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Best Love & Romance Secrets Of 2011

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Love and romance should never be compromised in a partnership! Over time, it is easy to let the romance wane. You get bogged down with the daily stuff, and forget to say, “I love you” or plan that romantic, candelit dinner for just the two of you.

Making a relationship “work” is tough enough, actually making it a happy and blissful relationship to be in is a whole different story! It takes effort on both partners to make the other feel loved, wanted, appreciated and enjoyed. There will, no doubt, be conflicts along the way, but if you consciously try to make an effort to be more romantic and more loving, your partnership will benefit a great deal. Remember, a lot of the time, it’s the little things that count the most!

If your relationship could use a dose of romance, check out our best tips of the year & keep the fire alive in your relationship!

Don’t forget to take a look at some of our all time favorite romance articles. Whether you’re trying to find a creative and romantic way to tell your partner that you care about them, or you want to steer clear of behavior that will wreak havoc on your long term relationship, these tips will really come in handy if you want a blissful union.

How To Turn Even The Biggest Romantic Numbskull Into “Prince Charming” Just By Pushing A Few Buttons On Your Cell Phone!

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Is romance simply not a part of your life anymore?

Do you find yourself CRAVING more romance in your relationship?

Think your man is simply “not” romantic?

The free video presentation on this page will show you a simple but staggeringly effective method for using tiny little text messages to wake up the “secret romantic” in any man, even if you have kids, work too much, “don’t have time” or if he seems like a “romantic numbskull” now. The techniques in this video have been tested by tens of thousands of women around the world, were featured on Rachael Ray and are based on simple facts of masculine psychology that you’ve probably never heard before.

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Warning: Make sure to watch the entire presentation to find out why other attempts to “bring back the romance” in your relationship have failed, why your he secretly craves romance and closeness more than you think (or than he’ll admit) and how to have him craving you, thinking about you and counting down the moments until he gets to see you just by pushing a few buttons on his cell phone.

Is He A Lost Cause?

No Way! Lots of women out there are stuck with guys who have let every bit of romance seep out of them throughout the course of their relationship. Also, let’s not forget about the girls who are stuck with guys who never had an ounce of romance in them to begin with!

Even if your man is the most romantically challenged guy in the world and couldn’t compliment his way out of a paper bag, you can TEACH HIM HOW to say the sweetest things using 1 simple tool that you already have.

So what is this incredible secret to getting your guy to be more romantic than you’ve ever seen him?

Your phone!

Believe it or not, you can use something as easy and simple as your cellular phone to put the romance BACK into your relationship – even if your man never really was romantic at all to begin with!

Text The Romance Back is the ONLY resource out there that teaches women how to use their phones to turn their relationships into something from the movies – or a fairy tale!

What You’ll Learn:

  • The REAL secret reason he never takes you out or surprises you anymore (it’s NOT what you think – OR what he told you!)
  • How to use simple text messages to turn your guy into a secret Prince Charming!
  • How to get him thinking about you ALL day
  • How to make him CRAVE YOU – he won’t be able to help but sweep you off your feet!

The best part? There’s no “sexting” required! We’re not talking about texting your guy about how much you want to give him head in a last ditch effort to get him to pay attention to you. This is completely different!

After you watch this FREE VIDEO (from the Rachael Ray Show), you’ll know how to make your guy transform into the sweetest man you’ve ever met, almost overnight!

“It worked on me and he’s not even mine!” — Rachael Ray

Your girlfriends will BEG you to share your secret with them – they’ll wonder how you turned your guy from a dud to a complete Casanova!

By actually following the tips in Text The Romance Back, you’ll be able to:

  • Make him think about you NON-STOP!
  • Make him miss you and crave you when you’re not around
  • Make him count down the moments until he gets to hold you in his arms again

Your “new” man will:

  • Make sure you constantly feel loved and connected to him
  • Get addicted to romance in a way you never thought possible!
  • Seduce you every chance he gets

Once you watch this FREE VIDEO, you’ll learn the #1 BIGGEST reason you feel more like your boyfriend or husband is your roommate instead of your lover.

You’ll learn that the myths that you don’t have time for romance or that guys just don’t like romance are just that – BIG, FAT LIES!

The truth is, almost ALL men have a sweet side!

And any woman can wake up her guy’s passionate side with just a few clicks on her phone!

So are YOU ready for him to start treating you like the prize you are?

Do you want him to sweep you off your feet, romance you and cherish you in his actions every single day?

Are you ready for the relationship THAT YOU DESERVE?

Then CLICK HERE to learn how your cellular phone is the easiest and simplest way to make your man want to romance you day and night, without fail!

Build Your Relationship With Erotic Massage

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Love and relationships are not anywhere near like the stories depicted in the movies and romance novels. Although they’d have you believe that expressing love is simple and hassle free, if you’ve ever been in a long-term relationship, then you probably know just what it feels like to be with someone yet still feeling alone.

It’s not very often that the movie producers, script writers, and authors explore the loveless side of a relationship. When it comes to battlefields, the bedroom is a common source of tension, suspicions, cunning strategies, defensiveness, anger, submission, and control.

What Happens When Your Relationship Gets Boring

When a relationship becomes complacent, it’s usually because one or both partner’s needs are not being met. For men, that vital need is sex. For women, it’s affection. By vital, I mean that most men and women cannot live a happy and fulfilled life if their most important needs are not met. Many times when a man is not happy with his relationship, it’s because his partner is not providing him with enough quality sex. When a woman is unhappy, however, it is quite often because her ultimate need for affection is not getting met.

No matter how it starts, when one partner’s needs goes unmet, a vicious cycle often begins. For example, if a man fails to provide his female partner with the affection she needs, she will feel neglected and withdraw from him, often turning down his sexual advancements. In turn, the man feels rejected, negative feelings develop, and he holds back his affection towards her.

This cycle is very common between couples, especially those who are married or who have been living together for many years. But the good news is that it doesn’t have to be this way.

How Erotic Massage Can Help

Sensual and erotic massage can give you the tools you need to break the cycle and meet your lady’s need for affection. Through the act of touching your partner, you can heal both your partner and your relationship. In doing so, you will be able to better connect with your partner and strengthen the bond between the two of you.

Not only does erotic massage help relax your partner’s body from the daily stresses of her life (therefore associating you with the dissolution of her negative feelings), it also brings about positive feelings of well being and sexual arousal. When you replace her negative feelings with feelings of sexual arousal, she will become intensely attached to you both physically and sexually. This, in turn, will help her to have better, stronger and faster orgasms.

Yου can use erotic massage and the power of touch to give your partner your loving admiration, love, and support. Wһеn you give your partner the gift of touch, she will have no choice but to let down her walls and open herself to you. Just one session of consciously touching your partner can dissolve years of misunderstandings and neglect, and release feelings of long, companionship, trust, and intimacy.

Love Takes Work

A loving relationship is much more than a few scenes of romantic conflict. It’s a work in progress that needs constant reinforcement and nourishment. Through the art of erotic massage, you can naturally reinforce and nourish the love and intimacy in your relationship and elevate it to an entirely new level—one that promises many happy tomorrows.

How To Win A Woman’s Love

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Love can be fickle – but it doesn’t have to be. The keys to getting a lady to fall head over heels for you isn’t all that difficult to understand – the emotions of a woman are complicated, however, with the right outlook, they’re easy enough to understand and influence. Employ these effective strategies to get the girl you’re after to fall in love with you.

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Slow And Steady Wins The Race

It’s important that you approach the girl you’re interested in slowly, especially if she doesn’t know you or doesn’t know you well. A very strong come on in the beginning isn’t going to work well for you – in fact, it’s very likely to backfire. What you don’t want to do is come off as a creep, because then you could very well be scaring her off for good!

Understand that for a really strong connection to build, it has to start somewhere. It takes time for attraction to build, and if you ever plan on wanting to be in a relationship with this person, you want to make sure your taking the time to build a strong foundation in the beginning. Don’t be afraid to take it slow and let the attraction build naturally. Make sure you get to know her well, and make sure she at least knows that you exist!

If You’re Inexperienced With Women

If you’re shy and inexperienced talking to women, take that first initial step and go out there and start meeting women! Even if they aren’t the “one” that you want to be dating, getting practice talking to women and being comfortable around them will help you to be more smooth and confident when you’re around the lady you really, really like.

Don’t Lose Sight Of Your Own Passions, Goals And Interests

A lot of times what will happen when a guy becomes interested in a girl is he will begin to become obsessed with her. Thoughts of her will end up taking over his mind, and everything he does will somehow be related to her, what she’s doing or where she is. If you want to have any shot with the girl you’re pining over, you have to forget that completely!

Make sure you still have your own goals and passions. Don’t lose yourself when trying to get a girl! That almost never, ever works. She’s not going to be attracted to you if you’re completely obsessed with her. Having your own passions and goals in life (and participating in them actively) is actually the best thing you can do to make her notice you. Concentrate on living your life to the fullest and taking part in things that make you happy. If you’re happy all the time, she’s going to start taking an interest in you. If you’re fun to be around, you’ll really start to attract women!

Get To Know Each Other

In the beginning stages, it’s important for you and the lady you’re interested in to start getting to know each other. You may think you know all about her and you’re madly in love with her, but the truth is, until you’ve really spent some time with someone and have gotten to know them well, it’s really hard to tell if those feelings are genuine. Our brains are excellent at filling in the gaps when it comes to having a crush on someone, so we walk away thinking they’re the love of our lives when in reality, we don’t know them very well at all.

Search for things you and the girl you like have in common. Find out if she even likes you! You cannot force a woman to love you – if you don’t have anything in common or if she doesn’t even really like you “that way,” you can’t force a relationship to come out of it. However, you can “win” a lady’s love if the spark is already there by playing your cards right!

Invest In Yourself

Take some time to make yourself more attractive to women overall. You’re not going to get anyone if you look and feel like a bum! Exercise, eat healthy and nutritious meals and take part in activities that give you confidence and self-worth. Being more confident in general about yourself will automatically make you more attractive to women (including the girl you like). If you don’t love yourself and feel good about yourself first, no one else will either! Also, you ensure that by becoming more attractive in general, you’re leaving the door open for other women – who may be better for you.

The Less You Need Her, The More She Will Like You

You don’t want to be that needy, clingy guy that needs to be around her, be talking to her or be thinking about her to be happy. If you make her your sole source of happiness, she will run for the hills as fast as she can! No girl wants to be the “be all and end all” for a guy. So make a point to “need” her less. This goes back to not losing yourself for a girl and making sure that you still have activities and things that you’re passionate about and enjoy doing. Make time for your guy friends – go out to the sports bar and watch the game with your buddies, or do something else that doesn’t involve her. This will make you way more attractive to her – and it will give her room to chase you a little bit!

Respect That She Can Decide Who She Loves On Her Own

Give her some space. Let her chase you a little – if she feels smothered, she’s going to kick you to the curb in short order. If you’ve done everything you possibly can to win her love and she still doesn’t love you, you’re going to have to recognize when it’s time to move on. If you keep pushing forward when she’s pulling back, you’re going to make yourself out to seem like a stalker! (And you can forget a possible relationship with one of her hot friends if you seem like a weirdo who won’t let go).

She can decide who she wants to love and who she doesn’t all by herself – you cannot force a girl to love you! If this happens to you, concede defeat gracefully and with dignity. Move on, continue improving yourself and doing things that make you happy, and the right one will come along soon enough.

Text The Romance Back Review

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Text The Romance Back is the perfect guide for men who want to bring back the heat in their relationships. Whether your relationship is on the rocks and you need to resuscitate it quickly, or you just want to surprise your significant other with a new way of being ultra romantic, this guide is for you.

The Good

A navigation bar to the left of the screen makes it easy to flip through the different sections in Text The Romance Back. Much easier to navigate through than your traditional e-book that requires you to scroll through all the pages just to get where you want to go.

Michael really understands women and how they think, which is part of what makes this guide so effective. Understanding how women think and feel is the best way to create texts and conversations that get her to open up to you romantically, or to get her to release her inhibitions and feel sexual with you.

Also, for men who don’t enjoy reading as much as they do listening, there are audio files included for both Text The Romance Back and Facebook Romance Secrets. Pop it in your CD player in the car, or upload it to your music player and listen while going on your morning jog!

The Bad

There aren’t a whole lot of bad things to say about Text The Romance Back, except for if you’re looking for a book with nothing but text examples, you’re not going to find it. Michael provides many examples, but he also provides the information to back it up. Take the time to read through the manual, even if only a little at a time. Understanding the material presented is key to making this work!

Also, men looking for ways to turn their partner on sexually will find better use with Michael Fiore’s other guide, Text Your Wife Into Bed. There are some references to sex in Text The Romance Back, but many more in the sexting guide.

The Bottom Line

Text The Romance Back is an excellent guide if you want an easy way to communicate with your lover and bring back the spark you once had together. If the romance in your relationship has faded and the sex just isn’t as good as it once was, you’ll definitely want to check this out!

The Full Text The Romance Back Review

Romance can die in a relationship, but you don’t have to let it. Text The Romance Back is a complete guide to using your cell phone to ignite that spark that used to be in your relationship but is no longer there. The guide is well written and organized, readers can click through the table of contents on a navigation bar to the left of the book, rather than having to scroll through the entire book to get the information you’re looking for.

Michael begins the book with a “who this is for and who it’s not for” and fortunately, he illustrates that almost everyone will be able to benefit from Text The Romance Back. Who won’t? Abusive partners or people who want to try to change their partner or their behavior. Fair enough.

The information age has taken us all by storm, and we’re all pretty much addicted to our cell phones. They’re our outlet to the world – they allow you to check your email, Facebook, texts, chat, the time, etc., etc. Michael suggests that your partner would probably be devastated if you asked them to go unplugged for any length of time, and let’s face it – he’s probably right. So here’s where Text The Romance Back comes in. You’re not going to try to pry your partner away from their cell phone to try to reconnect with them emotionally and physically – instead, you’re going to do it through the cell phone. Crazy? Not so much.

Why Text The Romance Back Works So Well

Women are different from men and respond to different emotional and sexual stimuli. A woman isn’t going to get turned on very much by pure naked porn, while a man will get an erection from seeing a naked woman in just several seconds. Women, however, are more turned on by language. By communicating with a woman in the way that she responds to best – by using words and language – you’re opening her up to more romance, and by proxy, more sex.

This isn’t just a concept guide either – in Text The Romance Back, there are plenty of “why’s” and “how’s,” but even more actual examples of texts that you can use with your partner. This is a must have for guys who aren’t incredibly imaginative or have trouble coming up with things to say. Michael not only gives you an explanation on why texting your partner works so well, but he also shows you exactly what works. Creative guys will have even more fun with this, because they can take the examples that Michael gives and put their own spin on them or elaborate on them.

Curiosity Builds Romance

Sending your partner a sensual or even romantic text isn’t going to work very well if you don’t set her up for it first. Yes, you have to “bait” her. You need to get her interested in the conversation by creating curiosity. Michael shows you exactly how to do that, again, with examples of actual texts you can use to awaken her curiosity and get her texting back and forth with you furiously.

Private Conversations

In Text The Romance Back, Michael says that one of the most effective ways to create romance and passion is to have a secret, private conversation through text when you and your partner are actually in the same room! Silly as that might seem, women actually love this. It’s because women can do many more things at once than men – they can text you and carry on a titillating conversation with you via cell phone, all while putting on a professional front and perhaps carrying on a completely different conversation at the dinner table or at a work meeting. You’ll learn how to ignite her passion by texting her secretly while in the very same room with her and while doing something completely different. She will love it!

“Hot” Words

Michael also gives examples throughout the guide about what words to use and when. He knows which words will trigger what in a woman’s brain, and translates that into the guide in an easy to understand way. While many men won’t initially know how a woman responds to words as simple as “feel” or “remember,” after reading Text The Romance Back, they’ll know exactly what words to say at the right time to get her thinking exactly about YOU!

Long Distance Love

Whether you’re in a long distance relationship for an extended period of time, or your partner has just gone away on a business trip, your cell phones can help keep you and your partner intensely connected – perhaps even more so than if you were physically together! Michael shows you how to build your lover’s anticipation while you’re away through texts, so that the connection between you two when you finally get back together is ultra hot and intense!

Sexting

Michael also writes a companion guide, called Text Your Wife Into Bed. The concept is similar – using your cell phone to communicate sensually with your lover. However, Text The Romance Back is geared more towards relationships, while Text Your Wife Into Bed focuses more on how to improve your sex life through sexting.

Facebook Romance Secrets

No information product is complete without at least one good bonus product, and Michael certainly doesn’t flake out on them. Aside from cell phones, Facebook is one of the most rapidly growing ways to communicate with people on the Internet. Sure, it’s social media and you can “friend” your neighbor, your boss or your old friends from high school. But why not use it to increase the romance with your lover?

The written guide is based on the audio file transcripts, so people who like to read and want to see clear, well organized information (like in an e-book) are going to be disappointed. Never mind that, because the information contained in the audio file is pretty helpful and definitely worth a listen!

All in all, Text The Romance Back is an excellent guide that will help you learn how to communicate with your lover via cell phone and not only improve your relationship, but also improve your emotional and sexual connection with your lover. A must have if you want to have romantic and sexy conversations with your partner through text!