dollar industry. Men actually pay ridiculous amounts of money in strip clubs just to witness clothes unwrap a woman, never mind that they never get to touch her.)

In the Onion Model, clothes aren’t simply skimmed over, stripping is celebrated in & of itself. It is mildly paced and elegantly executed – in contrast to the fierce and intense manner of the Orange.

When you de-fashion a woman, you are taking away something that attracted you to her in the first place. How else could a man be interested in what’s under there if her packaging isn’t right? Was it not her foxy red dress that sparked your fancy?

But what do most men do?

They attack clothes like archenemies, like bumps to triumph over. Give a moment’s hint of privacy, and they raid like a SWAT Team and finish de-styling proceedings in-between heartbeats.

Easy Junior!

When you peel a woman so hastily, you miss on the joys and tensions of undressing her. You throw all that opportunity away! And for what? Of course we know for what! It’s got something to do with breasts and stuff. But hey, do you have the faintest idea how fun undressing a girl can be?! If not, then it’s probably because you’ve never looked at it as a process.

How To Get Through First Time Anal Sex

By kendallashley

Anal sex is something women tend to either love or hate. If you have decided that you’re going to do it for the very first time, there are a few things that you need to keep in mind. Being prepared for your first time with it is essential to doing everything right and keeping your body safe.

Anal sex can be very pleasurable when done the right way. When it’s done the wrong way you could wind up at the hospital. Here is a short guide to get your prepped for your first time with this special sexual activity.

Relax!

The muscles inside your anus are designed to contract and expand. If you are not relaxed while having anal sex it’s going to hurt a lot. You need to learn how to relax your anal muscles before your partner inserts his penis or a sex toy. Take a breath and practice relaxing your anus before you begin. There are two muscles that will be used during anal.

The first muscle is the external sphincter. The second muscle is the internal sphincter. You will be able to relax your external sphincter quite easily. However, the internal sphincter is more reactionary. Focus on being relaxed and it will not hurt as much the initial penetration.

Consider An Enema

Under most normal circumstances, anal sex is not that messy. However, there are certain instances where it can be a very bad situation. Using an enema before you have anal sex is recommended. Even if you have normal bowel movements, there is a cleanliness factor.

Making sure that your anus is clean and that your partner will not come out with feces on his fingers or penis is essential. An enema will keep you clean and will make the process a lot more spontaneous.

Bacterial Safety

There are bacteria in your anus that can be dangerous to your vagina. Before you have anal sex, make sure that your partner understands that he can’t go from your anus to your vagina. This is essential to keeping infections at bay. If your partner wants to go from your anus to your vagina, make sure that they change out the condom or wipe down their penis and hands with disinfectant.

Use Lube!

You need a lot of lubricant during your first anal experience. Get the big bottle from the grocery store or from an adult sex shop. Lubrication is going to make the experience much more enjoyable as there will be a lot less resistance when you or your boyfriend penetrates your anus. Use the entire bottle if needed and make sure that you’re buying water based lubricant.

Water based lubricants work well for all types of penetration, but they are really good for anal sex. Have your boyfriend use his finger to lube up your anus before he puts his penis in. This will help you gauge how big of an object you can take.

Getting Ready For Penetration

So now that we’ve gotten all of that out of the way, it’s time for the big show. When you’re having anal sex for the first time it’s natural to be scared. Having something shoved up your butt can be terrifying. If you have followed the guidelines thus far then you should have nothing to worry about. Have your partner apply the lube to your anus and his penis.

Even if he’s using a lubricated condom he should pour a lot of lube on his penis. Choose the position that you want to use. Doggy style works well, but an elevated missionary style can also work well. Place a pillow under your butt for the elevated missionary style. Have your partner enter your anus slowly and with just the tip of his penis. Make sure that he is going slowly.

If you feel the need to make a number 2, resist. This is normal. Relax your muscles and your anus should start to get used to the penis. Have your partner slowly go deeper and deeper until he is in as far as he can go or until you start to feel uncomfortable.

Anal sex is a great way to keep things interesting in the bedroom. It is recommended that you follow all of these guidelines before you have anal sex for the first time. If you do not feel comfortable after your first time, don’t be discouraged. It takes time to get acquainted with anal sex. Once you have done it a couple of times your anus will get used to the sensation and you will start to feel the pleasure.