Oral Sex – Page 8

Why Men Love Blowjobs So Much

Oral sex is one of the most incredible, orgasmic sexual experiences a guy can have. Is it better than sex, you ask? It sure can be! Many men report that they enjoy getting great head even more than getting laid – especially if the romp in the hay is less than stellar. This of course explains why most guys will practically get down on their knees and beg you to get down on your knees, but why exactly does a blowjob feel so good for a man?

His Penis Is Like A Big Clitoris

While it’s true that a clitoris has more nerves packed into the tiny little bud, the penis is actually made from the same erectile tissue as a clitoris – or, if you prefer to think of it the other way, a clitoris is made from the same erectile tissue as a penis. So while a penis is technically less sensitive due to not having as many nerve endings, a man’s member is pretty much an oversized clitoris.

You know how great it feels to have a warm, wet mouth wrapped around your clitoris, massaging it to the brink of ecstasy. Now imagine that your clitoris were much bigger than it is – oral sex would feel fantastic, wouldn’t it! You would be able to feel every lick, every kiss and every flick of the tongue that much more.

So guess what? That’s what getting head is like for a guy.

Blowjobs Are Better Than Sex

While a vagina can be just as warm and just as wet as a mouth, there are a few things that a mouth has that a vagina just can’t hold a candle to. The lips and tongue create all sorts of movement and stimulation that a vagina can’t even begin to mimic and of course, the suction. A vagina can’t “suck” like a mouth can and frankly, that’s what most guys crave when they get head. The suction gives them a sensation of their orgasm being drawn out from the depths of their scrotum and when done well, can give them the most incredible climax of their life. So while having sex is great, when done the right way, a blowjob can be so much better.

He Loves The Show

Guys are visual creatures – they get off on seeing sexy things during sex. It’s just the way they’re hardwired and yes, it’s totally different from the way a woman is hardwired. Women have better sexual experiences when their imaginations are stimulated, whereas men have better sexual experiences when their visual systems are stimulated.

During sex, a man is often not looking at what is going on – unless he has a really freaky girl. He might occasionally get to bang his woman in front of a mirror or enjoy some reverse cowgirl action, but chances are, the lights are off and he’s in the missionary position, straining to see his woman’s face as he thrusts. A blowjob, however, provides quite a bit more visual stimulation for a man. Here’s why:

A woman typically doesn’t feel as self conscious when giving head, because she’s often not completely naked. Many girls will give a man a blowjob while fully or partially dressed, making her feel much less insecure about her body. Therefore, the lights usually get to stay on.
He gets to watch himself being pleasured. Yeah, it’s a thing for guys. They like to watch the action happen – especially when they’re involved. Watching a girl go to work on his head and shaft, combined with the sensations she’s creating while licking and sucking him up and down just about tops it for a guy on the sexual pleasure scale.
Eye contact is a huge turn on for guys when they’re getting head. They love it when a girl looks up at him and holds eye contact for a few moments while she’s got her lips wrapped around his penis. For a man, it’s the best.
Girls like to impress their men. A blowjob can sometimes be considered a “performance,” as much as a lap dance or a striptease would be. You can bet she’s going to make sure she looks damn sexy while she’s going down on him – upping the visual stimulation factor even more.

The Emotional Side Of It

While guys often get a bad rap for having non-existent emotions, nothing could be further from the truth. It’s just that men can’t put their emotions into words as well as a woman, nor can they really decode and understand what they’re feeling – but that doesn’t mean that a man isn’t feeling at all.

Getting great head actually plays on many of a man’s emotions, even if he doesn’t realize it. A blowjob makes him feel great, and not just because it feels great.

When a woman gives head, she sumbits to her man. Very few things will make a man feel “manlier” than having a woman get down on him. This is because a blowjob lends the air of submission to the experience – she’s leaning down, taking his most sensitive parts into her mouth and totally serving him sexually, concentrating only on him and his pleasure. This makes him feel like a king!
It gives him the sense of love and admiration for a man. While a woman may feel more like a man loves her when he fixes her car and does chores around the house, a man feels like a woman loves him when she gives him incredible sexual pleasure. When a woman goes down on a man and focuses completely on him and him alone, he derives a great sense of being loved and being admired by the woman giving him oral pleasure.

A Man Is Sexually Driven

Men get many of their physical and emotional needs met during sex, although this is not at all the same for a woman. A woman gets her physical and emotional needs met in a relationship through hugging, kissing, cuddling, talking and sharing her thoughts and feelings. Men can do all of this through sex – after an incredible sexual experience and amazing orgasm, he will feel more connected to his partner and happier in his relationship overall.

A great blowjob will make a man feel like a woman might feel after a great shopping spree in which her man showers her with compliments when she tries on outfit after outfit, a healthy gripe session over lunch where her partner listens to her concerns and validates her feelings and a romantic stroll through the park listening to her partner tell her all the reasons he loves and adores her and how grateful he is to have her in his life.

For a man, receiving a great blowjob is all of these things rolled into one simple act. He will get many of his physical and emotional needs met even in just twenty minutes of getting head, and even more so if his lover is able to make him orgasm while doing so. The better the head, the more it does for him.

So now you know just how powerful incredible oral sex is for a man and why he loves it so much.

How To Get Your Girl To Want To Go Down On You AGAIN

By michaelfiore

A blowjob is a favor. It’s not often that men find a woman who loves to give a blowjob. If your wife or girlfriend is standoffish about giving you oral sex. There are things that you do to increase the odds. Here is a quick guide on how to make her actually want to give you a blowjob AGAIN AND AGAIN!

Right After Your Blowjob

Right after the blowjob there are a few key things you need to do.

1. Help clean up. If she lets you orgasm in her mouth, get her a towel to spit into.

2. If you came somewhere else, it’s your job to clean up. Wipe it off. Show that you’re going to take care of things.

3. Have a positive and THANKFUL and HAPPY attitude. Tell your girl things like…

“That was WONDERFUL.”
“You are AMAZING.”
“Oh my god, thank you so much. That was awesome.”

4. Shower her in affection. Don’t go overboard but really show that you care appreciate what she’s done.

Listen guys, I know you might not love cuddling or hanging out after you climax, but drink an energy drink if you have to, stay awake and make sure she feels appreciated.

The Next Day

The next day is when you really cement the positive experience of giving you a blowjob. If you have my Text Your Wife Into Bed product, use some of the core concepts there to revivify the experience for both of you. Focus on how GREAT she made you feel and how WONDERFUL the whole thing was.

If you don’t have TYWIB, text or email this:

“That was wonderful last night. Thank you.”
“My favorite part was when you ran your tongue along the underside…you looked SOOO sexy.”

KEY POINT: Whatever you do, do not create the expectation that she’s going to do this again. If she feels pressured to make this a regular part of the arsenal, you might lose the fish. You may even want to say “It’s totally up to you if you ever do that again, but it was WONDERFUL.”

You can also focus on how she seemed to really enjoy it. “I can’t believe how wet you were when you were sucking me.” Or “You really seemed turned on.” By bringing the attention to the girl’s own arousal you cement it in her mind.

Days Down The Road

Really all you need to do at this point is rinse, wash and repeat. Continue the games I’ve taught you here. Continue to reinforce the idea of her mouth as a erogenous zone and the POWER of her mouth and tongue to give you pleasure. Remember, you’re basically trying to create a “habit” here and creating a habit requires repetition.

If you let off the throttle the first time you have success, you’ll have a lot more work to do next time. But if you continue at a strong and steady pace you’ll have your wife or girlfriend acting like an “oral enthusiast” in no time.

5 Ways To Start Getting Oral Sex REGULARLY!

By michaelfiore

Oral sex can be a fun way for your partner to show you how much she loves you. If you aren’t getting as much oral sex as you want, use these methods to start getting it on a regular basis.

1. Wake Up The Nerves In Her Lips And Mouth

I’ve never met a woman who doesn’t absolutely LOVE this. Next time you’re in bed or even just kissing your woman, kiss her really nicely and then say. “Hold on a second. I want you to close your eyes and just let me kiss you for a second.”

The key is to get her to just stay still with her mouth either closed or partially open. While she’s laying there (or standing there), take the very tip of your tongue and lightly trace it along her lips. You just barely want the tip of your tongue to touch her lip.

You’re not licking her like dog here or anything like that, you’re just gently caressing her lips with your tongue.Women LOVE this when you do it right.

2. Create An “Oral Fixation”

OK, you remember Pavlov’s dogs? The short version is that Pavlov rang a dinner bell every time he was going to feed some dogs he had. Before long the dogs started salivating when he rang the bell even when there was no food.

We’re going to start doing something similar with your wife. We’re going to start creating a connection between pleasure and the idea of having part of YOU in her mouth. Next time you’re in bed with your woman, take time to really focus on HER pleasure.

If there’s a particular way she really likes you to fuck her, do that. Or you can go down on her, use your fingers. Just focus on doing something you KNOW gets her off and that she really enjoys.

While she’s in the throes of passion, bring your fingers up to her mouth. Just bring them right up to her lips. (Quick note: many women really LIKE the taste of their own vaginal juices. You may want to get your fingers all wet, finger her to an orgasm and then bring your fingers up to her mouth.)

The key is to have her suck on your fingers either WHILE she’s experiencing great pleasure (one hand is getting her off while the other is in her mouth) or directly afterwards.

This is largely a continuation of our last “Trick” but it deserves its own section. If/when she starts to lick and suck your fingers, make sure you give her POSITIVE reinforcement.

3. Use “Outside The Bedroom Talk”

Hopefully you’re in the habit of giving your wife/girlfriend/lover compliments. What I want you to do from now on is start mixing in the occasional comment on her lips, mouth or tongue. So at one point you might comment on her eyes, her hair, whatever else you find sexy about her.

But then slip in something like:

“You have the most gorgeous lips.”
Or “Your tongue really turns me on.”
Or “I love the way your lips feel on my skin.”

You don’t ever need to make a direct connection between this and oral sex. Instead just create the idea in her mind of her lips, mouth and tongue being sexy and beautiful and desirable.

Again, we’re going for more self esteem, power and desirability here. With everything you’re doing, make sure you do it with a smile. Remember, sex is FUN!

4. Show Her What It Feels Like

I know, this sounds weird, let me explain. Next time you’re messing around with your woman I want you kiss your way down her arm. Use your tongue and lips liberally here and really let her enjoy it.

Kiss your way across her palm, up her fingers and then (with a smile, this is FUN) take her finger into your mouth. Eye contact is good here. Really have fun with her fingers. Fingers are actually REALLY sensitive. She’ll probably like this a LOT and may even get into it.

Being the “Receiver” in that way can really help your woman get into the idea of blowjobs being fun for both side.

5. Make It Seem Like Her Idea

OK, as I said way back in the first few pages of this (increasingly comprehensive…man, my fingers are tired) training, one of the reason so many women don’t like giving a blowjob is because of trauma from the past.

A boyfriend or husband or some guy they were dating was too rough with her, made her gag, created a bad memory and ruined it for the rest of us.

So what we need to do to get her to be INTO the idea of giving you head is put her in the driver’s seat and make the whole thing seem like her idea. If you follow the first 4 steps I listed out here you should be slowly warming her up to the idea of her mouth being an erogenous zone and oral being fun.

Now it’s time to give her the opportunity to “take the bait” and make the decision all on her own to give you head.

3 Oral Sex Tips To Drive Her Wild With Razor Sharp Female Orgasms

By lloydlester

Oral sex is one of the best ways to give your girlfriend or wife intense orgasms. And the most wonderful way for her to experience the ultimate excitement is by making her feel you will do anything for her without asking anything in return.

Cunnilingus, in simple terms, is oral sex for women. Cunnilingus gives a heightened sexual excitation in women. If you don’t know how to do this, then it will turn out to be just another forgettable experience for her.

But with these 3 tips below, you will certainly triumph in bed and give her a truly memorable erotic adventure – complete with powerful orgasms, no less!

1. The Art Of Moving Your Tongue!

This can actually be compared to how a cat or a dog drinks from a bowl of water. Try observing these animals when they drink; you will see how their tongues move in and out of their mouths at a really fast pace.

This is exactly what your tongue should do when performing oral sex on a woman and put her in the mood quickly. To bring this intimate mood to the next level, get creative and try out various tonguing strokes (hint: circular strokes produce a tantalizing effect on most women).

2. Humming

To give your tongue some needed rest in between strokes, and to spice things up a little, try the “humming” technique. Make use of any melody that you can think of and hum it, with the position of your head remaining unchanged.

The vibration from the sound you are making will reach the vagina, providing additional stimulation to her clitoris.

3. Sex Toys Can Be Your Best Friends

Here’s a fact: No matter how good you are in bed, sometimes you need a little “help” to maximize her pleasure. Why not bring along something that can help you in bed, like a sex toy? You just need to know where and when you are going to use these.

I would recommend choosing a toy that is intended for anal stimulation. This is one of the most pleasurable sexual acts if done in a proper manner. Anal stimulation, together with clitoral stimulation with your tongue, can provide a deadly “combo” and trigger an intense female orgasm.

By giving your lady the satisfaction from oral sex, you can expect to be amply rewarded with something titillating in return… well, which hot-blooded man would refuse a fellatio (or male oral sex) in return? I bet you wouldn’t!

How To Get Him To LOVE Going Down On You!

By dicksinthecity

Oral sex isn’t something that all men like. If you are dealing with a guy that will not go down on you, there are a few things that you can do to take charge. Here is what real men and women are saying about how to get a guy to like going down on you.

What She Said:

Work With Him

When it comes to oral sex you can’t force anyone to like it but there are a few things you can do to make your guy be more inclined to go down on you. One way is to do it is to go down on each other the same time! The 69 position is perfect! You can start giving head and then swing your hips over to his face.

With mutual oral sex no one can say no, your tongues are already busy. Another helpful tip is to keep your bikini line trimmed, you don’t have to go hairless but you should keep it tidy for him. Speaking of tidy, many women fear of an odor down there and some guys might be squeamish about it too.

But, unless you have an infection, everything one can smell and taste down there is completely fine. Another tip to get your guy to like it more is to let him know how much you like it. While he is down there, moan and tell him what you are enjoying. Lastly, be thankful. Afterwards thank him with a high five or a blowjob! It’s the gift that keeps on giving!

What He Said:

Don’t Expect Him To Know What You Like

Some guys don’t like doing it. It’s true. If you like getting head and he doesn’t like giving it and isn’t willing to learn, then you should move on. Let him hook up with some girl who has self confidence issues with her vagina and doesn’t want to get oral sex.

Some guys are concerned about getting an STD from giving you head. If that’s there deal, then use a dental dam. It prevents any STD transmission from happening and they’re also flavored, so your man will have a tasty treat in case he’s a guy who doesn’t like the taste of your vagina.

I really think for most guys who say they don’t like going down on a girl that it’s really a case of them not knowing how to properly perform cunnilingus on a woman. It’s different for every woman and where women have the benefit of men, who are always all to eager to tell you in great detail how you should be blowing them, many women just expect you to know how to give them amazing head without giving their men even the slightest hint.

He Can’t Read Your Mind!

Men aren’t good at reading what’s on a woman’s mind, do you really think they’re better at reading your vagina? Probably, not so much, if you really think about it. As much as every guy on the planet would like to be known as the “vagina whisperer” that’s just not how it is. Men really want to rock their women’s world. They want you to have an orgasm way more than you do. Society cheers for the importance of a job well done, so he’s probably dying to give you amazing oral sex more than you are dying for it.

So stop expecting your guy to know what your vagina likes. Tell him what to do. Always be sure to frame it in the right way. Don’t tell your guy what he’s doing wrong. Say that you’d like to try something that would make what he’s doing even better. He’ll be down for it. That’s a very subtle yet important distinction.

Give very detailed, explicit and real time instructions. Yes, telling him how to eat your pussy while he’s giving you oral sex, might not be quite as hot as him just automatically knowing how to give you multiple orgasms, but bear with him. If you’re willing to go through the instructional period, you’ll be rewarded with amazing oral sex very soon. Even if it takes a while for him to master, you’ll see immediate dividends as he makes his gradual progression towards giving you oral sex like the champ of your vagina.