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The Female Orgasm Black Book Review

The Female Orgasm Black Book is a handy guide on how to give a woman incredible, mind blowing orgasms. Your girl will love the techniques i this book! This manual is a plain-and-simple, instructional guide on how to give women mind blowing orgasms. The information is intended to help, men, women and couples achieve female orgasms and have a more fulfilling sexual relationship.

The Good

Lee Jenkins, the author of the Female Orgasm Black Book, seems to know just about everything there is to know about female orgasms! Whether you want to know about female anatomy, the basics of a female orgasm or how to give your girl an orgasm in a variety of different ways, this ebook has more information than you’ll know what to do with! This is truly a “one stop shop” when it comes to learning about female orgasms.

The Bad

The introduction contains lots of useful information, but those looking to get down to business may find it a bit long winded. Also, getting to the big “O” is a two way street – she needs to learn how to be open to receiving an orgasm because if she’s not, your best efforts will be wasted. Unfortunately, the “Tips For The Woman In Your Life” section is a bit short and leaves plenty to be desired if your woman wants to learn how she can best prepare herself for an orgasm. A great companion manual to the Female Orgasm Black Book is Faster Female Orgasm, written by Jessica Perez. Here your partner will learn how to control her own orgasms, so she can have one every time!

The Bottom Line

The Female Orgasm Black Book is a great tool for learning all there is to know about a woman and how she reaches orgasm. Lee understands the importance of not only arming yourself with lots of “tips and tricks” to use in the bedroom, but also with the knowledge of how a woman’s body and mind really works. There’s no way you won’t be a master of female orgasms if you read the Female Orgasm Black Book in its entirety and truly employ the techniques he teaches in the bedroom.

The Full Female Orgasm Black Book Review

Lee starts the Female Orgasm Black Book off with a great introduction, explaining in depth just what exactly an orgasm is for a woman and what it means both physically and emotionally for her to get one. Then he’s off to the races for a very detailed lesson in female anatomy, where he illustrates everything from the all-important clitoris to the lesser known and harder to find g-spot. While the chapter on anatomy may make you feel a bit like you’re studying for a test in advanced gynecology, Lee’s intentions here are hard to argue with. Knowing a woman’s sexual anatomy backwards and forwards will give you quite the edge when it comes time to actually give your lover an orgasm.

For many men, a woman’s g-spot is difficult, if not impossible to find. However, Lee goes into detail with both verbal and pictoral instructions telling you not only how to find a woman’s g-spot but also how to stimulate it and leave her absolutely breathless. He also goes in depth about a woman’s other sensitive spots, because any woman will tell you that going straight for the gold will usually get you nowhere. The Female Orgasm Black Book will tell you exactly which spots on your lover’s body will have her writhing in pleasure, without even touching her vulva!

Perhaps the most powerful section of the Female Orgasm Black Book is the “Female Orgasm Blueprint” found in Chapter 4. Lee takes the elusive female orgasm and breaks it down into sections, teaching you step by step how to bring your partner to orgasm again and again. You’ll find helpful maps and diagrams that actually show you how a woman’s orgasm happens from start to finish. Lee also goes into great detail to explain how a woman’s body reacts to excitement and the things you need to look for to let you know you’re on the right track to giving her the big “O.”

Lee wraps up the Female Orgasm Black Book with lots of helpful tips on how to help your partner become sexually attracted to you, how to get her to relax and open up to having an orgasm and an ultra explicit section on how to perform oral sex on her. Many oral sex oriented guides give vague tips on how to go down on a woman, but Lee actually gives you numbered diagrams and an actual step by step,fool proof instruction manual on how to lick a woman into orgasmic frenzy.

Included with the download of the Female Orgasm Black Book are several handy “special reports,” including:

Best Sex Positions

A short but sweet manual highlighting the best positions for female orgasms, including several positions you’ve never tried as well as some great twists on old classics like missionary or woman on top. Sex positions really are the “creme de la creme” of sex, and this manual will give you ideas on sex positions that you’ve never thought of before! Sex will never be boring again, and you’re bound to find tons of sex positions that will soon become you and your partner’s new favorites.

Orgasm Mastery

A manual full of exercises that you and your partner can do outside of the bedroom to increase her chances of having an orgasm inside the bedroom, such as tongue exercises for you and pelvic floor exercises for her. Learning step by step techniques will only get you so far when it comes to giving her an orgasm. If her muscles aren’t in peak form, it could take longer for hear to reach orgasm, and if your tongue isn’t in great shape, you’re going to tire easily. The tips in the Orgasm Mastery manual will prepare her for great orgasms and you for marathon oral sex!

Female Orgasm Blueprint

A detailed, graphic flow chart that takes you from the beginning of a woman’s orgasm to the end, and highlighting all the stages in between. A must have tool for truly understanding how the female orgasm works. Never before have you seen a female orgasm depicted this way, in an easy to understand flow chart that shows you step by step where she’s at in her orgasm and where she’s going next. An absolute must read if you want to really understand and control a woman’s pleasure.

How To Use Anal Fingering In Your Sex Life

By loveandsex

Anal fingering has become very common among most couples nowadays, whether they go all the way to anal penetration or not. Chances are that while you were performing cunnilingus on your girlfriend or wife, you played with your fingers on her backdoor without her resisting it.

If you want her to be up for more, your fingering technique should be spotless and leave her fully stimulated and wanting more.

Take Care Of Your Hands

There are some things you should take into consideration before going in. First of all, fingers are, unlike a tongue, rough. This is true no matter how baby-smooth your hands are, or how well-manicured. It’s more true, of course, if your hands are rough or not well manicured.

Caring for them ahead of time with some hand-softening lotion and the careful removal of as much fingernail as comfortable is a good idea.

Use Gloves

Rubber/latex gloves, especially the surgical kind, are definitely worth considering, especially if you are just starting to experiment with anal-finger stimulation. The difference it makes is just astounding. Discomfort which was actually assumed to be from other issues (like being thought a matter of penetration itself, or nervous tightness) sometimes disappears completely.

Since the idea here, unlike condoms, is not to actually keep fluids from being passed between you, oil-based lubricants can sometimes be used with latex gloves.

Because there is going to be a lot of skin-on-skin during this type of sexual activity, you should still use a condom for protection. Though, a water-based lubricant (K-9, Wet, Anal-Ease, whatever you choose) might work fine.

How To Finger Her The RIGHT Way

Now that you’re all good and ready here’s how to tackle the situation so that both of you end up satisfied:

Step 1. Use all your fingers to part her buttocks, putting the tips close enough to her anus to do a
little bit of fiddling.

Step 2. Using your pinkies and your index fingers for anchoring let your ring and middle fingers meet each other over the whole, press gently into it, then stroke outwards again.

Step 3. Locate the exact opening. Don’t assume you know where it is, try to make a point of eyeballing it, sometimes even your partner ca be mistaken if they are trying to guide you.

Step 4. Don’t stick any fingers straight away or too fast; you’re not taking her temperature. Lube up before making any attempt at insertion, and then do it slowly and gradually. Go in a couple of centimeters, then slowly pull out again. Repeat as many times as necessary.

Step 5. Wiggle and vibrate your finger a little bit while you’re inside. Concentrate on stimulating the side nearest to her vagina. Once she’s comfortable with it, press along the same wall from both sides toward the rectum from the vagina, and toward the vagina from the rectum. The wall between them is thin enough and you will easily be able to feel your fingers pressing on each other.

Step 6. If she relaxes under your movements, insert a second or third finger, preparing the area for the actual penis.

Should You Engage In After Breakup Sex?

By david

Sex tips are essential when you are breaking up or going through a divorce. Getting back into the groove can be problematic for everybody.

Divorce is trying on emotions and the sex life. But there’s nothing better than that first orgasm you have after a breakup. And we’re not talking about the orgasm you initiate yourself.

For most people, during the course of a divorce or during a marriage that’s not functional, their hand (or vibrator) becomes their best friend. Where do you think the acronym B.O.B. came from?

You know: battery operated boyfriend. It came from women that were frustrated during the process of being separated and getting divorced or breaking up.

Get Over The Frustration

I understand the frustration that occurs—sexually and otherwise—during a breakup. And it’s too bad really. But there’s nothing better than after breakup sex.

It’s almost like going to a car dealer for the very, very first time and smelling that new car smell. There’s nothing better than the new-person smell, especially after the last one was so stinky and old and had too many miles on it. I’ve been there.

I’ve been married 2.5 times, so I know all about after-divorce sex. The anticipation, the build up—oh my god, it’s so good! I’ve got to tell you, the first time you look at another person’s eyes, you look deep into them and you think to yourself “all I want is sex.”

All I Want Is Sex

“I don’t want to talk about the kids. I don’t want to talk about money. I don’t’ want to talk about anything. I just want you to do me, all night long.”

It’s the best foreplay you will ever have.

The first time you sleep with a new person after ending a relationship—whether it’s divorce or just breaking-up a relationship—consider that the person is literally re-taking your virginity all over again.

Some of you have cobwebs down there; it’s been so long. Some of you are really, really rusty. But here’s the deal—and remember this because it’s really important: the first person you sleep with after you separate is the last person you want to have a relationship with.

Don’t Make This BIG Mistake

Think about it. You are full of emotion, full of desire and infatuation. It’s lust.

And a lot of people go into the mistake of getting involved in relationships with somebody right away, because the sex is so good, because that’s what was probably is lacking in your relationship. Usually when people are going through relationship issues, the sex stops.

So, of course, it’s the first thing you want to replace, because you’ve been deprived for so long. But, it’s also the biggest trap. That trap is hot sex. The first person you sleep with after a relationship ends is the last person you want to have a relationship with.

Remember that the next time you have that lust. You need to spend time alone after a relationship ends. You need to go back and get some good sex, have some fun, figure out what life is all about.

Don’t Fall Into This Trap!

Don’t fall into the trap of getting with that person that wants to do you in any way, shape or form—they’re really just feeding off of your sexually energy. Because when we get out of a marriage or relationship, we’ve got incredible sexual energy.

It’s almost like a little kid being let loose on the playground. It’s almost like the first day of school. It’s almost like going to the best buffet in Vegas, all you can eat.

But the problem is, you don’t want to hit a buffet every single night. You certainly don’t want to be in school forever, and you certainly can’t be in Vegas for longer than 48 hours.

So, think about that the next time you’ve got some good after-breakup sex. Or if you are going through a break-up right now, don’t get trapped by that great buffet.

How To Get Your Girl To Want To Go Down On You AGAIN

By michaelfiore

A blowjob is a favor. It’s not often that men find a woman who loves to give a blowjob. If your wife or girlfriend is standoffish about giving you oral sex. There are things that you do to increase the odds. Here is a quick guide on how to make her actually want to give you a blowjob AGAIN AND AGAIN!

Right After Your Blowjob

Right after the blowjob there are a few key things you need to do.

1. Help clean up. If she lets you orgasm in her mouth, get her a towel to spit into.

2. If you came somewhere else, it’s your job to clean up. Wipe it off. Show that you’re going to take care of things.

3. Have a positive and THANKFUL and HAPPY attitude. Tell your girl things like…

“That was WONDERFUL.”
“You are AMAZING.”
“Oh my god, thank you so much. That was awesome.”

4. Shower her in affection. Don’t go overboard but really show that you care appreciate what she’s done.

Listen guys, I know you might not love cuddling or hanging out after you climax, but drink an energy drink if you have to, stay awake and make sure she feels appreciated.

The Next Day

The next day is when you really cement the positive experience of giving you a blowjob. If you have my Text Your Wife Into Bed product, use some of the core concepts there to revivify the experience for both of you. Focus on how GREAT she made you feel and how WONDERFUL the whole thing was.

If you don’t have TYWIB, text or email this:

“That was wonderful last night. Thank you.”
“My favorite part was when you ran your tongue along the underside…you looked SOOO sexy.”

KEY POINT: Whatever you do, do not create the expectation that she’s going to do this again. If she feels pressured to make this a regular part of the arsenal, you might lose the fish. You may even want to say “It’s totally up to you if you ever do that again, but it was WONDERFUL.”

You can also focus on how she seemed to really enjoy it. “I can’t believe how wet you were when you were sucking me.” Or “You really seemed turned on.” By bringing the attention to the girl’s own arousal you cement it in her mind.

Days Down The Road

Really all you need to do at this point is rinse, wash and repeat. Continue the games I’ve taught you here. Continue to reinforce the idea of her mouth as a erogenous zone and the POWER of her mouth and tongue to give you pleasure. Remember, you’re basically trying to create a “habit” here and creating a habit requires repetition.

If you let off the throttle the first time you have success, you’ll have a lot more work to do next time. But if you continue at a strong and steady pace you’ll have your wife or girlfriend acting like an “oral enthusiast” in no time.

How To Get Her To Orgasm Faster During Sex

By loveandsex

An orgasm will depend on a woman’s physiology. The only marker you really have on any timeline is based on how long it normally takes whenever the two of you have had sex in the past. But what if it’s been ages since the last time you had sex, or if she has yet been able to orgasm during intercourse?

Give Her Time

There are some ladies who take a long while to get where they need to be before experiencing orgasm. With such a vast number of factors involved in the process, it is a delicate juggle that may or may not line up on any given night. Some women, however, have the self-knowledge, experience, confidence and wherewithal to climax in record time.

Maybe she can elicit what she needs from her body just by thinking sexy thoughts, or maybe she has a partner that really knows how to get her motor running. Maybe, just maybe, your wife is one of the rare few who barely need any assistance at all! These are the women that the rest of us envy.

Know The Factors That Affect Her Orgasm

Many factors affect a woman’s ability to orgasm, such as her mindset, where she is in her menstrual cycle, any positive or negative sexual experiences she may have experienced in the past, where and how she spent her day, how much stress she’s under, even the things she has eaten or ingested including food, water, drugs, alcohol and/or medications.

Some of these things will affect her positively – fond memories from a smell or a touch can send her right into sexy space, or small amounts of booze might help her to loosen up when she’s feeling anxious. Others, like fatty foods, excess alcohol and many prescription medications, will only serve to dampen her sexual fire.

Find Out If She Orgasms During Masturbation

Ask your lady if she masturbates and experiences orgasm on her own. If she does, she’s likely to orgasm during sexual intercourse far more easily than her non-masturbatory counterparts.

Don’t bother asking her how long she takes as an indicator of how long it’ll take while you’re inside of her though; like you when you touch your own cock, she knows her body so well that masturbation will get her to climax consistently much faster than any other method.

What will help to move things along is extended foreplay before penetrative intercourse – fingering and oral sex are sure to get her nice and warm before penetration. You’ll get her that much further along the path to climax this way, so that her juices are revved and ready to go when you make the transition from foreplay to intercourse.

Find Out What She Likes

Ask her to show you what she does on her own, or what angles, pressure and rhythm she really enjoys. If you can get to know what gets her off solo, you’ll be that much closer to learning what really makes her tick.

All of this information doesn’t truly answer the question though, does it? I’m not avoiding it, I promise. I just want to ensure that you understand all of the factors involved before you start checking the clock and timing your lover’s orgasmic process.

In a nutshell, most women take anywhere from ten to thirty minutes to achieve orgasm during penetrative sex. That time frame doesn’t include foreplay or aftercare, but rather direct clitoral head stimulation or G-Spot play during intercourse.