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How To Master The ULTIMATE Orgasm!

An orgasm gives some men the impression that the women should be responsible for stimulating themselves. This has always seemed a bit unfair to me, since the woman is providing him with the stimulation he needs to reach orgasm. So shouldn’t he do the same to give her an orgasm? However, when handled appropriately, having a woman stimulate herself can be a pleasurable experience for both her and her partner.

Be A Multi-Tasker

Multi-tasking basically means the man does more than one thing at the same time. For example, he may be penetrating the vagina while also stimulating the clitoris by pressing his pubic bone against, also called “grinding.” This is a great method for the woman to reach orgasm.

If the couple wants to achieve orgasm at or near the same time, this is clearly the best option. Other couples I’ve met with have resorted to taking turns, meaning one partner will climax first, then the other. Depending on how each person best reaches orgasm, this may be a possibility, but for couples that enjoy climaxing together, this may not be a satisfactory option.

Experiment With Her Orgasm

The best thing about clitoral orgasms is that they can be achieved in many different ways. Because the entire area is highly sensitive, experimenting with these types of orgasms can also add some interest and spice to sexual relationships, which may have become routine and boring over time.

The main benefit of experimenting is that you’ll learn just what makes your woman tick—sexually speaking, of course. While some women prefer direct stimulation, others find it uncomfortable and prefer to have the area around the clitoris stimulated instead. Women who have learned how to have an orgasm through masturbation will generally have a much better idea of what type of stimulation they prefer than women who have not.

Know Her Orgasm

As I mentioned above, the clitoris fills up with blood and becomes erect like a penis. This means it’s much more noticeable when a woman is aroused. Because the clitoris does not need to be erect for sexual intercourse to occur, clitoral orgasms will only happen if the woman is properly aroused.

That means some type of foreplay is generally a requirement. With continuous stimulation of the clitoris, it becomes more engorged with blood and this further heightens its sensitivity. As stimulation continues, a point is reached when all of the tension in the area must be released—the point in which an orgasm is experienced.

How To Get Him To LOVE Going Down On You!

By dicksinthecity

Oral sex isn’t something that all men like. If you are dealing with a guy that will not go down on you, there are a few things that you can do to take charge. Here is what real men and women are saying about how to get a guy to like going down on you.

What She Said:

Work With Him

When it comes to oral sex you can’t force anyone to like it but there are a few things you can do to make your guy be more inclined to go down on you. One way is to do it is to go down on each other the same time! The 69 position is perfect! You can start giving head and then swing your hips over to his face.

With mutual oral sex no one can say no, your tongues are already busy. Another helpful tip is to keep your bikini line trimmed, you don’t have to go hairless but you should keep it tidy for him. Speaking of tidy, many women fear of an odor down there and some guys might be squeamish about it too.

But, unless you have an infection, everything one can smell and taste down there is completely fine. Another tip to get your guy to like it more is to let him know how much you like it. While he is down there, moan and tell him what you are enjoying. Lastly, be thankful. Afterwards thank him with a high five or a blowjob! It’s the gift that keeps on giving!

What He Said:

Don’t Expect Him To Know What You Like

Some guys don’t like doing it. It’s true. If you like getting head and he doesn’t like giving it and isn’t willing to learn, then you should move on. Let him hook up with some girl who has self confidence issues with her vagina and doesn’t want to get oral sex.

Some guys are concerned about getting an STD from giving you head. If that’s there deal, then use a dental dam. It prevents any STD transmission from happening and they’re also flavored, so your man will have a tasty treat in case he’s a guy who doesn’t like the taste of your vagina.

I really think for most guys who say they don’t like going down on a girl that it’s really a case of them not knowing how to properly perform cunnilingus on a woman. It’s different for every woman and where women have the benefit of men, who are always all to eager to tell you in great detail how you should be blowing them, many women just expect you to know how to give them amazing head without giving their men even the slightest hint.

He Can’t Read Your Mind!

Men aren’t good at reading what’s on a woman’s mind, do you really think they’re better at reading your vagina? Probably, not so much, if you really think about it. As much as every guy on the planet would like to be known as the “vagina whisperer” that’s just not how it is. Men really want to rock their women’s world. They want you to have an orgasm way more than you do. Society cheers for the importance of a job well done, so he’s probably dying to give you amazing oral sex more than you are dying for it.

So stop expecting your guy to know what your vagina likes. Tell him what to do. Always be sure to frame it in the right way. Don’t tell your guy what he’s doing wrong. Say that you’d like to try something that would make what he’s doing even better. He’ll be down for it. That’s a very subtle yet important distinction.

Give very detailed, explicit and real time instructions. Yes, telling him how to eat your pussy while he’s giving you oral sex, might not be quite as hot as him just automatically knowing how to give you multiple orgasms, but bear with him. If you’re willing to go through the instructional period, you’ll be rewarded with amazing oral sex very soon. Even if it takes a while for him to master, you’ll see immediate dividends as he makes his gradual progression towards giving you oral sex like the champ of your vagina.

Everything You NEED To Know About The Clitoris

By loveandsex

A female orgasm is a mystifying even to a lot of men. By far the most common way for a woman to achieve an orgasm is through direct or indirect clitoral stimulation. To understand why, you must first understand the clitoris.

Just WHAT Is It?

The clitoris is located just above the entrance to the vagina and behind the labia minora. In most women, it is a small nub of flesh that contains a high concentration of nerve endings.

A clitoral hood often covers it. Many men and women mistake the hood for the clitoris itself. But what most people don’t know is that only a small portion of this is actually visible. The remainder of the organ is surrounded by the rest of the reproductive system and extends all the way to the bottom of the pubic bone.

Why Is It So Darn Important?

Two things are particularly interesting about this sex organ. First, all female mammals have one. This is interesting because according to biologist, the sole purpose of this organ is sexual pleasure. That would seem to mean that humans aren’t the only ones who enjoy the way sex feels. And if you’ve ever seen two animals mate, you might agree.

Second, it is made from the same material as the the male genitals. In fact, in men this organ becomes a fullfledged penis after the embryo is exposed to testosterone in the womb. Just like the male organ, the female organ fills with blood and becomes erect during sexual arousal. The clitoral hood is essentially the same as the foreskin.

It’s The Same As A Penis…Say What?

The only real difference between the two —besides location in the body—seems to be that the males use their organ for urination, while the clitoris is not. With that said, it is important to realize that the clitoris is really similar in size to the penis, even though most of it cannot be seen.

Vibrations through the pelvic region caused by intercourse can stimulate the nerve endings in the unseen part of the clitoris, as well, and this can also lead to an orgasm. What many people don’t realize about the clitoris is that the penis alone usually can’t stimulate it. This is due its position within the woman’s body. This makes it extremely difficult for the penis to provide rhythmic stimulation to the clitoris. That means traditional intercourse usually needs to be coupled with clitoral stimulation.

How To Give Your Girl The SQUIRTING Orgasm Of Her Life!

By loveandsex

Squirting can be extremely hot and surprising if it has never done it before. If she has never squirted before, you could be the greatest lover she has ever been with by employing a few simple techniques. Making your girlfriend or wife squirt is not all that difficult when you understand the physiology of how it is actually performed.

A common misconception is that women who have never squirted before are unable to. This is simply not true. Unless there is an anatomical problem or sexual dysfunction, all women can squirt. Here is a quick guide to squirting so your wife or girlfriend can experience the orgasm of her life.

What Is It?

When most men think about squirting, they think that the girl is urinating. This is not true. Although squirting is a clear liquid, it is not urine. It does come out of the urethra and not the G-spot, but the liquid has no affiliation with pee. Before you try to make your girl squirt, there are a few things that you need to be comfortable with.

When a girl is squirting, there is a slight chance that she could pee. Being comfortable with this is essential. Don’t freak out on her if she does pee a little bit. This is fairly normal for girls who have never ejaculated before. Make sure that she knows you are okay with her peeing if this occurs. If she is nervous she will not be able to relax and she will not be able to squirt.

Getting Her Ready

Before you ever try to make your girl squirt, you need to make sure that she is warmed up. In order to put your girl at ease and get her in the mood, you must start off with a lot of foreplay. Shoving your fingers into your girl without getting her ready is never recommended.

Use a lot of kissing and teasing to get your girl wet enough to start fingering her. Suck on her breasts and nipples while running your fingertips up and down her inner thigh. When she starts to breathe harder you will be able to tell that she’s ready for you to start touching her vagina. Again, don’t go straight for the inside of her vagina. Play with her clitoris a little bit and brush the outer lips with your fingers to get her ready.

The G-Spot

The G-spot is going to be the primary way of getting your girl to start squirting. There are a lot of women out there that are so in tune with their bodies that they can ejaculate by just touching their breasts or their clitoris. However, most women will not be able to ejaculate unless they are being stimulated manually through their G-spot.

If you have problems finding the G-spot, there is a simple guide you can follow. Insert your fingers into your woman’s vagina palm-face up. The G-spot is located on the upper-most portion of the vagina about three inches in. The G-spot is a very fleshy textured patch and you should be able to feel it with your fingers. As soon as you touch it you should see your girlfriend squirm a bit.

Making Her Squirt

Now that you successfully found her G-spot it’s time to start making her squirt. Start to curl your fingers as if you are saying “come here.” She should moan in delight. If you start to feel the G-spot fill up and get solid, you’re doing it right. Increase the pressure to her G-spot and start going a little faster.

Take your other hand and press down on the area around her stomach and pubic bone. This will give more pressure to the area and add to her arousal. Take direction from her. If she says go faster, then go faster. If says that she feels like she’s going to pee, tell her that it’s okay and to let go. Within a couple of minutes she should start to ejaculate. You might see a small gush of liquid from her vagina or a stream of liquid.

How To Stop Premature Ejaculation & Enjoy Amazing Sex!

By lloydlester

Premature ejaculation really isn’t all that uncommon. The simple truth is that 7 out of 10 men reading this article are likely to be facing a problem with premature ejaculation, or at least are not lasting as long as they want. There are many guys who are avoiding sex just because of the embarrassment of not being able to last long enough during sex.

There is no magic pill to curing premature ejaculation. But if you are willing to commit yourself to learning techniques that can improve your sexual endurance, you will find your confidence rising and sex more enjoyable! This article will share a proven technique to help you go longer in bed.

A Supercharged Sexual Arousal Is Detrimental To Your Sex Life

Many “premature ejaculators” can go from erection to ejaculation within one or two minutes. That is simply not enough time for a woman to be properly aroused. In fact, most women require at least 10 to 15 minutes of sexual stimulation to be able to achieve an orgasm! The problem with most men suffering from PE is over-stimulation. They simply allow the stimulation to go out of control until it is too late.

A Simple Routine To Improve Your Stamina

Exercise is one proven method to boost your staying power. Masturbation can have a tremendous impact on how long you last. Since their adolescence or teenage years, most men routinely bring themselves to a climax quickly when they masturbate – mostly out of fear of getting caught. Unfortunately this tends to trigger an unintended quick orgasm during real sex.

So the next time you get to pleasure yourself in the bathroom, try this: Apply a strong grip to your penis as you stimulate yourself. This will help reduce the sexual arousal, or at least, increase the amount of time it takes to get you aroused to the same level.

Try to make those self-stimulation sessions last as long as possible using a technique called edging. When you sense you are close to ejaculating, stop the stimulation until the arousal subsides. Then resume stimulation and pull away again when you get close to the “point of no return”. Repeat this process at least 5 times and then let yourself ejaculate.

The next few times you masturbate, incrementally increase the number of times you “stop and start”. This technique works very well in prolonging your orgasm during actual sex. It takes time to practice, but is well worth the effort!